sami jo wrote...
My 15 year old son is not ready to have all the rights and responsibilities of an adult. He's a great kid, but he just isn't ready. It's my job as a parent to decide what he is mature enough to handle. That was the idea behind the ESRB ratings: to give parents a guideline as to what games would be appropriate for their children. That requires parents actually parenting, though. We are pretty backwards in this country where responsibility is concerned. It's McDonald's fault when some idiot 30 year old burns herself on her hot coffee, but we want to try 13 year olds as adults.
I don´t know you or your son so I won´t dare to judge your actions. I will therefore assume you´re right that he isn´t mature enough yet and then you do a Good Job caring for him. But other people might be different. I was mature enough with 15 and I hated it when my parents forbade me things.
I did also say that the ESRB rating, or the German FSK which is practically the same, are a good thing AS LONG AS THEY ARE GUIDELINES.
But by making them compulsory (as this law would) the parent´s responsibility and possibility to care for their children is actually RESTRICTED and taken away from them to the state.
If, for example, you think your son is mature enough to play Dragon Age or GTA you would STILL not be allowed to give it to them.
I admit, I´m biased by my experiences in Germany, where censorship is even worse.
Let me tell you a shocking tale: One of my favourite music CDs is forbidden in Germany; it must not be spread, even among adults, and giving it to minors is a crime. In theory, I could be tried because I gave it to my brother, as could everyone who loads songs from this CD up on YouTube.
Of course, in fact noone cares. But still, such an amount of censorship by the state shouldn´t exist.
Modifié par Tirigon, 27 avril 2010 - 11:48 .