Ieldra2 wrote...
What about picking out some wine, go sitting in a park on the presidium and discussing "why Cerberus aren't monstrous" with her there? 
Sounds like loading screens for a conversation you can have in her office, wine or no.

I'm all for better integration of the romances into the story. If that's done will, a love story adds to any good greater story.
Granted, but I don't think giving it an opportunity to steal focus is of benefit to the game overall. Maybe a scripted moment or two when, for whatever story reason, you're compelled to wait and whichever LI you're pursuing pops in to suggest getting off the ship a while - you can either pursue a private conversation with dialog options that don't exist anywhere else in the game (Investigates especially) or beg off with too much work to do and skip right ahead to the next plot moment. Maybe if you're not pursuing a relationship at the moment it's Kelly/her replacement, concerned you're working too hard and cutting yourself off socially. Less a date than very gentle, casual therapy. "Let's just get off this ship and talk for a while, Shepard. Joker'll keep her safe. You could stand a conversation that doesn't end in gunfire."
Okay, I got off on a brainstorming tangent there. The thrust of it is I'd like the relationship element in ME3 to adjust the story, sure, but not take portions of it for itself.
The problem is there are too many LI options. While in any particlar playthrough, there is only one, the resources still have to be spent for all of them. I wonder if Bioware haven't designed themselves into a corner by giving us 9 LI options (counting both ME1 and ME2).
And the programmers/writers need to address every combination of ME1 love interest faithful/gotten over in favor of each ME2 love interest, the chance you might choose to go back to them, plus the almosts in ME2 and the possibility for both games of "none". It either needs to be generic or a disc all its own.
I guess unless they use my idea, then it's just a couple different settings and some extra dialog.