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didymos1120 wrote...

Don't be so sure:

I didn't work on ME1 but I would venture to say that most of the developers feel that Liara/Femshep is an F/F relationship. I don't know if the "she's an asari" thing was ever intended to take away from the F/F aspect (since I wasn't around when the idea was put together) but nevertheless, she was intended as the gay female love interest.

As far as M/M love interests... I can say that it was planned, but as far as I know it was cut due to time constraints. Quite frankly the demand is small. I'm not defending it, but the choice is between a level that everyone will enjoy and a romance that only a minority will enjoy. We did it in Jade so we're not afraid of it; there just isn't enough time.

Sorry to all the gay ME fans Posted Image


Thanks for sharing that, I hadn't come across this before. It's nice to have this recognised by a BioWare programmer, even if they weren't directly linked with the project. :3

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centauri2002 wrote...

Thanks for sharing that, I hadn't come across this before. It's nice to have this recognised by a BioWare programmer, even if they weren't directly linked with the project. :3


Oh, but he did work on Mass Effect 2.

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Oh, but he did work on Mass Effect 2.


Even better then. ^^

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didymos1120 wrote...

snippy


I do see your point, maybe I didn't reflect enough on ME2's depth. I do love the quarian politics though (played through Tali's mission last night). 

At any rate, it *would* be interesting to get more details on societal attitudes within the Alliance. L'Etoile and others have only commented on a 'flawed future' as it deals with xenophobia. corruption, injustice and the fractured nature of Earth's nation-states. We've only had the barest glimpses (through the conversation with Ashley I mentioned above) about the military's (society's?) official attitudes to things like religion and sexuality.

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ElitePinecone wrote...
I do see your point, maybe I didn't reflect enough on ME2's depth. I do love the quarian politics though (played through Tali's mission last night). 


Just to throw in another one of my favorite bits of worldbuilding that also plays into that cynicism angle: going to Tuchanka.  Everything from it being in the "Krogan DMZ" (that name alone says a lot about their social status in C-Space), to either version of the political situation there, and just the sheer squalor the krogan live in (and Urdnot is a relatively wealthy and powerful clan and they still live like that), not to mention the desperation of a dying race to continue existing and recapture lost glory that leads directly all the nastiness seen on Mordin's loyalty mission. 

But what really stood out was that one krogan guy quietly talking to his pal amidst the rubble, over a table improvised from that rubble, about recently learning he had a son and getting to play with his child, and his wistfulness over not being able to live as an actual family, to which his otherwise-happy-for-him friend responds (paraphrased) "Yeah, well, we're @#$%ing krogan, dude.  That's just how sh!t is."

Krogan, ladies and gentlemen: once upon a time, saviors of the galaxy.

Aaaaand now I'll stop going off-topic.

Modifié par didymos1120, 17 avril 2011 - 10:23 .


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Abramis brama wrote...

If Bioware adds same-sex romance in ME3 I won't buy the game.
Just wanted to say this.


Uh, you do realize both ME1 and ME2 included same-sex content, right? 

ME1: Femshep/Liara romance, Femshep/Consort encounter
ME2: Femshep/Kelly fling, Femshep/Samara "near miss", Femshep/Morinth "deathmance", Morinth/Nef backstory, Femshep/Liara romance continuation in LotSB, Femshep/Shiala flirting,  Mordin/MShep convo when MShep isn't romancing anyone (don't matter if it's there for humor: it's still same-sex content), Jack backstory

In ME2, there's also the Tali/Femshep thing, where the culmination of the friendship track is identical to the beginning of MShep's romance track with her.  It very much comes off like Tali is into Femshep in "that way", and the Lair dossier does nothing to alter that impression, but rather reinforces it.



Femshep/Liara, Femshep/Morinth, Femshep/Samara,  Femshep/Consort and Femshep/Shiala aren't really same-sex content. Sure codex says that Asari are female but they're one sex gender and to me they don't have a gender. Also Morinth "romance" is more of a joke.
Femshep/Kelly fling, Mordin/MShep is more of a joke/easter egg type of thing. Tali is also clearly just a friend. Didn't feel any kind of sexual tension in her discussion.
Really though it's not about same-sex content but more about the fact that Bioware have implied that shepards not gay nor never will be. So just suddenly putting that in would in my mind seem like Bioware had sold their "soul". I'm not worried though, ME seems to have much more reasonable fanbase than DA and I'm 99% they won't put same-sex romance in the game.

ETA: So, in conclusion, your course is clear: you must now travel back
in time and prevent your younger self from buying ME1 and ME2. 
Godspeed!


If I knew how to time travel instead of playing ME I would be living it.:P

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Abramis brama wrote...

Femshep/Liara, Femshep/Morinth, Femshep/Samara,  Femshep/Consort and Femshep/Shiala aren't really same-sex content. Sure codex says that Asari are female but they're one sex gender and to me they don't have a gender. Also Morinth "romance" is more of a joke.
Femshep/Kelly fling, Mordin/MShep is more of a joke/easter egg type of thing. Tali is also clearly just a friend. Didn't feel any kind of sexual tension in her discussion.
Really though it's not about same-sex content but more about the fact that Bioware have implied that shepards not gay nor never will be. So just suddenly putting that in would in my mind seem like Bioware had sold their "soul". I'm not worried though, ME seems to have much more reasonable fanbase than DA and I'm 99% they won't put same-sex romance in the game.


This argument has been  made over and over but I'm not convinced. Asari are an all-female race. FemShep is female. Hence same sex romance. The argument that asari aren't female is just a way of denouncing the same sex romance label. You can't acknowledge the codex says female and then deny it, that's silly. Besides, this is about human perceptions. FemShep already has the option of pointing out how weird a romance will be between her and Liara because they were both female so it's fairly clear how a human is going to view it. If your FemShep is more open minded than that, then that's fair enough. My FemShep, however, is a lesbian.

It's funny how you equate a reasonable fanbase with not wanting to have same sex content in a game. >.>

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Abramis brama wrote...

Really though it's not about same-sex content but more about the fact that Bioware have implied that shepards not gay nor never will be. So just suddenly putting that in would in my mind seem like Bioware had sold their "soul". I'm not worried though, ME seems to have much more reasonable fanbase than DA and I'm 99% they won't put same-sex romance in the game.


"Bioware never implied that Garrus or Tali had a liking for Shepard, nor did they ever claim they would in the future.

Just suddenly putting that in would in my mind seem like Bioware had lost their "soul"."

See your argument? Consistency is always secondary when a developer has creative control. Fans asked for Tali & Garrus to be romancable, Bioware delivered. Fans are asking for more diversity in romance options. We're hoping Bioware is nice enough to deliver.  

Please define what "a more reasonable fanbase" is, in relation to Mass Effect versus Dragon Age. Is "more reasonable" code for something? By all means don't hide your personal discomfort behind false logic. 

One last thing: biologically asari can't be "genderless", or they'd be asexually reproductive. They're sexually reproductive, with female characteristics and maternal instincts. The bewbs might just be a hint. 

I'm sure if male Shepards had the chance to romance a monogendered masculine alien (assuming for a second that would even work reproductively) you wouldn't feel so easy about dismissing it as a same-sex romance. Would I be correct?

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@Abramis Brama

Again, mono-gendered =/= no gender. They're all female so fem!shep + (any of above) = F/F romance. Hence the double standard argument.

Why does it matter to you? say they add a new character. Just one male (James Sanders maybe for speculation) who is bi. Are you going to flip out and not buy the game because there is 1 bisexual option who happens to be male? And how would they of "sold their soul" in order to do that? They are letting some of the fanbase enjoy the game more than they can currently. I'm sure the game is one of the best you've ever played and that your romance with whoever just amplifies that awesomeness. My Shepard doesn't get that option and who are you to say he shouldn't get that option. He isn't being retconned and nobody else is from what we know at this point.

My Shepard never romanced anyone because he IS gay, I unlike you just don't get a way to affirm that within the game constraints where at one point in the past I would of if they allowed the content to be released. Hence he has not suddenly developed "the gay" when Mass Effect 3 comes around.

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centauri2002 wrote...

This argument has been  made
over and over but I'm not convinced. Asari are an all-female race.
FemShep is female. Hence same sex romance. The argument that asari
aren't female is just a way of denouncing the same sex romance label.
You can't acknowledge the codex says female and then deny it, that's
silly. Besides, this is about human perceptions. FemShep already has the
option of pointing out how weird a romance will be between her and
Liara because they were both female so it's fairly clear how a human is
going to view it. If your FemShep is more open minded than that, then
that's fair enough. My FemShep, however, is a lesbian.


Of course I can deny it. It just doesn't make sense. Asari just have female characterization out of necessity (breasts for feeding the child). I don't see them as a female just Asari, blue alien race with tentacles for hair.

ElitePinecone wrote...

"Bioware never implied that Garrus or Tali had a liking for Shepard, nor did they ever claim they would in the future.

Just suddenly putting that in would in my mind seem like Bioware had lost their "soul"."

See your argument? Consistency is always secondary when a developer has creative control. Fans asked for Tali & Garrus to be romancable, Bioware delivered. Fans are asking for more diversity in romance options. We're hoping Bioware is nice enough to deliver.  

Please define what "a more reasonable fanbase" is, in relation to Mass Effect versus Dragon Age. Is "more reasonable" code for something? By all means don't hide your personal discomfort behind false logic.


Consistency should be the most important thing. Just suddenly making U-turns and changing something vital is just stupid(sexuality is one of the most important things for human being).

By reasonable fanbase I mean one that doesn't just want romances for romances sake but actually wants consistent character development. Though it's also more conservative.

I'm sure if male Shepards had the chance to romance a monogendered
masculine alien (assuming for a second that would even work
reproductively) you wouldn't feel so easy about dismissing it as a
same-sex romance. Would I be correct?


Actually I think that would be way more interesting than Asari. First thing in my mind when I saw Asari was "they just didn't have the balls to be more controversial".

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Abramis brama wrote...

Of course I can deny it. It just doesn't make sense. Asari just have female characterization out of necessity (breasts for feeding the child). I don't see them as a female just Asari, blue alien race with tentacles for hair.


Let's put it this way then... To the asari, they are simply just asari. To humans, they are female. We have the need to label things as a means of understanding them. Most humans have a need to classify something as either female or male because it is acceptable within our own societal constructs to romance someone of one or both genders. So, for a straight male, it is only acceptable to them that they romance a female. if we were to come across a masculine looking race that had no label for male or female, would it be acceptable for that straight male to then romance that alien? From his perspective, I mean. We can only operate within the realms of what we know. 

It's quite possible that, at some point in the future, we will be free of this need to define everything but, for now, we still require those pesky labels. 

And what's with calling the asari fringe tentacles? They're not even soft. o_0

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Abramis brama wrote...

Femshep/Liara, Femshep/Morinth, Femshep/Samara,  Femshep/Consort and Femshep/Shiala aren't really same-sex content.


Well, unfortunately, the people who actually work on the games think they are.  To quote this again:

I didn't work on ME1 but I would venture to say that most of the developers feel that Liara/Femshep is an F/F relationship. I don't know if the "she's an asari" thing was ever intended to take away from the F/F aspect (since I wasn't around when the idea was put together) but nevertheless, she was intended as the gay female love interest.


You can of course rationalize away till, like an asari, you're blue in the face, but that won't change the facts.

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While I can understand why people would want the option of having a relationship in the game that caters to their sexual orientation, I honestly don't feel that strongly about it.

I would rather have a character that was developed from scratch and turned into a well rounded squad mate with a unique personality and backstory than a character that the developers sat down and said "Ok we need a m/m f/m character...go"

They did that with Zevran and look what we got...an elf who talks about sex every other sentence, has a fetish for leather, and grew up as a ****. Its as if they just said "Lets take every stereotype there is and call it a day."
OR they decide that an existing character needs the bi option added so they force in some terrible dialogue that doesn't fit the character's personality just so they can attempt to appease the fans (Anders/Fenris)

I don't want that with Mass Effect.

With the exception of Jack, I haven't interacted with a character that I didn't enjoy. All of them feel unique to me (except for Grunt, who is just a Wrex clone, we all know it). Why is that? Because they weren't forced characters.

If you set out to craft a character just to fulfill one goal, its gonna be a crap character.

"We need another Krogan..." = Grunt
"We need a gay stereotype elf..." = Zevran
"We need some bi romantic interests..." = Anders/Fenris Dialogue Fail
"We need a bad ass violent chick with a dark past that hates everyone...cause that totally hasn't ever been done before, ever..." = Jack

Don't force yourself to make a gay/bi/lesbian character. It will ruin the character.

Besides... Its realistic...
I was into Alistair, but he wasn't gay...too bad for me, but thats his character, and I still like him.
I liked Kaidan, but he wasn't gay...sucks to be me I spose, but again..still one of my favorite characters.

I really liked a guy during the ninth grade...guess what...he wasn't gay...sucks to be me, but thats kinda how it works. People aren't gonna be gay just because you want them to be.

People seem to forget that while Mass Effect is about letting you shape Commander Shepard, its not about letting you shape others.
Its a story. Its a book that has been made interactive. There are set endings. Characters have specific personalities.

Thats why is successful to me. Nothing was forced.

I'm not saying it would be wrong to have a gay/bi/lesbian character...i'm just saying you can't force these things for the sake of appeasing fans.


TL;DR - When you craft a character first, and build from its personality, you get Tali/Garrus/Liara...when you craft a sexual orientation and then add a character...you get Zevran...think about it.




You good sir,  seem to be stating, when it comes to character definition, what I was kind of trying to state earlier but from a different angle and in a much better fashion. I tip my hat to you!

Also, Grunt wasn't just "We need another Krogan", it was "We need a Krogan who for some reason knows nothing about Krogans, so we have an excuse to go through Krogan ceremony". He's definitely more device than character, but at least they're pretty damn up front about it.

As to a lot of other people on this thread:

Something bothers me about a certain train of logic that a lot of people here are seem to keep making.

Aside from kind of ignoring the whole "burden of proof is on the on the one who claims a change in the status quo" (seriously this is Logic 101 - literally) in relation to everyone claiming that characters could secretly been hiding their sexual orientation from their public personas this whole time.

Did everyone here suddenly forget that with the exception of Grunt, and proportionally Liara (though she views sexuality quite differently as an Asari I'm sure) no romancable character in Mass Effect 1 or 2 is a teenager dealing with sexual identity confusion?

They are all adults. Mostly in their thirties (relative to human ages for some of the aliens) if not older.  And in almost every squadmate you can get is, as a character, someone who is a self assured person in most ways.

Garrus is a guy who knows he wants to [do something dramatic to the NPC in his loyalty mission] and so he doesn't sit around and ponder about it and wonder. He makes a descision and a judgment, then asks for Shepard's help. Pretty much every loyalty mission in ME2 is like this, with there being perhaps a little more leeway in the case of Grunt and Jack.

Most folks, by the time they're this age know how they swing, orientation wise. Especially if they're the type of descisive person who carries a battle rifle around and shoots people. Due to this, any argument about a character "realizing" or "discovering" that they're gay or bisexual would seem rather hollow, wouldn't it?

This means that the only reason they wouldn't be openly gay and/or bi would be because they were hiding this fact. But . . . why would they? Even if, somehow the Human Alliance wasn't more accepting of homosexuality for some reason, I seriously doubt it's an issue in Citadel space, considering the Citadel council was orginally founded by the Salarians and the Asari.

The Salarians don't seem to view sex as anything other than a reproductive act and assign little emotional value to it on a personal level, so I can't imagine them caring in general.

The Asari are in general obviously OK with sleeping with either sex from another species. They're only hangup is that it not be with another Asari.

When these viewpoints are two thirds of the ruling majority of the Galactic government, I seriously doubt that homosexuality is frowned upon in the Galaxy of Mass Effect. Maybe it would for certain less important races. The Krogan for example,
perhaps only due to the Genophage, and possibly Batarians because they
seem to be the biggest dick-heads in space, but the majority viewpoint would still probably side with the Council races, and probably with the Asari as a default.

So again, why would anyone on Shepard's crew hide their homosexual or bisexual identity? It just wouldn't make any sense.

Also I am aware of "hypocrisy" of pointing out other people's twisting logic toward their personal desires then essentially using in-game logic in just as silly a fashion shortly thereafter. So don't bother pointing that out.

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And what's with calling the asari fringe tentacles? They're not even soft. o_0


Well, I should think that's pretty obvious: they strongly resemble tentacles.  And I don't see what being soft has to do with it (a topic, BTW, the games have never even addressed).  Or did you mean "flexible"?  Still doesn't matter, because that's not why the comparison comes up: it's purely based on shape.  Hell, the game even jokes about it: get Rupert those ingredients and sample the results.

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@MrGone: You're making a whole bunch of assumptions here. I know we don't really have much more than that to go on so I'll just offer some counters to your logic.

Firstly, regarding announcing sexuality, none of the love interests explicitly state their sexuality. It's up to Shepard to initiate romance in most cases. So, for example, if you choose to romance Liara and ignore Kaiden altogether as FemShep, why should you assume he is straight? My point here is, not everyone throws themselves at your feet so their sexuality doesn't even come into a conversation.

Secondly, why must a homosexual or bisexual character even state their sexuality? Is that even relevant when you're on a mission to save the galaxy from peril? The only time it should come up is if your Shepard is interested in romancing them. I don't know about you, but I don't go around announcing my sexuality to everyone I come across in daily life, or even people I interact with often. It's none of their business.

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@MrGone:

You make a good point, and again I want to stress that the burden is on the developers to rationalise making former squadmates available for same-sex romance if they so choose (it worked reasonably well with Anders, for example). This thread is suggesting only that some same-sex relationships in the series at some point in the future would be dandy.

That being said, sexuality almost literally never comes up in the course of game conversations (save for the actual romance dialogue with squadmates). It isn't a matter of "hiding" or even "exposing" anything - the idea that sexuality needs to be announced is most definitely a cultural construct of our time. Not necessarily 2185. I'm not trying to weasel around logic here, but there is significant room for interpretation of things left unsaid.

The easiest solution would, of course, seem to be a new character in ME3, a few of whom we've seen announced or referred to. I would also argue that the previously bisexual ME1 squadmates (Ash and Kaidan) are also candidates for being open to a s/s romance, cut content notwithstanding.

Finally, because I always like to use this example, it strikes me that Garrus and Tali "hid" their affections for Shepard throughout an entire game in ME1. Bioware modified their characters because it had reason to, not because it made sense or was particularly good storytelling.

Again, expediency will always trump consistency.

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didymos1120 wrote...

Well, I should think that's pretty obvious: they strongly resemble tentacles.  And I don't see what being soft has to do with it (a topic, BTW, the games have never even addressed).  Or did you mean "flexible"?  Still doesn't matter, because that's not why the comparison comes up: it's purely based on shape.  Hell, the game even jokes about it: get Rupert those ingredients and sample the results.


Because they don't seem like tentacles to me. Flexible, yes, and soft. That's how they usually are on wildlife. Perhaps it's the negative association I have with them. But they look more like a part of the asari's skull, or perhaps cartilage than something like tentacles. They don't appear to move. Then again, neither does human hair.

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didymos1120 wrote...

M8DMAN wrote...

didymos1120 wrote...

M8DMAN wrote...

didymos1120 wrote...

Uh, yeah, him being bisexual has nothing to do with him being a revolutionary. 


Yeah but it did make him Moody.



Really? Fascinating. You should write up a paper or something, 'cause I had no idea that bisexuality was the primary cause of moodiness.  That's....revolutionary!

*snip trollface image*


So was that an admission of trolling, or just you trying the "I know you are but what am I?" tactic?

Yes I was trolling about the moody part. I thought that was pretty obvious?

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MrGone wrote...

Moodath wrote...

While I can understand why people would want the option of having a relationship in the game that caters to their sexual orientation, I honestly don't feel that strongly about it.

I would rather have a character that was developed from scratch and turned into a well rounded squad mate with a unique personality and backstory than a character that the developers sat down and said "Ok we need a m/m f/m character...go"

They did that with Zevran and look what we got...an elf who talks about sex every other sentence, has a fetish for leather, and grew up as a ****. Its as if they just said "Lets take every stereotype there is and call it a day."
OR they decide that an existing character needs the bi option added so they force in some terrible dialogue that doesn't fit the character's personality just so they can attempt to appease the fans (Anders/Fenris)

I don't want that with Mass Effect.

With the exception of Jack, I haven't interacted with a character that I didn't enjoy. All of them feel unique to me (except for Grunt, who is just a Wrex clone, we all know it). Why is that? Because they weren't forced characters.

If you set out to craft a character just to fulfill one goal, its gonna be a crap character.

"We need another Krogan..." = Grunt
"We need a gay stereotype elf..." = Zevran
"We need some bi romantic interests..." = Anders/Fenris Dialogue Fail
"We need a bad ass violent chick with a dark past that hates everyone...cause that totally hasn't ever been done before, ever..." = Jack

Don't force yourself to make a gay/bi/lesbian character. It will ruin the character.

Besides... Its realistic...
I was into Alistair, but he wasn't gay...too bad for me, but thats his character, and I still like him.
I liked Kaidan, but he wasn't gay...sucks to be me I spose, but again..still one of my favorite characters.

I really liked a guy during the ninth grade...guess what...he wasn't gay...sucks to be me, but thats kinda how it works. People aren't gonna be gay just because you want them to be.

People seem to forget that while Mass Effect is about letting you shape Commander Shepard, its not about letting you shape others.
Its a story. Its a book that has been made interactive. There are set endings. Characters have specific personalities.

Thats why is successful to me. Nothing was forced.

I'm not saying it would be wrong to have a gay/bi/lesbian character...i'm just saying you can't force these things for the sake of appeasing fans.


TL;DR - When you craft a character first, and build from its personality, you get Tali/Garrus/Liara...when you craft a sexual orientation and then add a character...you get Zevran...think about it.




You good sir,  seem to be stating, when it comes to character definition, what I was kind of trying to state earlier but from a different angle and in a much better fashion. I tip my hat to you!

Also, Grunt wasn't just "We need another Krogan", it was "We need a Krogan who for some reason knows nothing about Krogans, so we have an excuse to go through Krogan ceremony". He's definitely more device than character, but at least they're pretty damn up front about it.

As to a lot of other people on this thread:

Something bothers me about a certain train of logic that a lot of people here are seem to keep making.

Aside from kind of ignoring the whole "burden of proof is on the on the one who claims a change in the status quo" (seriously this is Logic 101 - literally) in relation to everyone claiming that characters could secretly been hiding their sexual orientation from their public personas this whole time.

Did everyone here suddenly forget that with the exception of Grunt, and proportionally Liara (though she views sexuality quite differently as an Asari I'm sure) no romancable character in Mass Effect 1 or 2 is a teenager dealing with sexual identity confusion?

They are all adults. Mostly in their thirties (relative to human ages for some of the aliens) if not older.  And in almost every squadmate you can get is, as a character, someone who is a self assured person in most ways.

Garrus is a guy who knows he wants to [do something dramatic to the NPC in his loyalty mission] and so he doesn't sit around and ponder about it and wonder. He makes a descision and a judgment, then asks for Shepard's help. Pretty much every loyalty mission in ME2 is like this, with there being perhaps a little more leeway in the case of Grunt and Jack.

Most folks, by the time they're this age know how they swing, orientation wise. Especially if they're the type of descisive person who carries a battle rifle around and shoots people. Due to this, any argument about a character "realizing" or "discovering" that they're gay or bisexual would seem rather hollow, wouldn't it?

This means that the only reason they wouldn't be openly gay and/or bi would be because they were hiding this fact. But . . . why would they? Even if, somehow the Human Alliance wasn't more accepting of homosexuality for some reason, I seriously doubt it's an issue in Citadel space, considering the Citadel council was orginally founded by the Salarians and the Asari.

The Salarians don't seem to view sex as anything other than a reproductive act and assign little emotional value to it on a personal level, so I can't imagine them caring in general.

The Asari are in general obviously OK with sleeping with either sex from another species. They're only hangup is that it not be with another Asari.

When these viewpoints are two thirds of the ruling majority of the Galactic government, I seriously doubt that homosexuality is frowned upon in the Galaxy of Mass Effect. Maybe it would for certain less important races. The Krogan for example,
perhaps only due to the Genophage, and possibly Batarians because they
seem to be the biggest dick-heads in space, but the majority viewpoint would still probably side with the Council races, and probably with the Asari as a default.

So again, why would anyone on Shepard's crew hide their homosexual or bisexual identity? It just wouldn't make any sense.

Also I am aware of "hypocrisy" of pointing out other people's twisting logic toward their personal desires then essentially using in-game logic in just as silly a fashion shortly thereafter. So don't bother pointing that out.

My best friend knew he was gay from the moment he was old enough to know what gay meant. He was always a little feminine growing up, so the signs were always there. He didn't just Suddenly turn gay overnight.

This is why I get angry when a Characters sexual orientation is changed at the drop of a hat. It's comes off as unrealistic.

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@M8DMAN: But then there are those of us who have always known but show no outward signs of stereotypical behaviour. Most men can't tell I'm a lesbian so I'm usually assumed to be straight. I also don't tell most people my sexuality. Does it mean, when I tell a guy no, that my character has suddenly changed?

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M8DMAN wrote...
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With respect, your personal anecdote is just one example. I could pull up hundreds if not thousands of examples that show the opposite, or something else entirely. 

Sexuality can be fluid, and context is important. I trust Bioware's writing to deliver something memorable, which it does almost without exception. 

Also, if we're talking about realism: is it realistic for a turian or quarian to fall in love with someone of an entirely different species, afer saying nothing for months on end on the first mission? Is it realistic for squadmembers to almost literally throw themselves at Shepard after at most three conversations? Probably not. A certain amount of artistic licence is required. In Tali and Garrus' case we have the admission that it was almost entirely fan-driven. 

I understand your concern, but realism in characterisation, let alone consistency, is hard to find in gaming. I wouldn't necessarily go for "bisexualised" characters (except perhaps the Virmire survivor, given that they were once s/s options); I'd probably prefer a new character entirely, but if Bioware does decide to go down this path I wouldn't find a problem with it. 

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centauri2002 wrote...

@M8DMAN: But then there are those of us who have always known but show no outward signs of stereotypical behaviour. Most men can't tell I'm a lesbian so I'm usually assumed to be straight. I also don't tell most people my sexuality. Does it mean, when I tell a guy no, that my character has suddenly changed?


You just made my original point for character consistency, and not having having every character being romancable unless they were predetermined to be a "bi" character.

No, your character  wouldn't change if a guy hits on you. That was my original point like four pages ago. But, if you were in DA2, then yes, apparently you would have no choice in the matter.

It the protagonist from the game wants to flirt with you, and it just so happens to be a guy, then guess what, you like guys now!

Oh wait, you liked girls up till now? Well sorry, he's the protagonist!

See how that might be a bit like lessening you as a person and invalidating your choices a bit?

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MrGone wrote...

You just made my original point for character consistency, and not having having every character being romancable unless they were predetermined to be a "bi" character.

No, your character  wouldn't change if a guy hits on you. That was my original point like four pages ago. But, if you were in DA2, then yes, apparently you would have no choice in the matter.

It the protagonist from the game wants to flirt with you, and it just so happens to be a guy, then guess what, you like guys now!

Oh wait, you liked girls up till now? Well sorry, he's the protagonist!

See how that might be a bit like lessening you as a person and invalidating your choices a bit?


Of course. But this thread wasn't about the DA2 characters, that's another topic entirely. I do happen to agree with you there though.

However, my problem is with the assumption that a character is straight just... because. You never proposition Kaiden, for example, as MaleShep so how would you know if he's straight? It's all assumption. In most cases, Shepard has to be the one to make the first move and since the choice hasn't been given for Kaiden, there's no way of knowing.

Modifié par centauri2002, 17 avril 2011 - 01:30 .


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It wouldn't be surprising to me in the very least if Ashley or Kaidan went up to femShep and manShep respectively and just start spilling their hearts out onto his feet. Spontaneous romances do happen sometimes, and I think serving on life or death missions of great importance while dealing with political drama surrounding a figure that you respect and revere(Shepherd) can be a catalyst for that.
Keep in mind that Ashely and Kaidan where planned to be s/s LI's in the first place, so whose to say that Bioware can't blow the dust of those scripts and reuse them in ME3?

Modifié par Jademoon121, 17 avril 2011 - 02:45 .


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Abramis brama wrote...

Femshep/Liara, Femshep/Morinth, Femshep/Samara,  Femshep/Consort and Femshep/Shiala aren't really same-sex content. Sure codex says that Asari are female but they're one sex gender and to me they don't have a gender. Also Morinth "romance" is more of a joke.
Femshep/Kelly fling, Mordin/MShep is more of a joke/easter egg type of thing. Tali is also clearly just a friend. Didn't feel any kind of sexual tension in her discussion.
Really though it's not about same-sex content but more about the fact that Bioware have implied that shepards not gay nor never will be.


My FemShep is a lesbian and she's attracted to Liara because Liara, despite being a mono-gendered race (And that gender being female), has girl bumps and girl parts.  Whatever you may think about who your Shepard is, mine is gay.  Not heterosexual, not bisexual, absolutely, resolutely lesbian.  And that's therin lies the rub- your Shepard is who you want them to be.  You can argue all day long as to what Bioware's "intent" is or what the canon Shepard should represent, but at the end of the day we are given all these choices and options so that we may exercise them and craft the character in our universe as we see fit.  And as for my game, when my Shepard is passionately embracing Liara, with her curves and femininity, it's not because Shepard is into dudes. 

And you're not allowed to argue for realism and continuity while at the same time implying Bioware threw in a definitively lesbian relationship with Kelly as some kind of easter egg or joke. 

Modifié par halokitty, 17 avril 2011 - 04:06 .