1. I think it's wonderful that my femShep walks like a man. Grew up on the streets, when straight into the military at 18, therefore no time for female gender stratification do to tons of influence from males.
2.I think it's great she's not some lumpy, sex object like so many female heroes are. This is the one of the few things I complain about that was better in ME1. ME1 had a lot more realistic bodies on women with realistic outfits. I think it's interesting that so much of the FEMALE audience complain about not being able to control femShep's breast size. I know I joked about it, femShep ****ing at Miranda for not at least adding a few cup sizes, but it was a joke.
3. I do think there should be some male strippers to balance out the overwhelming amount of asari strippers. I've demanded this since the first game and now that we have drell, I demand it more.
In comparison to a lot of female heroines out there, femShep is truly unique in personality and strength and appearance(well, that much depends on what you do with her face, but her body yeah). I believe that ME2 Shepard has much more personality then ME1 though. I don't doubt BioWare being lazy when it comes to her, but I believe they have inadvertently created an amazing heroine who's just going to disappear under the radar once this part of the series is over.
I hope Bioware ignores 95% of the stupid complaints in here. I don't want Shepard turned into a barbie doll, or a soap opera star, or into most of the stuff that these people want.