LadyDamodred wrote...
I truly do think if you rp a genuine, deep relationship with Alistair, that it is damn near impossible to justify siding with Loghain against him. If others can offer very good reasons why a character in love with or best friends with Alistair would do that, I would love to hear them. I know the terribleness we had to go through in the Alistair gush thread to create a valid rp story for a PC in love with Alistair to execute him, and I doubt very much many people play a character like that.
My current PC (Female elf mage) recruited Loghain in spite of being in Love with Alistair.
She did so because she still admires - or even adores - the Hero of River Dane, though she disagrees with what Loghain did afterwards, and she thinks he deserves a chance to do things right.
However, she thinks that Loghain did what he thought best. Considering that she helped Jowan because she thought it was the right thing to do, and stood by this decision even after it turned out he was really a bloodmage, she can´t really blame Loghain for doing wrong things if he acts as he judges best according to his conscience and limited knowledge.
She also made Alistair marry Anora because from what little an elven mage understands of politics she got the impression that this is the best thing for Ferelden.
She hoped Alistair would understand her reasons (and, forgive me a little metagaming, from what I read on the forums he eventually does) and wouldn´t feel betrayed by her, for that was really not her intention.
When he broke up with her she was sad, and she can´t understand him, but she accepts it, and she thinks that not only did Alistair not really know her but she, too, is disappointed by Alistair. She had expected his love to be stronger and, being a very non-conventional girl, she can´t understand why a king can´t have an affair with her.
In the end, however, she will just move on and not stay in Denerim as chancellor (what she had planned). Instead, she will travel with her other lovers Zevran or Leliana (yes, she doesn´t value monogamy:wub:)