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Help men everywhere understand the female obsession with Dragon Age's Alistair


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#101
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exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.

#102
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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I didn't even know there was an article lol.

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I actually read the thread before I commented.  The preview of the article made me 'meh,' so I decided just to respond to the general question it asked.

#104
KnightofPhoenix

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LadyDamodred wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I actually read the thread before I commented.  The preview of the article made me 'meh,' so I decided just to respond to the general question it asked.


Oh, so you put more effor than me at least lol

BTW, nice post you wrote Image IPB

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.

There's not much in the original article that goes beyond what's stated in the summary, so even if that's true, the thread is on-topic.

Edit:  It's funny that tmp's mod images have become iconic for the Alistair romance!  And well-deserved.  We Image IPB tmp7704. 

Modifié par Addai67, 09 juin 2010 - 09:51 .


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LadyDamodred

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

LadyDamodred wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I actually read the thread before I commented.  The preview of the article made me 'meh,' so I decided just to respond to the general question it asked.


Oh, so you put more effor than me at least lol

BTW, nice post you wrote Image IPB


Well, I generally don't like walking into things blind.  And, thank you.  I try to be logical and coherent in trying to explain the insanity of my love for Alistair.  ^_^

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I read it, but I decided that I'm neither a lady, nor attracted to Alastair. Thus I don't have much to add that would be of any worth.

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Merilsell wrote...

It is fitting for Alistair. Simple as that.

Some parts maybe... definitely not these parts:

 "Omega Males can have friends and close acquaintances but prefer to accomplish things on their own without the help of a group."

I don't think that needs much explaining.

"Omega Males have relations with people from all groups and carry a resourcefulness and cunning (sometimes strength) to get a job done with their own skill."

Alistair is fairly intolerant of people who don't meet his chantry based value system.  He treats Morrigan like trash from their very first meeting.  Plus his cunning score is terrible. :P

"An Omega Male cares little for this recognition...but knows that he is all those things and more."


Alistair?  No... he's easily the most diffident member of the entire party.

"An Omega Male needs support from time to time"

Or in Alistair's case, always...

Not so spot on imo.

Modifié par Axekix, 09 juin 2010 - 09:53 .


#109
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Herr Uhl wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

exorzist wrote...

Thank y'all for the comments. I hope you liked the article :)


Chances are no one read it, and everyone rushed in to post a comment based solely on the title of the thread.

All of you know this to be true.


I read it, but I decided that I'm neither a lady, nor attracted to Alastair. Thus I don't have much to add that would be of any worth.


Uhl, why do you spell it Alastair?

#110
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Kryyptehk wrote...

Uhl, why do you spell it Alastair?


Force of habit. Alistair feels wrong to write for me.

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I read it!

Edited to add: Do I get points for that or something?

Modifié par Miri1984, 09 juin 2010 - 10:07 .


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since there is also a huge conversation going on, the article actually _is_ being read :)

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After reading your entire article (and yes, I did read it, KnightofPhoenix!) I can tell you, as a member of the female gender and a member of several Alistair fan clubs, that men SHOULD distill essence of Alistair and sell/use it!Image IPB
He is sweet Image IPB, sexy, hard-bodied, handsome, witty Image IPB, charming (like Maric) Image IPB, and considerate (in ways men aren't anymore). He is also self-effacing Image IPB(not the typical egotistical male of this day and age)...though, in the game, he says he has his pride, he follows it up with "Well, some at least." It shows he's not an egotist. It's fine to have some pride but a lot of men take it too far and they end up trying to be ultra-macho. We like our guys to be human and a little vulnerable, but strong when we need them to be.
I don't know why everyone considers him to be whiny. I don't. I believe he is a truely sensitive man with a deep love for the one and only person who EVER cared about what he wanted...for once in his life. And when he loses that person it's hard on him...as Duncan knew it would be. I know this because Duncan took Alistair aside and told him, in private, that he would be going to the Deep Roads very soon; he was preparing Alistair for the inevitable. He knew Alistair would be crushed by his death...and if you can't understand compassion for a father/mentor figure, you're hopeless.

I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...

There are more things I can say about him but I think this has gone on long enough and I'll leave someone else something to write about. lol

Alistair is good and wholesome, a white knight in slightly tarnished armor...and a tough act to follow. But he can be followed...he's not perfect and he doesn't have to be.

Oh, yeah...because you asked...I love him as much as I do my husbandImage IPBImage IPB but my husband has Alistair beat because he's real and Alistair is a fantasy character and likely (in this day and age) to stay in the realms of fantasy.

I DO think chivalry is pretty much dead...but do we really need it? No. But we want it.

Modifié par SRWill64, 09 juin 2010 - 10:42 .


#114
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Alright, I'll attempt to seriously answer the OP question.

He's just a really good man.  Does it have to be more complicated than that?  In The Calling, Fiona is shocked to discover that Maric the Savior is a good man, the last thing she expected.  It is not unlike the same pleasant surprise my elven and mage female Wardens experience, the last thing they look for in a human man and  former templar.  Is it really so hard to understand that women would want a partner who's gentle, funny, and who tries to do the right thing both in general and by them personally?

Modifié par Addai67, 09 juin 2010 - 10:34 .


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Alistair reminds me of my husband. I literately just re-courted my husband all over again. They're both sarcastic, funny, and maybe just a bit naive though my husband is more of a "hardened" Alistair than an "unhardened" one. I didn't truly come to this conclusion until he gave me the rose. It...was so charming and corny it immediately remained me of when my husband did the exact. Same. Thing. To where I declared "Oh MY GOD! HE'S YOU!". Simultaneously it made me feel good to know that no matter what I will always choose my husband.



Alistair doesn't whine to me. He pouts but I would hardly call that whining.



On another note: exorzist, can you tell me why every time I try to post on GreyWardens.com, it keeps saying my post is deleted by moderator immediately?

#116
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SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB

#117
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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB


What about Axekix?

And I visit sometimes.

#118
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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB


Only because we ply you with Morrigan pictures and flirts. 

#119
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SurelyForth wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB


Only because we ply you with Morrigan pictures and flirts. 


That's because all of you like me for some reason. Despite everything lol
(How did that happen anyhow?)

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB


There are definitely others encroaching on your territory.  Time for Alpha KoP to dominate them all into line!  Mark your territory!

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Axekix wrote...

Merilsell wrote...

It is fitting for Alistair. Simple as that.

Some parts maybe... definitely not these parts:

 "Omega Males can have friends and close acquaintances but prefer to accomplish things on their own without the help of a group."

I don't think that needs much explaining.

"Omega Males have relations with people from all groups and carry a resourcefulness and cunning (sometimes strength) to get a job done with their own skill."

Alistair is fairly intolerant of people who don't meet his chantry based value system.  He treats Morrigan like trash from their very first meeting.  Plus his cunning score is terrible. :P

"An Omega Male cares little for this recognition...but knows that he is all those things and more."


Alistair?  No... he's easily the most diffident member of the entire party.

"An Omega Male needs support from time to time"

Or in Alistair's case, always...

Not so spot on imo.

ALISTAIR IS NOT AND NEVER WILL BE AN OMEGA MALE (AKA/ ULTRA-MACHO A-HOLE!)

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB

Then why the H&LL do you have the archenemy Loghain as a siggy?!?!?!?

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I'm probably reading too much into this but I don't like how you mention the female obsession with Alistair as if all female players were and only said that many males were obsessed with Morrigan. Alistair is not unquestionably beloved by everyone who has two x chromosomes, you know, and there was a thread at one point specifically for women that weren't.

#124
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SRWill64 wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB

Then why the H&LL do you have the archenemy Loghain as a siggy?!?!?!?


Because Loghain is my second favorite character. And no, it's Morrigan that occupies first.
And I had Alistair executed in my canon playthrough.

That doesn't mean I am not charming Image IPB

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Mel_Redux wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

SRWill64 wrote...
I may be repeating what someone else has said already because I haven't read any other post except the snide one by KnightofPhoenix...but I can see what side takes by his siggy...


Meaning?

I'm the only male resident in the Alistair gush thread (for some reason), I think I deserve better than this Image IPB


There are definitely others encroaching on your territory.  Time for Alpha KoP to dominate them all into line!  Mark your territory!

YIKES!!!!!! (Whimpering in the far corner...) lol