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GuardianAngel470 wrote...
I am indeed a student, but probably not the type you think. At least not if you think I am a psych or anthro major. I do proof read many of my posts but I don't get to all of them. Mainly they are what I want them to be because I've gotten used to only speaking after I have thought something through, at least in cases where pause is acceptable. For everything else I'm am thinking about how what I say will affect another's perception of me, how they will interpret my statement, and what might happen if they misinterpret my statement. If anywhere along that thought process I believe what I am saying will have a negative outcome, I stop speaking.
My understanding of interaction comes as a direct result of what I have been through. When a casual statement can get you into a fight against a person who may or may not be better at fighting than you, you tend to speak carefully. I often make the assumption that the other person is willing to go further than I am (ie, violence), which ultimately leads to me surrendering a point.
My experiences have also made me quite good at reading people, as well as given me a curiosity about people. When you can usually judge when someone is angry (especially good at this one), sad, happy, or indifferent from one sentence, interaction becomes almost easy. As such I have developed the aforementioned curiosity because I am good at finding the answer.
Nice. And as in real-life debates, as you reply to each other's posts a dozen times, you notice bits and pieces that they didn't "think through" before hitting the enter button. Someone who starts to lose proper grammar or throw in an insult or extra "lol" reveals more than they'd like to. I know I won an argument when they call me an idiot (when I'm just arguing, not flaming).
How many trolls in this thread can't even spell.
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