Hi everybody,
I have to sneak back in here
Quite interesting discussion about Ash's character change within the two years between ME1 and ME2. I do agree she seems to have matured in these two years, she doesn't act girlish at all on Horizon, and her e-mail shows that as well.
I'm quite sure, she didn't loose her soft side, the e-mail was written very well and fully convinced my Shep she still has a lot of feelings for him, and she will be open to discuss the Cerberus matters later on. I do hope she also still got her funny side, but now she is able to hold it back in more serious situations. Actually I think it was quite nice mockery of hers when she introduced Shepard to Delan at Horizon, claiming he is standing beside "a living god".
I have nothing to add to the "Ash hates Aliens" lines - Silver Rose and V'rex pointed out everything that is to point out on that matter. Anyway, I still don't get it, why for goods sake Shepard stands so clearly on Cerberus side on Horizon? He has no problem to tell Tali and Garrus, that he is not working for Cerberus and expects any kind of trouble from them ... why he doesn't tell Ash? Makes me wonder now, if this is a weak spot of Shepard ... he can't be anything else, than a strong man in front of his love. You know, this "trust me, I allways know what I'm doing" - stuff. Geez, he should really get over this attitude in ME3, it makes him look like a jerk, and I wonder if Ash shouldn't get something better
Related to this, I cannot imagine Ash was dating someone else on those two years. She does not seem to be a person, that needs a man to feel right or happy, she's just fine with herself. I even do not think she is or was at any time activly looking for a relationship with someone, not even before she met Shepard. When she meets him, all their relations just .. happen .. or evolve and I give great kudos to the writers, as pointed out above it really feels very natural the way it plays out. On that basis, I think if Shepard would have really died, Ash would have given a new relation a chance, but only if it would have happened in similar way, slowly and smoothly, like it was with Shepard. I do not see her dating someone ... you know, like "lets go out for dinner and see if we find enough topics to talk about for three hours ...". I think a date with Ash is quite difficult to get, and she would only date someone she allready has strong feelings for. She would have a blast of a time with group of friends to go out, though I think.