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Leliana is sad about the betrayal. Marjolaine was once her lover and framed her.
Leliana had been imprisoned, probably tortured and possibly raped. Quite a thing to be sad about, don't you think? I also gathered that the gory bits were the reason why she didn't go into details about her escape.

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I can't remember a game ever making me feel as stung as I did then. We are friends! What a horrible thing to say to your future wife!

There are sadder things to be had in Alistairland.

Landsmeet breakup and awfulbad post-breakup talk in camp

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And then there is the Warden Commander ending, which is about as awfulbad as it gets.

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I wasn't sad. I was just incredibly offended. I have been dumped after the Landsmeet, and since Alistair never told me about the fertility-issue even after I'd asked him to his face what Joining does to people*, I was convinced that either A; the writers had just pulled this from their collective ass for drama's sake, or B; Alistair had just performed the most elegant backstab in the game - used me to get the throne and then thrown me away, with an excuse to make sure we remained on good terms. Cue second screenshot where I find that this isn't true and I deleted my character in a rage. The avatar you see is actually a recreation of that character, because I feel attached to her, being my "first" and all.

*Yes, I know now that you can get him to tell you this by choosing a specific dialogue option in the "where do you see this going"-tree (which I didn't choose), but I don't think I should have to have sex with him for him to tell me. What about those who didn't, or couldn't romance him? Did they find this out without scanning the internet first?

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I wouldn't call it a backstab or that he planned it to work out this way. If you don't make him king and kill loghain he's quite happy and doesn't have sad face on, unlike when you make him king. It's to balance out the bittersweet ending that morrigan fans get. But unlike morrigan fans we can change it and make a "happier" ending.

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I wouldn't call it a backstab or that he planned it to work out this way. If you don't make him king and kill loghain he's quite happy and doesn't have sad face on, unlike when you make him king. It's to balance out the bittersweet ending that morrigan fans get. But unlike morrigan fans we can change it and make a "happier" ending.


I know that. I said in my post that I later found that this wasn't true. The whole ordeal makes for a funny story, in hindsight.

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You have to do "where do you see this doing"-talk before the Landsmeet.

Alistair had just performed the most elegant backstab in the game - used me to get the throne and then thrown me away, with an excuse to make sure we remained on good terms.

Considering that Alistair does not want the throne this makes little sense.

Unhardened Alistair is forced on the throne against his will. A terrible thing to do to someone the PC claims to love. The dumping is actually a nice revenge: you stole my freedom, you destroyed my life, now see what this means for us.

Hardened Alistair is taking the throne because he is convinced it is his duty and he can do better than Anora. It is still a sacrifice for him and he will agree with you that it means losing his freedom. He will try to break up but one word and he changes his mind anyway.

I suppose, if you intend to make your boyfriend king you should at least spare a thought or two for what this possibly means for your relationship - even without prompting. :happy:

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Queen-Of-Stuff wrote...

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I wouldn't call it a backstab or that he planned it to work out this way. If you don't make him king and kill loghain he's quite happy and doesn't have sad face on, unlike when you make him king. It's to balance out the bittersweet ending that morrigan fans get. But unlike morrigan fans we can change it and make a "happier" ending.


I know that. I said in my post that I later found that this wasn't true. The whole ordeal makes for a funny story, in hindsight.



I've really come to like the sad ending but to get over the shock I decided I was going to let my warden take the final blow and watch Alistair get depressed instead but he took the blow instead and I was like wtf?! Image IPB 

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You have to do "where do you see this doing"-talk before the Landsmeet.


Alistair had just performed the most elegant backstab in the game - used me to get the throne and then thrown me away, with an excuse to make sure we remained on good terms.

Considering that Alistair does not want the throne this makes little sense.

Unhardened Alistair is forced on the throne against his will. A terrible thing to do to someone the PC claims to love. The dumping is actually a nice revenge: you stole my freedom, you destroyed my life, now see what this means for us.

Hardened Alistair is taking the throne because he is convinced it is his duty as he can do better than Anora. It is still a sacrifice for him and he will agree with you that it means losing his freedom.
He will try to break up but one word and he changes his mind.

I suppose, if you intend to make your boyfriend king you should at least spare a thought or two for what this possibly means for your relationship.


Easy, there. I did not make him king or take his freedom away. He made himself king after dualing and killing Loghain, which I found odd since he had always told me he didn't want to be one. I had no choice in the matter. You can't blame me for thinking that way during my first playthrough where I wasn't aware of all the 150 different ways things could go differently.

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Nu-Nu wrote...

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I wouldn't call it a backstab or that he planned it to work out this way. If you don't make him king and kill loghain he's quite happy and doesn't have sad face on, unlike when you make him king. It's to balance out the bittersweet ending that morrigan fans get. But unlike morrigan fans we can change it and make a "happier" ending.


I know that. I said in my post that I later found that this wasn't true. The whole ordeal makes for a funny story, in hindsight.



I've really come to like the sad ending but to get over the shock I decided I was going to let my warden take the final blow and watch Alistair get depressed instead but he took the blow instead and I was like wtf?! Image IPB 



Yeah, that happened to me too. Rather die a hero than live a sucker, I think, and then he shoves me out of the way, yelling "no, my love! I'll do it!" and my jaw hangs open for an embarrassingly long time afterwards. What just happened?

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Easy, there. I did not make him king or take his freedom away. He made himself king after dualing and killing Loghain, which I found odd since he had always told me he didn't want to be one. I had no choice in the matter. You can't blame me for thinking that way during my first playthrough where I wasn't aware of all the 150 different ways things could go differently.

:lol: I don't blame you. Really, as much as players want to be immersed, very few are immersed enough to consider what it means for someone to become king. And the game mechanics of the Landsmeet and the Hardening aren't exactly what I'd call natural or intuitive.

What I wanted to say is, for the character it shouldn't be a surprise. I'd assume they are aware about what they are going to do. It must be a pretty delusional dwarf/elf/mage to think: My boyfriend is going to be king and we'll live happily ever after.

Naturally I think it can easier to roleplay a character conistently on subsequent playthroughs.

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but I don't think Leliana is liked much now because of the new DLC. There was alot of rage for a while but I think it's died down.




Why do you blame Alistair for once getting a girl that´s not a crazy fangirl? :P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P




Naaaa, joke. To be honest, I like Alistair too, though he dumped my mage on the first playthrough AND even forbade her to makee the ultimate sacrifice!!!!!!!

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Easy, there. I did not make him king or take his freedom away. He made himself king after dualing and killing Loghain, which I found odd since he had always told me he didn't want to be one. I had no choice in the matter. You can't blame me for thinking that way during my first playthrough where I wasn't aware of all the 150 different ways things could go differently.

:lol: I don't blame you. Really, as much as players want to be immersed, very few are immersed enough to consider what it means for someone to become king. And the game mechanics of the Landsmeet and the Hardening aren't exactly what I'd call natural or intuitive.

What I wanted to say is, for the character it shouldn't be a surprise. I'd assume they are aware about what they are going to do. It must be a pretty delusional dwarf/elf/mage to think: My boyfriend is going to be king and we'll live happily ever after.

Naturally I think it can easier to roleplay a character conistently on subsequent playthroughs.



The whole Landsmeet was weird. After the trashtalking between me and Loghain, I give Alistair the honor of dualing him, cue Loghain execution and Anora being sent away to the Tower. Post-Landsmeet he talks to me and makes it sound as if I shoved him on that throne even when I had promised my support to Anora (without telling him that, though) and I would actually have accepted "a king can't be with an elf/mage/dwarf". It would have been a tragic forbidden love story, sort of. We all love those. But then he brings up ferility and it just comes out of nowhere - I don't think you should have to romance him to find that out, as I highly doubt Alistair is the kind of person who would hide something like that from a friend. The male players would never find out, especially when they can baby up Morrigan even without the ritual.

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klarabella wrote...


It must be a pretty delusional dwarf/elf/mage to think: My boyfriend is going to be king and we'll live happily ever after.


I guess it´s a blood mage thing. My mage always lived by the rule "if they try to rule me I´ll kill them" so she found it hard to understand Alistair would dump her because a bunch of noble arses doesn´t like a mage as queen. She would have just killed all who oppose. Too many nobles anyways in Ferelden.

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Queen-Of-Stuff wrote...
The whole Landsmeet was weird. After the trashtalking between me and Loghain, I give Alistair the honor of dualing him, cue Loghain execution and Anora being sent away to the Tower. Post-Landsmeet he talks to me and makes it sound as if I shoved him on that throne even when I had promised my support to Anora (without telling him that, though) and I would actually have accepted "a king can't be with an elf/mage/dwarf". It would have been a tragic forbidden love story, sort of. We all love those. But then he brings up ferility and it just comes out of nowhere - I don't think you should have to romance him to find that out, as I highly doubt Alistair is the kind of person who would hide something like that from a friend. The male players would never find out, especially when they can baby up Morrigan even without the ritual.

Exactly! I prefer to handwave the utter nonsense and pretend things that are said and done actually make sense. I knew about the catch before playing and I can only imagine what it must be like to play through unspoiled and then get this WTF moment.

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Why does Alistair care for an heir so much?! He´s a bastard himself, for dog´s sake! He could just f*ck a few servant girls and get his damned heir.

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Tirigon wrote...

Why does Alistair care for an heir so much?! He´s a bastard himself, for dog´s sake! He could just f*ck a few servant girls and get his damned heir.


Because bastards aren't legitimate heirs.  (Hence the need for the Landsmeet and the nobles to support his bid for the throne).  Because in this instance a romanced Alistair wouldn't go knocking boots with any random servant girl and shame his lover.  Because if he does marry a new woman, he doesn't want to hurt his love.

There are multiple reasons why Alistair will break up with the PC for an heir and none of them involve because he wants to do so.  He feels he has no choice.  It's the contiuance of the Theirin line issue.  Its up to the PC to make him see that being a king isn't a punishment for either of them.

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Because a picture is worth a thousand words....

http://tutchangers.d...llery/#/d2nog6b

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blademaster7 wrote...

Because a picture is worth a thousand words....

http://tutchangers.d...llery/#/d2nog6b

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D'aaaaaaw, this is so cute. ^_^

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blademaster7 wrote...

Because a picture is worth a thousand words....

http://tutchangers.d...llery/#/d2nog6b

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Haha, that is great!

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lol that is adorable...I've had a few moments like that when I first started playing too.

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well you're not alone...here's the mandatory disclaimer...(lol doesn't everyone ALWAYS have to point this out? funny that..anwyay) I'm not gay and in no way like guys...but when I played my HN Female character...I was honestly surprised at just how well written his character and romance is and it ended up being probably my favorite romance in the game.....funny that.

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Queen-Of-Stuff wrote...
Exactly! I prefer to handwave the utter nonsense and pretend things that are said and done actually make sense. I knew about the catch before playing and I can only imagine what it must be like to play through unspoiled and then get this WTF moment.


Well...if you talk to Alistair before Landsmeet and ask him where he sees the relationship going, then choose the "but you're going to be king" option, you will get warning of what's coming.

edited to add: Sorry, didn't read far enough back in the thread...redundant post.

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Easy, there. I did not make him king or take his freedom away. He made himself king after dualing and killing Loghain, which I found odd since he had always told me he didn't want to be one. I had no choice in the matter. You can't blame me for thinking that way during my first playthrough where I wasn't aware of all the 150 different ways things could go differently.


There, I can certainly sympathize with you.  I almost fell into that trap myself...it's just that Loghain killed him my first playthrough, so I switched to my PC.  I have no idea why Alistair would suddenly crown himself king when he kills Loghain...if you kill Loghain and Alistair is unhardened, it's Eammon who rushes into the royal declaration and Alistair is trying to back off.

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maxernst wrote...

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Easy, there. I did not make him king or take his freedom away. He made himself king after dualing and killing Loghain, which I found odd since he had always told me he didn't want to be one. I had no choice in the matter. You can't blame me for thinking that way during my first playthrough where I wasn't aware of all the 150 different ways things could go differently.


There, I can certainly sympathize with you.  I almost fell into that trap myself...it's just that Loghain killed him my first playthrough, so I switched to my PC.  I have no idea why Alistair would suddenly crown himself king when he kills Loghain...if you kill Loghain and Alistair is unhardened, it's Eammon who rushes into the royal declaration and Alistair is trying to back off.


I don't know why Hardened Alistair grabs the throne immediately after either.  I do know he is willing to do this if he is hardened as he feels he can do more than Anora in stoppiing the Blight but I don't think he's thinking what happens beyond that at the moment. 
Could be his blood is still up after killing Loghain.

HNF in a romance with him still gets a choice after Alistair kills Loghain to propose.  He does the same song and dance afterward that Unhardened Alistair does.  But when you talk to him he says he wants to do this, that he feels Anora's only concern is keeping her throne, not ending the Blight.

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Queen-Of-Stuff wrote...

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Because of game bugs, he still thinks he'll be made king after I've put Anora on the throne. An eternal pessimist, he. He accepts that as an break-up excuse even if I marry myself to him at the Landsmeet, which is kind of amusing. At the end, post coronation, he asked if I thought the marriage was "strange" and remarked that we weren't even friends. Ouch.

That happened to me, too.  My HNF romanced him, dumped him over cold feet about the GW baby problem, then decided at the last minute to marry him.  I was thinking I could turn the romance back on, but no good.  They had only been apart a few weeks game time and he said "but we're not even friends" and acted as if she was shoe dirt.  Very traumatic.  I decided that my RP nuance had confused the game too much so I had to go back and give them a happier ending.


I can't remember a game ever making me feel as stung as I did then. We are friends! What a horrible thing to say to your future wife!


That is a bug. I do fix it.  He still says he thinks it's strange, but he's nicer.  He's supposed to say that to a hostile warden, not a friendly one, or even a warm one.

Edit: To address another point (I'm too lazy to quote, sorry), the "still in love" will get you friendly greetings and such (the romance is no longer active) but there are some differences.  If you tell Alistair you're still in love with him at the gates (heh, with a modded game, can't do it with vanilla), you get some different dialog.  Alistair won't let you die (this one is known).  And if you marry him while he's still in love, you get the "in love" epilogue card.  Oh, and at the funeral (well, in ZDF only if you don't have Zevran or Leliana in love, but that's a change I made) he gives a different dialog as well.

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That is a bug. I do fix it.  He still says he thinks it's strange, but he's nicer.  He's supposed to say that to a hostile warden, not a friendly one, or even a warm one.

Edit: To address another point (I'm too lazy to quote, sorry), the "still in love" will get you friendly greetings and such (the romance is no longer active) but there are some differences.  If you tell Alistair you're still in love with him at the gates (heh, with a modded game, can't do it with vanilla), you get some different dialog.  Alistair won't let you die (this one is known).  And if you marry him while he's still in love, you get the "in love" epilogue card.  Oh, and at the funeral (well, in ZDF only if you don't have Zevran or Leliana in love, but that's a change I made) he gives a different dialog as well.



Sigh. Vanilla game bugs make me a sad, sad panda. I sometimes ask myself why I even bother with the console instead of buying a good computer.