C9316 wrote...
I don't understand it to me Kaiden just seems there I rarely use him in ME1 and even talking to him puts me to sleep(true story) Jacob seems less boring compared to him in other words Kaiden=Virmire each and everytime(p.s to all kaiden fangirls.......and fanboys this is my opinion if you're gonna post please give actual reasons to why you like him don't say stuff like "ur teh sukiness u no like kaiden go DIEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!")
Okay, your OP is really combative, and you come off like a troll, but I'll bite, reasons why I like Kaidan:
He is subtle and realistic, I actually like that I had to talk to him and listen to his words to understand his character. In your face "extreme" characters are a dime a dozen, nuanced characters are more appealing to me, whether they're a love interest or not.
He tells Shepard his story because he cares about Shepard, and the mission, and wants to share his experience, to let Shepard know how he feels about aliens and losing self control. He's a great example of the kind of second in command that I would want at my back.
His character is extremely useful as a squadmate, if you spec him correctly. Putting Kaidan in one slot means I can put pretty much anyone else in the other spot, and have a balanced team.
As a love interest, he shows his interest early, but manages to stay professional to the end. The romance felt natural, and not tacked on at the last minute.
Sooooo...are you going to give actual reasons why you *don't* like Kaidan, or at least give reasons why Jacob is a better character?