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Alistair, post-coronation... and/or Alistair gush thread (Origins/Awakening Spoilers)


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sylvanaerie wrote...

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There is also the fact that, as much as I liked this play through, I never had the same identification with my Beth Cousland as with her male counterpart who married Anora. So whatever I say may seem bland or uninteresting to you.


Maybe not! I think you did a really great job on making Michael and Anora's relationship believable and interesting, and I know that you're a very thoughtful player. Most Alistair/Cousland stories are really romance focused, it would be cool to hear the opinion of someone who would be thinking outside of that box. 


As I wrote above. The feeling I got from my play is that Alistair acts like a very young person. If he is in love with the PC, then really this is probably his first big love. So he and the PC go through this big adventure, fall head over heels in love and than have a fairy tale wedding as heroes. How can normal life possibly top that? 

How many times does your first big love end up being the one you are mature enough to handle well? How many times does falling in love and getting married young end up in a divorce and a more mature second relationship when you get a little older?

If I was to ever write a FCousland/Alistair fic it would probably be about the inherent problems in such a fairy tale romance. Two young persons fall in love, but then they wake up to discover that being King and Queen is loads of work and duty and very little romance. Can they overcome that and learn to appreciate reality together, or will it fall apart when it's no longer just an adventure and a rosy fantasy?


I'd read that.  As long as it ends on a positive note.  I hate sad endings Posted Image


I would read that too. I enjoy stories like that, and that's often how I see my married Alistair/Cousland ending. Once life becomes more mundane and the newness of the romance wears off (the third year in a romance is usually especially hard), how do they cope with ruling the country and the reality of their relationship? I think it would make for some fine reading!

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Unfortunately, acting rationally isn't always aquired with maturity, a lot of people go their whole lives giving into what they want or feel like in the moment.


I think Sarah was just referring to this part. Not that Alistair is this, but that someone who is this she wouldn't necessarily say was mature. I think. Certainly correct me if I'm wrong.

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But I'm not really looking for a debate on the subject. The first part of the quote was about Alistair but the part that was relevant to what I said was that it is possible to be mature without being rational which I disagree with.


If you're not looking to discuss, why comment?  *is confused*

Well there isn't much point in discussing whether you have to act rationally to be considered mature or not since it has nothing to do with Alistair now is there? I am not calling Alistair immature or irrational just that he has moments where he acts in an immature or irrational manner but that goes for everybody in the game and IRL so what is there to discuss? 


This is obviously where somehow things were not explained clearly since I was under the impression we were discussing Alistair.  Since, you know, others were discussing exactly that, and I assumed since you commented you were also discussing that.  Here, in the Alistair thread.

Silly me!

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I do see Alistair as being more rational than irrational. There are very few moments where he lets himself give into what he wants over what he feels he should do. One of those is keeping his birth a secret, the other is the Landsmeet. There may be a few others, but those are the primary two events where I see him acting more on what he desires than what he knows rationally would be in good interest in the larger picture.


Is keeping his birth a secret irrational, though?  It's not as if he doesn't have cause for wanting to keep it hidden.  Not the best judgement, maybe, but hardly irrational.

Same thing with the Landsmeet.  It's an extreme, visceral reaction, but is it really irrational?


It depends on what definition you're using for rational. If rational is being sensible and reasonable, then he would be open to discuss the reasons why it might or might not be a good choice to bring Loghain into the Wardens. I think he's perfectly justified in the behavior he displays at the Landsmeet, and that it's actually a very good thing for him to do (even though it was incredibly bad timing!). All his life he's let other people's wants rule what becomes of him, and this is the first real time he steps up and says "NO, I want THIS."  So I completely agree with his action, I just don't see it as rational. I definitely don't see it as being immature, either.

Regarding the secret of his birth -- If he really had thought it through, he would know that Loghain knows the secret of his birth, and if Loghain knows he is one of the two wardens that were left alive, this is very important information to share. Of course, again I feel he's perfectly justified in keeping the information to himself! :D

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sabreene wrote...

sylvanaerie wrote...

Xandurpein wrote...

SurelyForth wrote...

Xandurpein wrote...

There is also the fact that, as much as I liked this play through, I never had the same identification with my Beth Cousland as with her male counterpart who married Anora. So whatever I say may seem bland or uninteresting to you.


Maybe not! I think you did a really great job on making Michael and Anora's relationship believable and interesting, and I know that you're a very thoughtful player. Most Alistair/Cousland stories are really romance focused, it would be cool to hear the opinion of someone who would be thinking outside of that box. 


As I wrote above. The feeling I got from my play is that Alistair acts like a very young person. If he is in love with the PC, then really this is probably his first big love. So he and the PC go through this big adventure, fall head over heels in love and than have a fairy tale wedding as heroes. How can normal life possibly top that? 

How many times does your first big love end up being the one you are mature enough to handle well? How many times does falling in love and getting married young end up in a divorce and a more mature second relationship when you get a little older?

If I was to ever write a FCousland/Alistair fic it would probably be about the inherent problems in such a fairy tale romance. Two young persons fall in love, but then they wake up to discover that being King and Queen is loads of work and duty and very little romance. Can they overcome that and learn to appreciate reality together, or will it fall apart when it's no longer just an adventure and a rosy fantasy?


I'd read that.  As long as it ends on a positive note.  I hate sad endings Posted Image


I would read that too. I enjoy stories like that, and that's often how I see my married Alistair/Cousland ending. Once life becomes more mundane and the newness of the romance wears off (the third year in a romance is usually especially hard), how do they cope with ruling the country and the reality of their relationship? I think it would make for some fine reading!


Xan has such a refreshing and mature outloook on things (I love his Anora/PCCousland stories) that I know he would do any tale he wrote justice.  Posted Image

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This is the best thing EVER.


OOOO I see what that is now, its Picard (a big picture) facepalming but its made up of a bunch of little facepalms.  Cleverly done!

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LOL...that took me a while too. I've been staring at it for like 10 minutes, and dind't get it until I zoomed in and saw an itty bitty Saddam Hussein facepalming.

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sabreene wrote...

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I do see Alistair as being more rational than irrational. There are very few moments where he lets himself give into what he wants over what he feels he should do. One of those is keeping his birth a secret, the other is the Landsmeet. There may be a few others, but those are the primary two events where I see him acting more on what he desires than what he knows rationally would be in good interest in the larger picture.


Is keeping his birth a secret irrational, though?  It's not as if he doesn't have cause for wanting to keep it hidden.  Not the best judgement, maybe, but hardly irrational.

Same thing with the Landsmeet.  It's an extreme, visceral reaction, but is it really irrational?


It depends on what definition you're using for rational. If rational is being sensible and reasonable, then he would be open to discuss the reasons why it might or might not be a good choice to bring Loghain into the Wardens. I think he's perfectly justified in the behavior he displays at the Landsmeet, and that it's actually a very good thing for him to do (even though it was incredibly bad timing!). All his life he's let other people's wants rule what becomes of him, and this is the first real time he steps up and says "NO, I want THIS."  So I completely agree with his action, I just don't see it as rational. I definitely don't see it as being immature, either.

Regarding the secret of his birth -- If he really had thought it through, he would know that Loghain knows the secret of his birth, and if Loghain knows he is one of the two wardens that were left alive, this is very important information to share. Of course, again I feel he's perfectly justified in keeping the information to himself! :D


Fair enough.  I don't think things are necessarily either/or when it comes to being irrational/rational.  There are shades of both.  I think in both cases, he had reasons for doing what he did, and the reasons were sound (to varying extents) and that keeps the actions from being truly irrational.  Though the Landsmeet is very close to that line.

As for hiding his birth, whether Loghain knows or not seems to have no factor in his decision not to tell you.  It doesn't even occur to him.  It's not until you, the PC, bring it up that he realizes the consequences might be more far-reaching than he thought.  He hides it because he doesn't want  you to change how you treat him.  All his experience has taught him A will happen if he does B.  He doesn't want that, so he doesn't do B.  It's not the best use of judgement, but it's not irrational.

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There are so many angles to this. And every one is entitled to write their own story. If I came across as implying that the Alistair romance is somehow unrealistically rosy, that is not what I meant.

I was merely asked a question about how I feel about writing a story myself. If I wrote a story, I think the DR may be something that maybe FCousland could supress or ignore when she is newly in love, but it would come back to haunt her later. That's how I see my PC react.

I like writing about people maturing. That's what I tried to do in my Anora/MCousland story. But please don't take my suggestion how I would write a Alistair/FCousland story as a claim to somehow having a blueprint for it would always be.

Ah, so you're talking about what makes for a good story?  Personally the Cousland story is not my favorite of the game, though it does have plenty of inherent drama.  And as you say, punk Cousland femme fatale and idealistic bastard prince are in for some rude awakenings as both a married couple and a ruling pair.  Anyone in that situation would be.

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LadyDamodred wrote...

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I'm not disagreeing with you.  But I think in a medieval setting, everyone grows up a little faster.Alistair does seem young, even for his age.  And yes, it does explain a lot.

I don't know that I'd say that.  Perhaps because I don't equate being sheltered with being immature.  The monastic life teaches discipline and maturity of its own kind, an inner experience if you will.  Alistair mentions this when he talks about his templar training.  It's not worldly experience, but it's not like his life would have been completely cut off, either.  He participated in tourneys, saw a Harrowing, so it's not like he was completely locked away.  Plus he also had a more varied childhood as ward of a noble than would, say, the city elf PC.

But maybe I'm not following you and you're thinking of something else.


He's not immature, not even a little.  *searches for how to explain what she means*

What I mean by sheltered or young, is that for all the experience he has had, he very much sees the world through veil of innocence and trust.  He is shocked at the depths to which people can sink.  When you harden him, that's basically what you're helping him to understand.  It's a sort of "growing up" that most people his age have probably already been through.

I think we probably think similarly to this, and it's just word choices that might be throwing us off.


Ok, I'm tracking.  I would say he has this innocence and trust towards certain kinds of people- he expects nobles to act noble and family to act loving- but at other times he can be quite cynical.  Example, when the blood mage in the Tower talks about going to the Chantry for mercy.  *ponders some more*

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Addai67 wrote...

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He's not immature, not even a little.  *searches for how to explain what she means*

What I mean by sheltered or young, is that for all the experience he has had, he very much sees the world through veil of innocence and trust.  He is shocked at the depths to which people can sink.  When you harden him, that's basically what you're helping him to understand.  It's a sort of "growing up" that most people his age have probably already been through.

I think we probably think similarly to this, and it's just word choices that might be throwing us off.


Ok, I'm tracking.  I would say he has this innocence and trust towards certain kinds of people- he expects nobles to act noble and family to act loving- but at other times he can be quite cynical.  Example, when the blood mage in the Tower talks about going to the Chantry for mercy.  *ponders some more*


I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

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I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?

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O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?

Don't make an elven male PC? :P

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I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


Mmmm, you're right there.

My only suggestion is stealing a head from an npc and teaking it.

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Addai67 wrote...

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


Sorry, no.  My husband made an elven male mage, and it may have been the most offensive thing I have ever seen. Posted Image

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Addai67 wrote...

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


Sorry, no.  My husband made an elven male mage, and it may have been the most offensive thing I have ever seen. Posted Image

Do you have any XBox screenshots of it? Posted Image

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Addai67 wrote...

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I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


I think him speaking up when you turn yourself over to Cauthrien is a sign of...something. I'd expect him to be ok with surrender at that point, and the way he puts it (Ser Cauthrien being all that stands in the way) is harsher than I'd expect from him.

As for elven males, I think widening the jaw and chin (and not making the nose too dainty) helps quite a bit.

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LadyDamodred wrote...

sabreene wrote...

LadyDamodred wrote...

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I do see Alistair as being more rational than irrational. There are very few moments where he lets himself give into what he wants over what he feels he should do. One of those is keeping his birth a secret, the other is the Landsmeet. There may be a few others, but those are the primary two events where I see him acting more on what he desires than what he knows rationally would be in good interest in the larger picture.


Is keeping his birth a secret irrational, though?  It's not as if he doesn't have cause for wanting to keep it hidden.  Not the best judgement, maybe, but hardly irrational.

Same thing with the Landsmeet.  It's an extreme, visceral reaction, but is it really irrational?


It depends on what definition you're using for rational. If rational is being sensible and reasonable, then he would be open to discuss the reasons why it might or might not be a good choice to bring Loghain into the Wardens. I think he's perfectly justified in the behavior he displays at the Landsmeet, and that it's actually a very good thing for him to do (even though it was incredibly bad timing!). All his life he's let other people's wants rule what becomes of him, and this is the first real time he steps up and says "NO, I want THIS."  So I completely agree with his action, I just don't see it as rational. I definitely don't see it as being immature, either.

Regarding the secret of his birth -- If he really had thought it through, he would know that Loghain knows the secret of his birth, and if Loghain knows he is one of the two wardens that were left alive, this is very important information to share. Of course, again I feel he's perfectly justified in keeping the information to himself! :D


Fair enough.  I don't think things are necessarily either/or when it comes to being irrational/rational.  There are shades of both.  I think in both cases, he had reasons for doing what he did, and the reasons were sound (to varying extents) and that keeps the actions from being truly irrational.  Though the Landsmeet is very close to that line.

As for hiding his birth, whether Loghain knows or not seems to have factor in his decision not to tell you.  It doesn't even occur to him.  It's not until you, the PC, bring it up that he realizes the consequences might be more far-reaching than he thought.  He hides it because he doesn't want  you to change how you treat him.  All his experience has taught him A will happen if he does B.  He doesn't want that, so he doesn't do B.  It's not the best use of judgement, but it's not irrational.


I agree, things are not black and white. I think you can be a fairly rational person and have moments of irrationality. It's what makes us human. And there are "buttons" everyone has that can turn a logical, mature person into a screaming, tantrum-throwing child. Okay, a little exaggeration there, but just never EVER joke with my mother about women shaving their head, mmkay?

Regarding the Landsmeet,  I think sound reasons can be found when thinking back on it, but during the moment it was a completely emotional, gut decision which to me points to a lack of reasoning when the decision was made.

On hiding his birth -- I can see how that wouldn't be irrational. I'm sure he gave that a lot of thought and debated with himself quite often as to when and if he should tell.  And I agree that his one big reason was that he doesn't want how the PC treats him to change.  From past experience he is sure of what will happen. I actually never have a problem with him for this, because I empathize with him. But I can understand those people that are annoyed by it.  Instead of looking globally he doesn't step outside the realm of how it will affect him - more, the global aspect of it never even occurs to him.

He doesn't really even consider the local ramifications, say, if you're in a romance with him how it might have been important to know. *ponders* I know this stems from his thinking he will never be king, and that it will never come up. Which isn't really acting irrationaly, it's more like seeing the world with blinders on. It really doesn't occur to him that he's next in line for the throne. I like to think that is just a factor from his upbringing, and that as he grows and sees the concequences of peoples actions in the world at large, he learns to see the world with a larger scope.

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Addai67 wrote...

LadyDamodred wrote...

I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


onlyh good lookign Male Elf I ahve seen is Ron  *looks around furtively for Sandi*

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sabreene how would your mother act if you brought a woman with a shaved head home?

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sylvanaerie wrote...

Addai67 wrote...

LadyDamodred wrote...

I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


onlyh good lookign Male Elf I ahve seen is Ron  *looks around furtively for Sandi*

 Nelaros doesn't make the cut? He's a male elf that everyone in game seems to find attractive.
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I think Soris is a lot better looking than Nelaros. Nelaros creeped me out a little.

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Sarah1281 wrote...

sylvanaerie wrote...

Addai67 wrote...

LadyDamodred wrote...

I can see that.  Like you say, with the that blood mage.  He's pretty open and knowing of that fact that she will never be accepted by the chantry, that they would just kill her.

Hmmm.  What other examples?  I'm drawing a blank besides that one.

He expects the worst from both Zevran and Shale.  I think his "friendly despot" line in the Landsmeet is pretty cynical.  Overall he seems highly skeptical of Anora.

I might think of some more.

O/T:  Does anyone have advice on making an elven male PC not look like a dork?


onlyh good lookign Male Elf I ahve seen is Ron  *looks around furtively for Sandi*

 Nelaros doesn't make the cut? He's a male elf that everyone in game seems to find attractive.
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no he doesn't. Sorry.  Okay I do know one elf in game who IS a cutie and thats Soris.  But I think that has a lot to do with his personality too.  He's just so goofy ya gotta love him.  CEF is my second favorite origin.
*Edit* OH and that guy in the alienage you give the conscription to from the Mercenary quests. Varel Baern or somethign like that.  THe one that looks like an Elven Bryland.

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I think Soris is a lot better looking than Nelaros. Nelaros creeped me out a little.


Here, here, I agree. I liked Soris. Nelaros... I had to mod. I was creeped out staring into his face.


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