Well, one things for sure. The anti-same-sex crowd is almost making our point better than we are. Thank you all for giving us a very clear picture of what’s going on in your minds.
This unreasonable discomfort with a game option that would not affect their game experience in any way is almost cartoonish. The fact that these boys are focused on this one aspect of the game as being 'game breaking' or disrupting narrative continuity is nonsensical to me. If I was looking for disjointed narrative continuity, I could find quite a few examples of it in Mass Effect 2, and even a few moments in the first game. But Shepard's sexuality is a completely optional subject, it is not part of the main story, and no definitive proclamations are made in every single playthrough by unavoidable dialog choice. The player is free to imagine all sorts of sexual predilections for Shepard, because what’s in the game doesn’t really nail it down definitively. All we have are the options that Shepard has been able to pursue up until now, we have no idea how Shepard would react if new options were made available to him. And just because somebody remances Jack/Tali/Miranda/Kaidan in their playthrough, that doesn’t mean that ALL Shepards have. I wish people understood that principle and how it relates to this subject. Your Shepard might be a cartoon of macho manly masculine studliness, but I’m still going to play my Shepard as a thinking, rational, human being. That’s the beauty of these games, we can all play these different styles to the hilt.
So to recap: Shepard working with Cerberus after a brief conversation with TIM— regardless of Akuze, Admiral Kahoku, and all the other atrocities and terrorist acts the organization has perpetrated—isnt a problem for these boys. But the off-chance that some male character might hit on a male Shepard and the fact that the male Shepard can take him up on the offer IS. I would say Shepard’s about-face on Cerberus was a MUCH more questionable personality shift (especially for Paragons) than a heretofore celibate male Shepard dating a man, or a womanizing Shepard expanding his universe to include some manlove. I’ve actually known men and women in real life who discovered that they are gay or bisexual relatively later in life, but I’ve never met any who after a distinguished career in military service suddenly start working for terrorists. Of course, I’m sure that does happen in real life too, so whatever Shepard.
So, BioWare, you see your options. You see the people on both sides of this issue. You see the reasoning put forward by both groups, and hopefully you can see that while there are emotional stakes on both sides, you also see that there is one group of people who want to add options, and another group who want to take away options that they (theoretically) would never pursue even if they were available, just to prevent other players from having an experience they want. It really is as simple as that.