aeetos21 wrote...
But those feelings are natural, if not entirely healthy, and honestly (and this really says a LOT about Miranda/Shepard relationship) it's the same kind of baggage real life adults have to deal in real life adult relationships. This is one of the biggest reasons I'm for this ship because it adds more depth that just isn't there in some of the other ships: Tali, Garrus, Jacob, Kaiden, and Jack specifically. In those it's less of a relationship and more of Shepard taking the lead with them behing and supporting them instead of walking beside, which is great for a friendshup but for long term consummate relationship? I think having someone who gives as good as they get should be the ideal but that's just me.
I think it's a good point you make here. Most people in an adult relationship may have problems accepting that their significant other may have had intimate relationships with other people previously, but reconciling to such distasteful notions is indeed part and parcel of making a relationship work.
I recall on my first playthrough as a maleshep when talking to Jacob and he gets all surly whenever the topic of Miranda cropped up. And because I had my mind set on romancing her already, I kept wondering is this guy gonna be a problem? His line "she requires a better man than I" among alot of other things, felt like tacit approval for malesheps to go ahead. Although I understand if a femshep romances Jacob, there are actually more dialogue options on Miranda, and if femshep pushes the conversation, it serves as a breaking point for that particular romance. It's terrible really, how the writers seem to want to sabotage Jacob's relationship chances by portraying him as someone who can't move on.
So for me, you're definitely right in that adding the facet of Miranda's relationship with Jacob rearing its head added depth to the romance. The only fault I have is, portraying Jacob as competition for her affections fails badly. In Miranda's drive for excellence and competence, in so far as a relationship where both parties respect each other on the same level, I really can't see Jacob arriving at any of those points at all. Mox's observation that Miranda's attitude towards Jacob is mostly wry and condescending seems to reinforce that Miranda herself recognises this-- that whatever their relationship was and is now, she will always see him as subordinate (this is not a slur on Miranda, people can't help being who they are and how they feel, and I'm fine with her feeling that way).
She's an Alpha female of the highest order with a strong tendency to lead and dominate, and only an Alpha male like Shepard stands a chance of holding his ground with her. Mutual growth and development can only come about if both parties are evenly matched, not with one party that constantly gives way in a relationship. It's also why I would find it really distasteful if she chooses to go back to Jacob if there's no maleshep in her life at the end of ME3. It literally means she's willing to settle for less than the best just for the sake of having companionship.
Modifié par Elyvern, 22 octobre 2010 - 05:58 .