
That face says it all
Give him a chance, their more to Alistair then you think lol.

Thor Rand Al wrote...
That face says it all. No seriously there's a lot about Alistair that some people won't, don't or can't see beyond his insecurities. N their not insecurities, this guy has basically been dragged in the mud since he was born. He's never really had a home, a family, he's never had anyone really really care about him. Alistair doesn't know where he belongs except the Grey Wardens. The first place that he can litereally call home n that's taken away by a treacherous ______ *put in your own words* . Anyways there's a lot more to Alistair then what you first see. He's adorable, loveable, sweet, charming, yes he is insecure in some things but for him it's also part of his charm. Alistair wants to belong, he wants to be accepted for who HE IS, not for his blood. He wants to be loved, wants to actually have a friend. Things he was denied growing up. I don't blame him for being the way he is, he's never really belonged anywhere or was ever wanted. He's trying to make the best of his life that he can.
Give him a chance, their more to Alistair then you think lol.
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thegreateski wrote...
Indeed. Alistair grows a backbone if you can manipulate him the right way.
The VO notes for Duncan indicate a fatherly, affectionate demeanor towards Alistair. Alistair wasn't being naive. That line is verydream_operator23 wrote...
The part that always touches me about Alistair is if you ask him about Duncan at the Ostagar camp, he says that Duncan was the first person to care what he wanted. Of course Alistair is being really naive here; Duncan recruited him because he needed good Grey Wardens and Alistair fit the bill. It didn't have anything to do with what Alistair wanted. Alistair's need for someone to care about him gets to me every time. I will always give him that.
Hardened, he says in various contexts that he wants to be king. He's not inherently ambitious, but he comes around to see that he can do some good in it. I also see it as his right, and thinking back to Maric in The Stolen Throne, it just feels wrong not to make him king. On my 1st playthrough where I made Anora sole ruler, I hated seeing Alistair disclaim the throne for himself and his heirs so much that I never did it again. He should have been recognized and in the succession anyway. I believe Cailan might have been thinking about making him his heir, which is why he insisted that Alistair be the one to go to the Tower.Here is a question, how do the players that care about Alistair and what he wants put him on the throne? I've done it too, but I admit I put him on the throne for the good of Ferelden, not for himself. All Alistair wants is to be a Grey Warden and to fight by your side. Maybe some think it is good for Alistair to be king, it is good for his self-esteem. I always struggle with the decision though. I want Alistair to be king because he is a good king, but then I want to be the person that cares about what he wants at the same time. It's always a hard decision for me.
Modifié par Addai67, 25 juin 2010 - 01:42 .
dream_operator23 wrote...
Here is a question, how do the players that care about Alistair and what he wants put him on the throne? I've done it too, but I admit I put him on the throne for the good of Ferelden, not for himself. All Alistair wants is to be a Grey Warden and to fight by your side. Maybe some think it is good for Alistair to be king, it is good for his self-esteem. I always struggle with the decision though. I want Alistair to be king because he is a good king, but then I want to be the person that cares about what he wants at the same time. It's always a hard decision for me.
Modifié par OldMan91, 25 juin 2010 - 01:45 .
dream_operator23 wrote...
Of course Alistair is being really naive here; Duncan recruited him because he needed good Grey Wardens and Alistair fit the bill. It didn't have anything to do with what Alistair wanted.
Modifié par ashez2ashes, 25 juin 2010 - 03:11 .
OldMan91 wrote...
It's funny how people say he has no "backbone" because he doesn't originally want to be king. I ask myself, what would I do in such circumstances? It's as if my uncle decided that I should become the manager of our family business and I had no say whatsoever in it. I too would be pretty reluctant, if not angry.
And in the end you can make Alistair be king, hardened or otherwise. I'd say he's got more backbone than many of the posters denouncing him.
Dawnielle wrote...
OldMan91 wrote...
It's funny how people say he has no "backbone" because he doesn't originally want to be king. I ask myself, what would I do in such circumstances? It's as if my uncle decided that I should become the manager of our family business and I had no say whatsoever in it. I too would be pretty reluctant, if not angry.
And in the end you can make Alistair be king, hardened or otherwise. I'd say he's got more backbone than many of the posters denouncing him.
Yes Old Man,
So very true!
They want him to disapprove if you're too nice but follow you (grudgingly) anyway because you are just superior.Xandurpein wrote...
Actually the main complaints some people have about Alistair is that:
(A) He is to submissive and has no backbone.
(He refuses to do as the PC wants, if the PC wants to pardon Loghain.
But isn't (exactly what they claimed that Alistair didn't do enough, when they whined about (A)?
Modifié par klarabella, 25 juin 2010 - 11:03 .
klarabella wrote...
They want him to disapprove if you're too nice but follow you (grudgingly) anyway because you are just superior.Xandurpein wrote...
Actually the main complaints some people have about Alistair is that:
(A) He is to submissive and has no backbone.
(He refuses to do as the PC wants, if the PC wants to pardon Loghain.
But isn't (exactly what they claimed that Alistair didn't do enough, when they whined about (A)?
They want him to approve if you're totally badass and follow you (enthusiastically) anyway because you're just superior.
So basically they want him to be an alpha male type they can win over by being clearly awesome. (And some of the women want a guy who thinks he dominates them, obvlivious to the fact that they are secretly dominating him, including the promise to twu wuv them 'til the end of time.)
Does this make sense?
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Addai67 wrote...
The VO notes for Duncan indicate a fatherly, affectionate demeanor towards Alistair. Alistair wasn't being naive. That line is very. Of course, you can get it after you're already in a relationship with him (as my PC does here), so it's also pretty emo of him.
Have you read The Calling? We might find out someday that Duncan knew about Alistair all along... though that remains to be seen in the Maker's time.
Look on the bright side, you can go get a cup of coffee in between the wind-up and hit.Giggles_Manically wrote...
I just did the Landsmeet and watched Alistair pull of fatality on Loghain, and demand the throne. That was badass, if a little suprising guess he can make up his own mind if hardened. Although a S&S fight between those two took forever.
Giggles_Manically wrote...
I just did the Landsmeet and watched Alistair pull of fatality on Loghain, and demand the throne. That was badass, if a little suprising guess he can make up his own mind if hardened. Although a S&S fight between those two took forever.
Addai67 wrote...
Look on the bright side, you can go get a cup of coffee in between the wind-up and hit.Giggles_Manically wrote...
I just did the Landsmeet and watched Alistair pull of fatality on Loghain, and demand the throne. That was badass, if a little suprising guess he can make up his own mind if hardened. Although a S&S fight between those two took forever.
DW FTW
Compared to a DW opponent and especially a rogue, it takes forever. Rogues have more armor penetration and Loghain can't resist your stun attack, whereas he can counter pretty much everything a warrior with similar setup to his own has.LadyDamodred wrote...
Giggles_Manically wrote...
I just did the Landsmeet and watched Alistair pull of fatality on Loghain, and demand the throne. That was badass, if a little suprising guess he can make up his own mind if hardened. Although a S&S fight between those two took forever.
I don't understand why it takes some people so long. *frowns* My fights almost always go pretty quick.
Addai67 wrote...
Compared to a DW opponent and especially a rogue, it takes forever. Rogues have more armor penetration and Loghain can't resist your stun attack, whereas he can counter pretty much everything a warrior with similar setup to his own has.LadyDamodred wrote...
Giggles_Manically wrote...
I just did the Landsmeet and watched Alistair pull of fatality on Loghain, and demand the throne. That was badass, if a little suprising guess he can make up his own mind if hardened. Although a S&S fight between those two took forever.
I don't understand why it takes some people so long. *frowns* My fights almost always go pretty quick.