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[Dark Lilith]

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Mr.Skar wrote...

Those types are a disgrace to real men everywhere really. There's no other way to put it.

its power, not sex that men rape women or other men for. My opinion is that they lack self respect for themselves and take it out on another to make themselves feel good about themselves...does that make sense?

Maybe. I think motives would vary from feeling genuinely superior, hate (read fear), feeling inferior, or just being drunk and not caring.
There's really no excuse though and I don't want to feel sorry for them.

I had to forgive them in order to bring peace back into my life.I cannot say what I did would apply to you nor another rape victim but its what I had to do to be free of them. You see they got away with it as the law could not prove they did it. Fortunately my older brother punished them one at a time,unfortunately he got six years in prison for doing so but he says it was worht it because it sent a message to them and others.His friends then looked after me.I feel regret to this day for him only because of his sacrifice for me.I love him beyond belief and we are very close as we should be.

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you. It's good to know you have such a loving brother and friends there for you. Forgiving them is a truly good and admirable thing to have done. 
I didn't tell anyone.

you told us here and that is a big step forward,believe me I know. I don't know you but I love you all the same!

[Ziggy]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Mr.Skar wrote...
Those types are a disgrace to real men everywhere really. There's no other way to put it.

its power, not sex that men rape women or other men for. My opinion is that they lack self respect for themselves and take it out on another to make themselves feel good about themselves...does that make sense?

Maybe. I think motives would vary from feeling genuinely superior, hate (read fear), feeling inferior, or just being drunk and not caring.
There's really no excuse though and I don't want to feel sorry for them.

I had to forgive them in order to bring peace back into my life.I cannot say what I did would apply to you nor another rape victim but its what I had to do to be free of them. You see they got away with it as the law could not prove they did it. Fortunately my older brother punished them one at a time,unfortunately he got six years in prison for doing so but he says it was worht it because it sent a message to them and others.His friends then looked after me.I feel regret to this day for him only because of his sacrifice for me.I love him beyond belief and we are very close as we should be.

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you. It's good to know you have such a loving brother and friends there for you. Forgiving them is a truly good and admirable thing to have done.
I didn't tell anyone.

you told us here and that is a big step forward,believe me I know. I don't know you but I love you all the same!

I know what you mean :wub:I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

I never expected this but i think it was good for me. Thank you.

Modifié par Em23, 30 avril 2010 - 01:28 .

[Statulos]

If some individual, just by pure bad luck get his testicles removed with a machete and preserved in a jar of formaldehyde; let´s say that I will not feel sorry for him.

[Dark Lilith]

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Mr.Skar wrote...
Those types are a disgrace to real men everywhere really. There's no other way to put it.

its power, not sex that men rape women or other men for. My opinion is that they lack self respect for themselves and take it out on another to make themselves feel good about themselves...does that make sense?

Maybe. I think motives would vary from feeling genuinely superior, hate (read fear), feeling inferior, or just being drunk and not caring.
There's really no excuse though and I don't want to feel sorry for them.

I had to forgive them in order to bring peace back into my life.I cannot say what I did would apply to you nor another rape victim but its what I had to do to be free of them. You see they got away with it as the law could not prove they did it. Fortunately my older brother punished them one at a time,unfortunately he got six years in prison for doing so but he says it was worht it because it sent a message to them and others.His friends then looked after me.I feel regret to this day for him only because of his sacrifice for me.I love him beyond belief and we are very close as we should be.

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you. It's good to know you have such a loving brother and friends there for you. Forgiving them is a truly good and admirable thing to have done.
I didn't tell anyone.

you told us here and that is a big step forward,believe me I know. I don't know you but I love you all the same!

I know what you mean :wub:I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

I never expected this but i think it was good for me. Thank you.

A very close friend told me this and it made sense when she told me and it still makes sense today. " When you confront your demons they lose their power over you." When she said that to me it allowed me to forgive them and to move on with my life. I hope and pray you can do so as well.If you like I'll PM you my yahoo IM addy if you want to talk.Not now if you don't want to but anytime I'd be more than happy to help you if I can.

[Ziggy]

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Mr.Skar wrote...
Those types are a disgrace to real men everywhere really. There's no other way to put it.

its power, not sex that men rape women or other men for. My opinion is that they lack self respect for themselves and take it out on another to make themselves feel good about themselves...does that make sense?

Maybe. I think motives would vary from feeling genuinely superior, hate (read fear), feeling inferior, or just being drunk and not caring.
There's really no excuse though and I don't want to feel sorry for them.

I had to forgive them in order to bring peace back into my life.I cannot say what I did would apply to you nor another rape victim but its what I had to do to be free of them. You see they got away with it as the law could not prove they did it. Fortunately my older brother punished them one at a time,unfortunately he got six years in prison for doing so but he says it was worht it because it sent a message to them and others.His friends then looked after me.I feel regret to this day for him only because of his sacrifice for me.I love him beyond belief and we are very close as we should be.

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you. It's good to know you have such a loving brother and friends there for you. Forgiving them is a truly good and admirable thing to have done.
I didn't tell anyone.

you told us here and that is a big step forward,believe me I know. I don't know you but I love you all the same!

I know what you mean :wub:I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

I never expected this but i think it was good for me. Thank you.

A very close friend told me this and it made sense when she told me and it still makes sense today. " When you confront your demons they lose their power over you." When she said that to me it allowed me to forgive them and to move on with my life. I hope and pray you can do so as well.If you like I'll PM you my yahoo IM addy if you want to talk.Not now if you don't want to but anytime I'd be more than happy to help you if I can.

That's so kind of you  I don't use IM but I am touched by your offer. It's so nice to find such kind people in random threads like this.

[Dark Lilith]

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Em23 wrote...

Dark Lilith wrote...

Mr.Skar wrote...
Those types are a disgrace to real men everywhere really. There's no other way to put it.

its power, not sex that men rape women or other men for. My opinion is that they lack self respect for themselves and take it out on another to make themselves feel good about themselves...does that make sense?

Maybe. I think motives would vary from feeling genuinely superior, hate (read fear), feeling inferior, or just being drunk and not caring.
There's really no excuse though and I don't want to feel sorry for them.

I had to forgive them in order to bring peace back into my life.I cannot say what I did would apply to you nor another rape victim but its what I had to do to be free of them. You see they got away with it as the law could not prove they did it. Fortunately my older brother punished them one at a time,unfortunately he got six years in prison for doing so but he says it was worht it because it sent a message to them and others.His friends then looked after me.I feel regret to this day for him only because of his sacrifice for me.I love him beyond belief and we are very close as we should be.

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you. It's good to know you have such a loving brother and friends there for you. Forgiving them is a truly good and admirable thing to have done.
I didn't tell anyone.

you told us here and that is a big step forward,believe me I know. I don't know you but I love you all the same!

I know what you mean :wub:I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

I never expected this but i think it was good for me. Thank you.

A very close friend told me this and it made sense when she told me and it still makes sense today. " When you confront your demons they lose their power over you." When she said that to me it allowed me to forgive them and to move on with my life. I hope and pray you can do so as well.If you like I'll PM you my yahoo IM addy if you want to talk.Not now if you don't want to but anytime I'd be more than happy to help you if I can.

That's so kind of you  I don't use IM but I am touched by your offer. It's so nice to find such kind people in random threads like this.

you can always find me here if you want to talk and this entire exchange has made me very happy( to stay on topic) kind of...lol

[Hattie]

Em23 wrote...

I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

Some heavy stuff in this tread. I don't feel like i can comment on that other than to say you both have my full support and sympathies and that while it's horrible to have happened it's warming to see such constructive and thoughtful exchanges.

But how's your face?

[snarky kitteh reborn]

i got drunk. that made me happy.

[Ziggy]

Hattie wrote...

Em23 wrote...
I actually came to this thread because I cycled face first into the boom gate on my way home from uni last night. I wish I could say I was blind drunk or something but no, I just somehow managed not to see the thick fluorescent yellow tube until it was too late.

Some heavy stuff in this tread. I don't feel like i can comment on that other than to say you both have my full support and sympathies and that while it's horrible to have happened it's warming to see such constructive and thoughtful exchanges.
But how's your face?

Well I got a decent split lip, which, on the up side, makes me look kind of hard core (i normally look kind of girly so it's an interesting contrast) but on the down side I can't smile. I've been meaning to post a pic in that da gamer pics thread maybe i'll do that now. it's kind of funny really.

edit: seems that thread got locked. oh well

Modifié par Em23, 30 avril 2010 - 02:28 .

[Statulos]

Hardcore? Like Morbid Angel hardcore?

[Mr.Skar]

Statulos wrote...

Hardcore? Like Morbid Angel hardcore?

Nah, probably more Fight Club hardcore.

[Ziggy]

Statulos wrote...

Hardcore? Like Morbid Angel hardcore?

*looks up morbid angel* Haha no it would take more than a split lip to do that. It just looks like i got into a fight (with another person that is not a boom gate) in pleasing contrast to my otherwise fairly innocent and harmless looks. Adds an edge i think. Though maybe it just looks like i got beaten up. i don't know.

[Statulos]

Mr.Skar wrote...

Statulos wrote...

Hardcore? Like Morbid Angel hardcore?

Nah, probably more Fight Club hardcore.

Nihilist image is always a good one.

[Levi28001]

Em23's signature pissed me off today... except for lesbian of course.

[Hattie]

Levi28001's comment about Em23's signature pissing him off pissed me off today.

[Busomjack]

Some homeless guy asked me for money. I hate it when street vermin try to mooch off me to fuel their tobacco and alcohol addictions.

[Taiko Roshi]

No **** i n g patch for DA:O. Seriously, these guys are a bunch of useless **** i n g ****s.

[Dark Lilith]

the sky is clear and sunny,its warm,a truely beautiful day

[Loerwyn]

As for me... Happy: Not much. Pi**ed off: Headache. All day.

Modifié par OnlyShallow89, 30 avril 2010 - 11:04 .

[Statulos]

I am not socialy disruptive, homophobes ares.

[addiction21]

Ignore them and they die.



Happy: THREE DAY WEEKEND!!!! and it looks like its going to be nice out.

[SomebodyNowhere]

pissed:Got a trojan last night that basically made me incapable of doing anything on my computer,

happy:luckily I was able to quarantine it and then turn back my comp by a few days and things are looking fine now.

[Stanley Woo]

Bad: highly inappropriate language and insults in a thread. Threads removed, 24-hour bans handed out. Remember, please, that quoting inappropriate language without editing it is the same as posting it.



Good: Someone reported it to a Moderator.



Also good: Heading to Calgary tomorrow for the lacrosse playoff game.

[Cerrydd]

Pissed: I'm too lazy to get out and buy a present for my mom's birthday.



Happy: Her birthday is tomorrow, so I'll have another chance to buy something tomorrow.