I had just noticed this thread..I posted a comment in the original site, but it got all broken up
so I would like to share here:
First
off, I couldn't agree with Freckles more.
For
one, there is the setting. The player experiences an alternate life,
and the goal is to save the world from the Blight. Now you are given
team members who join you on your quest, and relationships develop,
precision crafted by Bioware. They almost leave the fem PC no choice but
to romance Alistair. Gifts and dialogue options make it hard to resist
the temptation stemmed from curiosity.... and we are unknowingly sucked
in. The key here is -unknowingly-. That is exactly what real life is all
about. It is far too common to meet your future love in an annoying
package, where we think "no way I would like him" only to realize after
a time how much you feel for this man.So what do we get? A man
with good values, a charming innocence, humorous wit,(he knows it
which shows a hint of an attractive showoffiness), humility,
sensitivity, emotional openly insecure coupled with a strong warrior, a
man who is not afraid to speak is mind, and especially, a backbone to
offset his whiny demeanor (if he didn't he would have been simply a
wuss).
With all of his weaknesses, he still wouldn't stand for mockery,
which is probably the one major difference when compared with a real
life person with similar traits. He is not a weakling as he depicts
himself to be which makes him all the more attractive. He has an inner
strength that is humbled by insecurity. And--he is not afraid to speak
his mind which is another facet which somewhat conflicts with the "weak"
nature.These opposing traits are what make him so attractive.
As
the female, our nature is to want to bring out that strength and sooth
his wounds, but in order for us to want to do that, all of these
elements must exist harmoniously. If you take away the weak/strong
balance, I assure you the fem reaction would have not been the same.
That
said, as Freckles puts it, Steve Valentine's natural charm along with
careful writing and scenario builds for success at having no choice but
to adore this man.What keeps the adoration alive is the realistic
aspect that your reactions change the outcome of the future, as in real
life.
With this game, you may turn back time and explore the incredible
depth the characters have with each choice you make.In essence it
is a true fantasy deeper than the male Morrigan fascination as I would
assume is based shallowly on her sexiness, as I humbly believe men fall
for that, but don't need much more. Females tend to look for more depth,
as it is the personality that fuels our love overall. Bioware gave us a
real bonus with their pretty pixels, overall giving us a fantasy man
who satisfies all our desires in one package.And lastly, the
communities that have developed through the Alistair fascination keep us
wanting to talk more and more about our shared adoration, therefore
keeping him alive and well long after the game has ended.