Just read through some of this because I've been having the same problem. Glad to note it's not just my system. I have to say though that I've had some success still playing, although I do save often. Looking forward to a patch to rid us of the issue for good.
As far as the flaming...I have to admit I've had my share of diarrhea of the mouth and/or fingers saying more than I should, but you guys are really funny. Is it really better to be older, have served in the military, supposedly therefore securing you're macho-ness, and be caught here, on some silly board playing a silly game and apparently coming back again and again to try and one-up a 17 year old? Big man.