elikal71 wrote...
I dont know when people started to think that dark and gloomy was "realistic". I guess at the same time when "all brown and grey colours" was thought to be "realistic". But for the news: if I want realism, I already HAVE a reality! When I play a game I dont need ALL roses and unicorns, but I need the chance to make it mostly good. Like, say, in KOTOR. Or Mass Effect. You can't say ME was a rainbow game! Really. But you could make it good. And your party wasn't all critizising you all the frigging way, and in DA! EVERYONE had an opinion about every damn fart, and I hated the DA party for it.
Everyone was a whiney or ****ing "oh I dont agree with that." Heck, even when I took down the Kings body in Ostagar to burn him and NOT let him rot, Zev and Morrigan disagreed with that - for whatever reasons. If I want a walking jury I'd go to one of those TV shows!
I would expect that, as in KOTOR, I could, over time, influence my companions. And Alistair was the WORST of them all! He CRITIZISED EVERY DAMN thing I decided, but he never wanted to be responsible at any time. I mean, step back, let others make the tough decision, but they STOP the heck ****ing about everything I decide. Its one or the other. He didnt want to lead the Wardens, he didnt want to be King, the only thing he wanted in Loghain dead, so the only time he DID decide anything was revenge. Great. And he, Wynne and that Bard girl with all her Maker mumbling. Maker this, Maker that... well if he unleashes those demons on men, he cant be that great in my book, but they called ME evil when I dont slay a dragon and his followers (in the Andraste cave) JUST BECAUSE HE IS THERE. What hypocrisy is THAT?
Morrigan ****ed at me every damn time I tried to save anyone. "Must we save this xyz helpless innocent again... **** ****". YES WE MUST ITS FOR THE FRIGGING XP!
Really, Zev and Dog where the only ones I liked. Everyone else was a psycho nut, a hypocrite or a whiner in this "party", with whom I wouldn't stay a minute if not for a quest to save the world, which in the end was my only reason to actually BE there and not return to my wonderful Dalish home. At least my ppl got their home in the end, IF humans stick to that, that is. Which, as I know humans, they prolly WONT anyway.
If you're playing as "good" then Zev and Morrigan are poor party member choices. The "good" team is Leliana (hardened or unhardened), Alistair and Wynne. Shale and of course your dog are indifferent to everything (though Shale will stand with Caridin for obvious reasons). Morrigan, Zev and Sten are better suited to assisting a morally questionable Warden.
I've played various characters as "good" and never had the issues you've had. I used Alistair (hardened), Leliana (hardened) and Wynne and I pretty much almost always had approval raises after every quest. (The only reason I bother to harden Leliana is because if you do she assists with helping fight aganist the remaining darkspawn instead of assisting Brother Genitivi with the Urn at the end.)
As for the Urn and Andraste well, it's all a matter of prospective. I'm personally not a religious person but I've known people that are and thus understand their actions. If you also take into consideration the time peroid where this is taking place it does indeed make sense. I believe I read that Ferelden is based off of mideavil England.
All in all it's a roleplaying game and you are in control of your choices. If you make a choice that upsets people then you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. I've never played KOTOR or ME since SciFi type games hold no appeal to me but I throughly enjoyed DAO & DAA. I've played many other fantasy rpgs throughout my life. I think DAO has a good mix of postive, neutral and morally questiionable choices.