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[Tirigon]

It´s noone´s business but the one of those actually having sex with each other, I think you should respect that.

Personally, I don´t care. Obviously, however, I might be surprised if it´s a person I considered rather unlikely to "get around".

[ImperialOperative]

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Modifié par ImperialOperative, 01 mai 2010 - 09:49 .

[XyleJKH]

Why does it matter? Why does it matter if someone expresses them sexually? Everyone goes through a phase and some people just never get out of that phase. You shouldnt judge someone for what they did in the past. Sex is a way humans express themselves/socialize. Its hard to say so many variables impossible to predict...

Either way you should give someone the benefit of the doubt. If they go back to their old ways... then maybe you should be seeing someone else

[ImperialOperative]

XyleJKH wrote...

Why does it matter? Why does it matter if someone expresses them sexually? Everyone goes through a phase and some people just never get out of that phase. You shouldnt judge someone for what they did in the past. Sex is a way humans express themselves/socialize. Its hard to say so many variables impossible to predict...
Either way you should give someone the benefit of the doubt. If they go back to their old ways... then maybe you should be seeing someone else

Why shouldn't I judge somebody with Chlamydia or HPV?

[XyleJKH]

ImperialOperative wrote...


Why shouldn't I judge somebody with Chlamydia or HPV?

Why? because thats just plain idiotic. Can I judge you for whatever it is that describes you? I am sure there is plenty I could judge on you
For starters you should get checked every 6 months if you are sexually active. Period!
I just hate people like you who judge other people. People who practice safe sex dont get that.
Go get educated

[ImperialOperative]

XyleJKH wrote...

Why? because thats just plain idiotic. Can I judge you for whatever it is that describes you? I am sure there is plenty I could judge on you
For starters you should get checked every 6 months if you are sexually active. Period!
I just hate people like you who judge other people. People who practice safe sex dont get that.
Go get educated

Right, so whoever has Chlamydia or HPV must be a retard.  So I judge them as "retarded" and laugh.

[XyleJKH]

ImperialOperative wrote...

XyleJKH wrote...

Why? because thats just plain idiotic. Can I judge you for whatever it is that describes you? I am sure there is plenty I could judge on you
For starters you should get checked every 6 months if you are sexually active. Period!
I just hate people like you who judge other people. People who practice safe sex dont get that.
Go get educated

Right, so whoever has Chlamydia or HPV must be a retard.  So I judge them as "retarded" and laugh.

People make bad decisions... I am sure you will someday as well, and I really hope it hurts you in some way in the future.
Some people who get those infections likely got it from someone they trusted and someone broke that trust.
Keep laughing at people like that and you will find yourself in the same position as the rest of the "retards"
Unless you live in your moms basement and dont have the basic education to strive in life... then yes
you will never get chlamydia

[ImperialOperative]

XyleJKH wrote...

People make bad decisions... I am sure you will someday as well, and I really hope it hurts you in some way in the future.
Some people who get those infections likely got it from someone they trusted and someone broke that trust.
Keep laughing at people like that and you will find yourself in the same position as the rest of the "retards"
Unless you live in your moms basement and dont have the basic education to strive in life... then yes
you will never get chlamydia

Sorry but I'm not stupid enough to make such a retarded decision.  Anybody who is THAT stupid deserves everything they get and my ridicule.  

[Onyx Jaguar]

Hmm, this seems blatantly obvious. Don't screw around, you don't get STD's.

[XyleJKH]

ImperialOperative wrote...


Sorry but I'm not stupid enough to make such a retarded decision.  Anybody who is THAT stupid deserves everything they get and my ridicule.  

Fair enough, I guess you never have been betrayed before, or as my original hypothesis is: you never had the opportunity.

[Paul Mihalek]

Is it possible to wait until marrige if you already had sex once before ? And don't get me wrong i have had plenty of chances , but i did'nt want to do it with those girls.

Modifié par Paul Mihalek, 02 mai 2010 - 07:41 .

[Appolo90]

Archdemon Cthulhu wrote...

The whole concept of the "pure" virgin is a little absurd to me. Sex sucks the first time you do it. It's awkward and for the woman it can even be painful (even if done correctly). Sex takes practice and experience to make it really good, so I don't understand "saving" oneself and I especially don't understand desiring a virgin, they're clueless. It's like a chore trying to tell them what to do. I would only date a virgin if it was someone I fell in love with accidentally, too much work.

Some people are very possesive of their singificant others. I dunno, it seems to be a popular concept in strong religious parts of the country for whatever reason.

Modifié par Appolo90, 02 mai 2010 - 08:04 .

[Beocat]

Well, you should think of them the same as you think of yourself, since you were the second in the couple.

[Fizzeler]

XyleJKH wrote...

Why does it matter? Why does it matter if someone expresses them sexually? Everyone goes through a phase and some people just never get out of that phase. You shouldnt judge someone for what they did in the past. Sex is a way humans express themselves/socialize. Its hard to say so many variables impossible to predict...
Either way you should give someone the benefit of the doubt. If they go back to their old ways... then maybe you should be seeing someone else

not always true that someone falls into that phase (some swap it for MMORPGs and TTRPGs )

my position on this is always the same if I truly care for the person why should the fact that of whether or not they are a virgin affect my opinion on them?

[Masticetobbacco]

Captain Cornhole wrote...
 I like a girl. She has sex with another guy.  And my opinon of that person went south.  And I was like

she did that guy for the following reaons: for fun, for attention ( i.e lesbians, threesomes, etc.).she loves him, for money, for the lulz

all reasons are applicable to any person on earth. But if she is doing it for money, then you can judge her negatively or sympathetically.

else who really cares if she has sex or not, her descision. The desicion for someone to engage in secks does not immedeatly change who they are.

[ice445]

It's kind of bothersome, but it's not the act of sex that's bothersome, it's the fact that she's clearly not interested in you that is.

[Zaxares]

I'm someone who believes in having sex only with somebody you love or at least care deeply about. I have a VERY low opinion of people who do one-night stands or who engage in sex as coolly as they might go to the movies. That said, I respect that its their life and they can do with it as they please. They won't win many points in my books, however.



Nor do I believe in really waiting for marriage before sex. As someone said earlier, like all other activities in life, sex is something that you need experience and practice with to be good at. I've never been with a virgin, but I certainly remember my first time, and GOD, it was awkward. Even if you've watched porn, read up on the subject, and know theoretically what to do, knowing how to do something and actually doing it are two totally different things.



So by all means, have sex. Enjoy yourself. Despite what I've said above, it IS a very intense, emotional, almost spiritual connection if it's made with somebody who's special to you. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons.



And use protection! I can't stress that often enough.