Because of social engineering, and it's not for the better. Trying to flip the script has been doing more harm than good. Many men don't like masculine women, and feminine men can basically forget about ever having a girlfriend or a stable romantic relationship. Not to mention that emasculated men have trouble functioning in society on a regular basis and are prone to checking out of society, becoming depressed and eventually commit suicide.
But this is all terribly off-topic though.
Ye last off-topic thing from me. If a calm and not agressive man who shows some emotions is feminine for you ,then i have news, my partner is that and I would not change EVER for some macho idiot, so there is the thing on relationships. Thats all.



