Jacks Smirking Revenge wrote...
Although I always imagine the unhardened Leliana feeling or making a song like this after the US ending. Here are the lyrics.
Yeah about hardening her the Marjoliane thing makes it hard, but my justificaiton for doing it is she doesn't need to be a part of the Chantry to do something good or be a good person, and that she can be a good person and not be like Marjoliane, but still enjoy life. There is nothing wrong with enjoying the thrill of adventure which is what I took the major conflict being adventure vs quiet life, and the Marjoliane thing being one of her concerns about being more adventurous.
Though it is really close I would say I'm like 60-40 in favor of hardening her it is a toss up. I think both ways are good for her in the end. My opinion may sway the other way after this male Cousland run where my main focus will be romancing her since I really haven't but once (on a Female Mage) a long long time ago before Leliana's Song.
Ugh, I so wish the hardening dialogue was different. I've never been able to choose it because you're basically telling "sure, be like Marjolaine!". I always end up choosing the "you're a good person, you'll always be" line because it's the one I feel describes her the best. She really is a good person, Chantry sister or not.
That being said, I'm not sure if I prefer hardened Leliana. While there are things about hardened Lels that I like, there are others I don't. For example, I hate her reaction during the Sacred Ashes quest when hardened. I've always been of the opinion that defiling the ashes is a horrible thing to do, even if you're an anti-chantry type of character. I honestly like the conviction with which an unhardened Leliana stands up to the Warden, not allowing the desecration of such a holy relic go down just like that. Hardened Leliana just goes, "fine, I'll let it go because I can't kill you" and then it's like nothing happened. Sure, you get a big approval hit, but it feels cheap. If there had been a conversation in camp after this, only available if you hardened her, where she attempted to break off the relationship or something to that avail, I would've preferred it.
Other things, such as her willingness to stay as a mistress when hardened, continue to sour the deal for me. I really wish there was middle-road between hardened and unhardened Leliana.
Happy Lels: