luciusleathordt wrote...
laradenton wrote...
Hmm... You don't seem to get what I'm saying.
One, as has happened, would not expect to see the images that sometimes get posted here, or to read the discussions that are taking place here - remember the expectations? - and because of that the thread feels unwelcoming. These things are not inviting for someone new to open up a dialog.
This. One thousand times, this. There are a couple of times I've been sorely tempted to share my Alistair-pictures that have been burning on my harddisk for ages, but as it is, the tone of the thread has driven me away. Why? Because it feels intimidating for someone who already doesn't hold the membership card to the little backscratchers' club. I've seen at least two newbies posting on-topic to this thread being completely ignored and forgotten, while regulars' off-topic jokes and are greeted with mirth and friendly jibe-wars of epic proportions. Now, I am 100% positive that no one of the regulars purposefully treat newcomers this way; it's just the nature of the beast. I do have to admit myself that on other forums and in the most scariest medium of them all called Real Life, I tend to pay more attention to my friends than complete strangers. But you guys have to understand that from a stranger's point of view that is often frustrating. Sometimes a single "Welcome" can go a long way.
I have to stress that I mean no offense with anything I say. Really. And boy, do I feel bad and stoopid about the fact that my first post in this thread ended up to be about this, and not those Alistair pictures still taking space on my harddrive. See, I'm still optimistic about sharing those pics some day.In this very thread, even.
Please share your piccies! :x
*hands out official Alistairian membership card complete with pic of Nakie Lean Alistair OR Nakie Barbarian Alistair, your choice*




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