In an old thread about this subject David Gaider said that this would be something that's taken into consideration in the future. That doesn't mean that in the future it will be different or that it even needs to be different but they're aware that for some people this is apparently a big issue that they can't get past.
As I see it, it's not a problem with the game but the players. It being a fantasy game one would think that those who play it are able to suspend their disbelief. I think a comment I made back then about this was something along the lines of "they're not judging your skin color so why are you judging theirs?" You could be Rivaini and adopted. I mean, your sister-in-law as a human noble is Antivan so the Couslands don't seem to have any issues with foreigners joining the family.
As a white female, I find the lack of black and asian looking characters
in this game kinda disturbing. Don't get me wrong, I understand that
it has a very 'medaeval european' feel (so white, white, white) and that
there are racist issues between dwarves/elves/humans. That doesn't
ease my mind much though.
This is where racial hypersensitivity gets pretty ridiculous. Skin color does not play any factor in the game at all so I'm not sure what's so disturbing about it. The facial features exist in the character creator to make black or Asian characters and the skin colors are there too. Mother Malol is clearly Asian and I'm sure there are plenty of other NPCs that make use of the Asian features. How many I can't say, because I'm not counting.
As a half-Cuban half-Caucasian I think you guys need to lighten up (badum ba) on the race thing and try to have fun.