Lord Zeuss wrote...
Perhaps the biggest reason I choose to save Ashley (aside from romance, obviously) is because, as a man, I feel that Kaidan "can take it".
Now let me explain this for a moment, before it sounds like I'm passing judgment on Ashley's fighting spirit , her ability, or her anything. I consider how forcefully Kaidan directs Shepard to go get Williams, and I can say with certainty that were I him, in that same position, I would say the exact same thing and I would mean the crap out of it. This is because of my deeply-held belief that men should be protective of women (this could be either sexist or chivalrous; you decide), which Kaidan expresses by ordering Shepard to save Ashley instead of him.
Ashley might get angry that I save her over a superior officer, but I'm going to obey Kaidan (unless it is a specific RP Shepard, which I have done) because it's my manly duty. Again, sexist or chivalrous; you decide. I'm dead serious here.
Since I am a man who grew up with a strong, independent older sister, who has always been protective of me, I never got the chance to buy into gender clichés and I am grateful for that.
Being bisexual and attracted to both of them (well, as far as one can be attracted to a video game character), romance doesn't factor in the reason why i prefer Ash, as well.
I actually think, that Ash is better prepared than Kaidan, to use your words, "can take it" better than Kaidan, to die in the line of duty, because she would do so passionately, but in Kaidan's case I have the impression, he accepts it, because his mind is telling him, it's the right thing to do.
But thinking about this again, I find myself not really sure about any of it...
The simple reason why I am more inclined to save Ash is probably the way she calls Shep 'skipper' ;-)
Badpie wrote...
Man, would Ash deck you in the face for saying that. LOL
Also, I don't think the version of Gen. Williams in the comic is a retcon. It's just not the official story. I find this interesting for Ash as a character. It means her grandfather wasn't the man she thought he was - and I think that's kind of cool. I hope they do something with that.
In fact, I kind of predict a whole internal struggle with Ashley regarding the Alliance, who she is, and how her family fits into it. This would be a nice touch.
My thoughts after reading the comic were similar.