jtav wrote...
I think I'm the only one here who likes that she had something with Jacob. I love it when characters have romantic histories that extend beyond the protagonist.
I like to think she had an actual romantic history with Jacob as well. In my mind, they were much more than "just friends" and there were more than just a few dates. With what we know of Miranda, I believe the relationship would have been very intense but also ended relatively quickly when Miranda realized Jacob wasn't what she was looking for. This would explain Jacob's "it got very close, then it got really far" comment (I don't remember the exact line).
There's really no reason why Jacob couldn't have been a short-term candidate as Miranda's love interest. He's intelligent (they don't put you in special forces, particularly deep cover ones like the Corsairs if you're an idiot), he's relatively driven, he's not bad looking, and he's far from common. In addition, they work together, making him extremely convenient for someone like Miranda who basically lives to work.
In my head, the reason it didn't work out is that as driven as Jacob is, he's still a bit naive when it comes to his expectartions. He actually thinks that someday relatively soon(5-10 years at most), his job will be finished and he can get that house with the white picket fence and settle down. He never really understood that for Miranda, her job will never really end because it she sees her job as justification for her existence. Miranda (at least in the beginning of ME2) will never stop fighting the enemies of humanity and can't "settle down".
In the end, Jacob's idea of a relationship is too "normal" and as many people have speculated, he may have been asking more than Miranda can provide. Jacob isn't common, but he's far less exceptional than Miranda first thought. At heart he's just a regular guy who wants to make a difference but eventually get on with life. This lets me tie my version into Jacob's "she requires a better man than I" comment.