drunken pyromaniac wrote...
I don't really blame the VS for acting how he/she did. I just think both Ash/Kaidan and Shepard could've handled the encounter better. I would think Shepard had earned some slack from the VS, especially if they were romanced. I also think Shepard did a horrible job of explaining himself and his actions, he just stood there.
I agree with you, Pyro.
Ash has always been quick to temper, and one thing I really took away from her email was a sense and recognition that she let her emotions get carried away. (Of course, the "you're being too emotional, Ash" response probably wasn't the best thing to pick on Horizon, knowing her ... or any woman ... and I can speak for that, lol.)
In the context of LotSB, what I was trying to communicate is that I'm glad it was left at a
mention of Horizon and not an analysis of how things went down - or even a "I still love Ash even though she yelled at me." Both parties were very much at fault. As a gamer, I was wishing for a Paragon interrupt like crazy when she started confessing that she loved Shepard and all you could say was, "It's been too long ... Yes, I'm with Cerberus ... You're not doing anything to stop the Reapers but they are." It didn't feel right, and I certainly can't blame Ash for getting upset and saying things she didn't mean, given the circumstances. As Pyro said, he states the situation - not the motivations, and not the reasons. I find it hard to think Ash would come around quickly just based on the magic of it being Shepard who's talking, even though other many characters do, and I frankly respect her more for that.
Sometimes relationships are messy - and Ash and Shepard are both strong-willed people. I want them to have a chance to sit down and sort things out before Shepard analyzes things out with Liara and comes to conclusions. As someone said earlier, they're not exactly "on" and they're not exactly "off" - haven't we all been there at some point? I think that BioWare is handling things well by waiting to have Ash and Shep reconcile before having other characters get involved or state opinions about their relationship... Now to hope that BioWare actually gives us a chance for that ...