Azint wrote...
Another reason why I generally hate people. We all want more but no one wants to deal with responsibilities, relationships go bad because one half or the other just gets sick of dealing with their opposite. I've already been in a relationship that classified as a fling, it was dull because there was no engagement. Everyone is going about distracted by petty subjects, materialism, idolizing, etc. Sometimes I feel everyone should lose something important to them just so realize what they actually need to take care of.
Relationships are hard work. TV and books and movies make it all look so easy, that everything just happens and it's always peaches and sunshine.
The truth is, the more you care about someone, the harder it is to be with them.
I've already lost someone important to me, so I think I can appreciate the point you're making.
Personally, when I think I might have an interest in someone, I always to try to imagine if this is someone I would be willing to go through Hell for, because sooner or later it will happen.
But then again, I've always been sort of a pessimist.