MsSihaKatieKrios wrote...
I've been following the last few...hundreds? of posts over the 3 months I was lurking, and I realized that Mirimancers seem to be a really fragmented group. One camp wants her one-dimensional and b*tchy, while the other wants her to soften up, but still retain her efficiency in work. I've noticed that all those that want Miri to remain an ice queen with next to no emotions are women like me
, while those that want her character development to continue are guys. Jtav, Elyvern, you girls seem to be as allergic to the idea of Miranda learning to be more human and emotional as the average American is to nuts (I'm English, btw). And the general idea I get from your posts is that you're afraid that Miranda will be 'chickified' and learn to show emotions.
Perhaps a few things should be clarified: First, I'm a man, and I usually argue for Miranda to keep her emotional detachment. I'm generally not opposed to Miranda showing emotions in private - after all, an "unemotional romance" is an oxymoron, but that's usually not a problem with female characters. However, it *is* often a problem with female characters that they let their emotions influence professional decisions where that makes them seem dumb. It *is* a problem that female characters are often *defined* by their emotions instead of their competence and independence. That is what I, Elyvern, jtav and others do not want to happen to her. We do not want her to be nothing but Shepard's satellite, but to retain her professional competence and independence. We would also like her to retain most of her pragmatism - again, in professional decisions. It is not a contradiction, but all so often in fiction, female characters are written one-dimensional. Miranda's behaviour at the Collector base is an example - see my previous post for what I mean. *That* is her emotions interfering with the most important professional decision we make in ME2. The way she argues, not the recommendation itself, makes her appear as if she's lost it, makes her appear dumb. I do not want to see her like that again.
So, what we fear is that Miranda turns into a stereotype all too often used for female characters in fiction, thereby losing her uniqueness. It is not true we want her emotionless, but she isn't that in ME2 (see the end of her loyalty mission) and significantly more than she does show in ME2 - in her loyalty mission and in the romance - would make her less unique.
Or so say it the shortest possible terms: whatever happens in Shepard's cabin - and that can be really anything as long as it's not demeaning, really - should have little influence on how Miranda behaves professionally. If I might point you to my fanfic
A Promise of Love and Death. They're talking about how the fact that they love each other will influence their jobs. I'd like a Miranda who would hold to that promise, not because she has no emotions, but because her pragmatism will overrule them if it's important enough.
I also agree with Elyvern's answer to your post.
Now, time for me to open the s**t can. Miranda's sex life. Yes, that 20 megaton nuclear missile.
While I don't argue the fact that she's no longer a virgin (duh...with that bod, which I'm SO jealous of), I don't think she's as active as some of you make her out to be. Sure, she's got her fair share of experience, but she probably doesn't get even half as much sex as some of you think she does thanks to her job, her impossible standards, inconvienience, and security concerns. She's no prude, and neither am I, what with my various sexual experiences, but some of you make her out to be a lust-filled woman hunting for a lay every two days or so. That's 's*utifying' her, and while I fully agree that she has every right to exploit and use her perfect body for sexual pleasures, but she's abusing it from the way some of you are describing it.
Please, where did you get that impression? I and others never said anything like that. I do not think anyone here wants that. It's only that some people get that impression whenever anyone talks easily about sex. I say - and feel in a fundamental way - that sex is not a problem, and my arguments and the way I respond to others are informed by that. Whenever someone says "I say Miranda's sexual experiences are very limited", I hear a hidden prude talking, and whenever I say she is sexually experienced (that is the phrasing I use most of the time), people like Yannkee hear - well, I really don't know what they hear, but it's definitely more than I want to say. Miranda has high standards for her partners, that limits her possible encounters. She also has no problem with sex, that may increase her possible encounters. Exactly where she lands, really, I don't care. We don't know, and every one of us has his own image. But I won't let Miranda be re-defined by prudes.
Modifié par Ieldra2, 21 novembre 2010 - 05:35 .