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[Sarah1281]

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am and less that are really, really stupid. Honestly, for a final review two or three weeks ago my teacher had to take twenty minutes explaining what 'underrepresentation' and 'misrepresntation' were in media outlets because half the class didn't get it. Even if they didn't remember, the names are pretty self-explanatory!

[Kryyptehk]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

BigBad wrote...

The plain fact is that most women are attracted to strong and confident men.

A strong and confident man doesn't need to shred at a woman's self esteem in order to get her.
He rather would be the kind that raises his surrounding's confidence.

I agree with your first point. If you are confident, you don't need to insult a woman to get her to go out with you. In fact, if you do that, then you are pretty much saying you don't have any confidence and don't feel like you can get a woman without her hating herself.

[Sarah1281]

Herr Uhl wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Whoever said we don't have our insecurities? The fact of the matter however is that if you do want to get in a relationship with women you need to prove to them you are an alpha male so to speak.

No you don't.

'Alpha Male'? That is so outdated and I'm not going to tolerate a guy telling me what I can and can't do, much less insult me.

[Kryyptehk]

Sarah1281 wrote...

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am and less that are really, really stupid. Honestly, for a final review two or three weeks ago my teacher had to take twenty minutes explaining what 'underrepresentation' and 'misrepresntation' were in media outlets because half the class didn't get it. Even if they didn't remember, the names are pretty self-explanatory!

My thought is that everyone is smart in some things and dumb in others. I don't like to say I'm amazing at something because as soon as you say that, something happens that proves you wrong. It's much easier to be relaxed about your intelligence and not take everything so seriously.

Hence why I like learning new stuff.

[KnightofPhoenix]

Sarah1281 wrote...

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am

Well you did meet me, didn't you?

[Kryyptehk]

Sarah1281 wrote...

Herr Uhl wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Whoever said we don't have our insecurities? The fact of the matter however is that if you do want to get in a relationship with women you need to prove to them you are an alpha male so to speak.

No you don't.

'Alpha Male'? That is so outdated and I'm not going to tolerate a guy telling me what I can and can't do, much less insult me.

This. A relationship isn't a war, anyone who has ever been in a serious relationship will know that. You are supposed to be equals.

[Herr Uhl]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am

Well you did meet me, didn't you?

You are both dumb too. You just haven't realized it yet.

[Sarah1281]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am

Well you did meet me, didn't you?

Cute.

I'm not saying I don't know any people smarter than me, just that most of the people I know give off the impression of being less. Maybe they're just not good at school but that is kind of what my world is revolving around for the next three years.

[Costin_Razvan]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Whoever said we don't have our insecurities? The fact of the matter however is that if you do want to get in a relationship with women you need to prove to them you are an alpha male so to speak.

By being strong, protective and responsable yes. But not by being a douche.

Quite true enough actually. I never said once that you need to act like a dick towards them, as the guy in the video does. ( Though if my past encounters with British people are of  any relevance, that might actually work there. )

You do need to be supportive, while also not being in a way...if that makes sense to you.

My best mate once said: To have a good relationship you need to be with a girl you argue with constantly, though in a friendly type of argument, not **** slapping kind of way.

Modifié par Costin_Razvan, 21 mai 2010 - 01:35 .

[BigBad]

I always enjoy terms like "alpha male" "king of the castle" and other outdated terms. It's just so fun to say. But, I find women like to be treated as people, not as 'prey'.

[Kryyptehk]

Costin_Razvan wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Whoever said we don't have our insecurities? The fact of the matter however is that if you do want to get in a relationship with women you need to prove to them you are an alpha male so to speak.

By being strong, protective and responsable yes. But not by being a douche.

Quite true enough actually. I never said once that you need to act like a dick towards them, as the guy in the video does.

You do need to be supportive, while also not being in a way...if that makes sense to you.

No it doesn't make sense at all. You should always be supportive of your partner. If they are doing something that you disagree with or you think will hurt them, you tell them. You do not berate them. Only men who grew up watching sitcoms and believe that is how relationships really are believe that way.

[Costin_Razvan]

Nice thinking Kryytehk, but are you a man or a woman if I dare ask?

Cause the different genders will have different opinions on the matter.

Modifié par Costin_Razvan, 21 mai 2010 - 01:37 .

[soignee]

GUYS WE ARE GOING TO BE HITTING 200 PAGES SOON, I VOTE IMAGE SPAM WHEN WE DO OKAY?

[Costin_Razvan]

Screw image spamming. This discussion is worth every penny.

[Sarah1281]

Herr Uhl wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...

I'll start thinking I'm dumb when I encounter more people smarter than I am

Well you did meet me, didn't you?

You are both dumb too. You just haven't realized it yet.

I'm not sure what your insistence that everyone is stupid is about. You don't have to know everything (you can't) but if you just turn on the TV - it helps to go straight to Fox or reality TV shows - then you realize that you're really not stupid by these peoples' standards.

You do need to be supportive, while also not being in a way...if that makes sense to you.

Yeah, passive-aggressive. Honestly, self-respectng women aren't nearly as rare as you seem to think.

[Kryyptehk]

Costin_Razvan wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Whoever said we don't have our insecurities? The fact of the matter however is that if you do want to get in a relationship with women you need to prove to them you are an alpha male so to speak.

By being strong, protective and responsable yes. But not by being a douche.

Quite true enough actually. I never said once that you need to act like a dick towards them, as the guy in the video does. ( Though if my past encounters with British people are of  any relevance, that might actually work there. )

You do need to be supportive, while also not being in a way...if that makes sense to you.

My best mate once said: To have a good relationship you need to be with a girl you argue with constantly, though in a friendly type of argument, not **** slapping kind of way.

Your best mate is dumb. If you are in a relationship where you argue all the time, you never take down your wall, so the relationship is never serious. It needs to be balanced, both joking and serious. If it is completely joking, the relationship isn't real, if it is totally serious, it is exhausting.

[Herr Uhl]

soignee wrote...

GUYS WE ARE GOING TO BE HITTING 200 PAGES SOON, I VOTE IMAGE SPAM WHEN WE DO OKAY?

Do we have to write in caps?

[KnightofPhoenix]

Baaah, all of you are wrong. The best way to get a woman is to tell her to have a taste of your family's mace...so to speak.

[soignee]

BigBad wrote...

I always enjoy terms like "alpha male" "king of the castle" and other outdated terms. It's just so fun to say. But, I find women like to be treated as people, not as 'prey'.

gosh, there's a novel thought.

[Sarah1281]

soignee wrote...

GUYS WE ARE GOING TO BE HITTING 200 PAGES SOON, I VOTE IMAGE SPAM WHEN WE DO OKAY?

Damn, I still don't have anything...but when I do I intend to spam an entire page to make up for the lack of ability to do so for 200 pages.

[soignee]

Herr Uhl wrote...

soignee wrote...

GUYS WE ARE GOING TO BE HITTING 200 PAGES SOON, I VOTE IMAGE SPAM WHEN WE DO OKAY?

Do we have to write in caps?

YES IT IS NOW CAPSLOCK FRIDAY. OR YOU CAN JUST HOLD DOWN SHIFT, IT'S ALL COOL.

[Kryyptehk]

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Nice thinking Kryytehk, but are you a man or a woman if I dare ask?

Cause the different genders will have different opinions on the matter.

I'm a woman, but I'm a woman who grew up in the South, where women are disrespected. I've not seen one relationship that has worked with the guidelines you set. The relationship may continue, but it won't work. I've seen too many women continue relationships because they think that is the best they can do. Which is BS.

[Costin_Razvan]

Your best mate is dumb. If you are in a relationship where you argue all the time, you never take down your wall, so the relationship is never serious. It needs to be balanced, both joking and serious. If it is completely joking, the relationship isn't real, if it is totally serious, it is exhausting.

Pardon me if I made you get the impression I was talking of long term relationships.

[Kryyptehk]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Baaah, all of you are wrong. The best way to get a woman is to tell her to have a taste of your family's mace...so to speak.

"Have you ever licked a lamppost in winter?"

[Sarah1281]

Kryyptehk wrote...

Costin_Razvan wrote...

Nice thinking Kryytehk, but are you a man or a woman if I dare ask?

Cause the different genders will have different opinions on the matter.

I'm a woman, but I'm a woman who grew up in the South, where women are disrespected. I've not seen one relationship that has worked with the guidelines you set. The relationship may continue, but it won't work. I've seen too many women continue relationships because they think that is the best they can do. Which is BS.

Isn't the womens' perspective the important one when it comes to who they will agree to date? Just like the men's perspective is more important when it comes to who they will date.