Sandtigress wrote...
Addai67 wrote...
I would add that Alistair doesn't have a very realistic view of his chances to become king, i.e. he doesn't realize how determined Eamon is and thinks it all very improbable. Not surprising since it's been drummed into his head his whole life that he'll never be king. Even right up to post-Landsmeet, he sounds stunned that they're actually doing it.
Call it a fine capacity for denial mixed with a path-of-least-resistance philosophy that many men operate with.
I was actually thinking this same thing. He sounds really shocked when you suggest that he's the heir. His entire fear seems summed around who his father is, rather than who he is as the potential heir to the throne. So it really is all about his family tree rather than about any future on the throne - he's not afraid of that until Eamon makes his intention to put Alistair on the throne clear.
It's why my Dalish girl had no hesitation on that part of things - he said he wasn't going to be king so she believed him. My HNF on the other hand was like "Yeah right...you're the heir!" - that completely put a damper on her attitude towards the romance happening because she had just stopped seeing herself as a title-bearing noble. Too bad her heart told her another thing!
Prett much all my girls react similarly. "Oh, your Dad was Maric, but you want nothing to do with being king? Well ok, glad you told me, and shame on those people that treated you badly over it. Cake?"
Kasha is the only one that does a little /facepalm there. She's done her best to avoid noble's sons and finds out she's in love with THE noble's son of all sons. But the most she does is look to the sky and say "Ok mother! you win!!!"
Past that, they all just figure (except Kasha of course who knows how this crap works) it's not something worth fussing over now, and they'll deal with it if and when it becomes an issue. They have their secrets too (Tamlen, Kinslaying, being a carta thug, killing a noble's son, being a Cousland) that may or may not have been shared yet.