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centauri2002 wrote...

I'm not sure I'm for an all bisexual option either. Yes, it would be the easiest route to making as many people happy as possible without having too much complexity, but the easiest way isn't necessarily the best way. I'd like to see some solely gay characters, some bisexual characters, and some straight characters. I don't necessarily have to have access to every character as a love interest.


Solely gay characters aren't happening because of resource concerns.

All bisexual seems to be the best route at the present time.

I'm with you though. I'd be all for certain characters being gay, straight, bi, not liking certain morality, not romancing you for certain choices, if you are too insensitive/too sensitive to them, if they think you're romancing someone else (instead of that silly her or me thing) and so on. If it ever gets to the point where characters can see our Shep's actual facial structure I'd be all for romances occuring/not occuring due to that as well.

Edit: I'm actually serious. No sarcasm. (My posts sometimes come off that way unintentionally).

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centauri2002 wrote...

I'm not sure I'm for an all bisexual option either. Yes, it would be the easiest route to making as many people happy as possible without having too much complexity, but the easiest way isn't necessarily the best way. I'd like to see some solely gay characters, some bisexual characters, and some straight characters. I don't necessarily have to have access to every character as a love interest.


Alas we won't ever see that path as solely gay characters aren't cost effective. 

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centauri2002 wrote...

I'm not sure I'm for an all bisexual option either. Yes, it would be the easiest route to making as many people happy as possible without having too much complexity, but the easiest way isn't necessarily the best way. I'd like to see some solely gay characters, some bisexual characters, and some straight characters. I don't necessarily have to have access to every character as a love interest.


Whilst I do actually agree with you, I highly doubt BioWare are going to put a solely homosexual character in. Which leaves us in a bit of an unfortunate situation and hence why alot of people are pessimistic at best that we will even get that option. And apparently Kaiden/Ashley being bi would be retconning so what can we do?

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Though the amount of butthurt the day there's a only gay LI.

Glorious

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Ryzaki wrote...

Solely gay characters aren't happening because of resource concerns.

All bisexual seems to be the best route at the present time.

I'm with you though. I'd be all for certain characters being gay, straight, bi, not liking certain morality, not romancing you for certain choices, if you are too insensitive/too sensitive to them, if they think you're romancing someone else (instead of that silly her or me thing) and so on. If it ever gets to the point where characters can see ou Shep's actual facial structure I'd be all for romances occuring/not occuring due to that as well.


Yeah, that's exactly it. That's my hopes for romance options in gaming in the not-too-distant future. I know it's probably not viable now but my hope is someone will attempt to accomplish it.

I don't see many options as the issue stands at the moment. There's the complete inclusivity in the form of an all bisexual cast or total exclusivity with only an all straight cast. Neither option is going to please absolutely everybody.

ETA: Don't worry, I understand sarcasm. And I recognise that's not it. :P

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Ryzaki wrote...

Though the amount of butthurt the day there's a only gay LI.

Glorious


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centauri2002 wrote...


Yeah, that's exactly it. That's my hopes for romance options in gaming in the not-too-distant future. I know it's probably not viable now but my hope is someone will attempt to accomplish it.

I don't see many options as the issue stands at the moment. There's the complete inclusivity in the form of an all bisexual cast or total exclusivity with only an all straight cast. Neither option is going to please absolutely everybody.

ETA: Don't worry, I understand sarcasm. And I recognise that's not it. :P


Or there's one bisexual character per gender, like in DAO. That would be welcome as well in ME3, because it's a hell of a lot better than what there is now.

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centauri2002 wrote...

Yeah, that's exactly it. That's my hopes for romance options in gaming in the not-too-distant future. I know it's probably not viable now but my hope is someone will attempt to accomplish it.

I don't see many options as the issue stands at the moment. There's the complete inclusivity in the form of an all bisexual cast or total exclusivity with only an all straight cast. Neither option is going to please absolutely everybody.

ETA: Don't worry, I understand sarcasm. And I recognise that's not it. :P


Yeah that would be a fun game to play.

Sadly the most likely it is to first be seen will probably be a dating sim.

It really isn't. I'm fine with all bi because you *don't* have to date everyone. And everyone isn't clamoring for your pants until you pick the big ol glowing heart. (with the exceptions of Izzy [who wants in everyone whose sexy pants] and Anders [Mr. clingy and desperate]) 

That said I'm prefectly fine with 2 new bi LIs (who I'd prefer be the 2 new humans we get) . (Pretty sure we're gonna get more than 2 new characters and chances are 2 humans of opposite genders will be included).

I'd like to have Kaidan. But I have a better chance of watching pigs fly. :lol:

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catabuca wrote...

Or there's one bisexual character per gender, like in DAO. That would be welcome as well in ME3, because it's a hell of a lot better than what there is now.


Yes, that's an option for Mass Effect. I really hope they've listened to the players, especially after Tali and Garrus. There's really no excuse not to.

As for future games, that topic's a tad trickier. I doubt I'll get to see what I want done for quite some time yet.

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Ryzaki wrote...

Though the amount of butthurt the day there's a only gay LI.

Glorious


Apt turn of phrase, too.

Glorious! :D

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Ryzaki wrote...

Yeah that would be a fun game to play.

Sadly the most likely it is to first be seen will probably be a dating sim.

It really isn't. I'm fine with all bi because you *don't* have to date everyone. And everyone isn't clamoring for your pants until you pick the big ol glowing heart. (with the exceptions of Izzy [who wants in everyone whose sexy pants] and Anders [Mr. clingy and desperate]) 

That said I'm prefectly fine with 2 new bi LIs (who I'd prefer be the 2 new humans we get) . (Pretty sure we're gonna get more than 2 new characters and chances are 2 humans of opposite genders will be included).

I'd like to have Kaidan. But I have a better chance of watching pigs fly. :lol:


Ah, yes, I've seen the arguments over DA2 romances and all I've concluded is that some guys object to a single line of dialogue and having Anders get a little mad at them. Seems a bit silly to me. It really shouldn't be a problem if you are the one making the first move.

That would be fantastic if they included two bi humans. I might actually roll another Shepard who may or may not be able to resist the charms of Liara to romance that new female. We shall see. >.>

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centauri2002 wrote...

Ah, yes, I've seen the arguments over DA2 romances and all I've concluded is that some guys object to a single line of dialogue and having Anders get a little mad at them. Seems a bit silly to me. It really shouldn't be a problem if you are the one making the first move.

That would be fantastic if they included two bi humans. I might actually roll another Shepard who may or may not be able to resist the charms of Liara to romance that new female. We shall see. >.>



Me too. I do think the people who want a nice "no thanks." aren't unreasonable. The rejection option is a little iffy if you're overly senstive. (But then again Anders is the type to *keep trying* if he thinks you're not completely uninterested. Even if you tell him to knock it off he still keeps going on about "don't you want something more open minded. I don't know what Hawke sees in you.) Ah Anders. You jealous catty b*tch.

Yes. That would be nice. I doubt it (hope I'm proven wrong like I was about DA2) but we'll see.

ElitePinecone wrote...

Apt turn of phrase, too.

Glorious! :D


I didn't even mean it that way but...:lol:

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I suppose there are two very logical points to be made against an all bi cast, versus having a cast featuring characters who are all predefined with some being gay,straight, bi, notinterested in a relationship no matter what.

1) Statistically speaking, what are the odds that ALL of the available characters a protagonist encounters are bisexual? Especially since bisexuality is not a requisite to how they encounter them (they encounter them do to other unrelated reasons).

I know this is countered with "Well it's a story set in space fighting otherworldly monsters/has wizards and magic and therefore who cares?".

Except that's a crappy counter claim as it A) doesn't address the issue, and B) there's this thing called supension of disbelief and this counter only possibly works if a viewers tastes on SOD are more modern. For people (like myself) who feel that classical SOD technique is prefererable, it's very unsatisfying.

classical SOD basically working thusly: if unrealistic events/plots/creatures are created by the writer(s), this can be eased greatly in the reader/viewer/player's mind by making most other elements have a "human interest and a semblance of truth". Not having a statisitcal anomally such as having all 4 possibly rommanceable be bisexual is definitely closer to "semblance of truth" than having it, yes?

2) The design argument from the players perspective.

As I understand it, many people argue for the bisexuality for all LI option because:

From the player's perspective, all available LI should be available, whether same sex or opposite gendered as it keeps every option open. This means that if the player runs a male avatar, all female LI's are straight, and all male LI's are now gay. If a female avatar, all females are now gay, and males now straight.

I can agree with this from a usability sense, sure. But in every other way, this just seems like Schrodinger's Cat, but with sexual preferences rather than feline pets. And that is a logic bomb that hurts my brain.

A present choice BY THE PLAYER is informing a past state of an NPC. Not something minor either, but a core part of who they are. On anything other than a subatomic level, this breaks the logic of the chronology of time.

Even if for some reason, this logic break in time doesn't bother you, then what are the implications of not making a choice to pursue a romantic relationship with a partner?  If, as a male Avatar, I never make a pass at another male LI, is his orientation then straight, gay or bi? If I asked, he would be interested in me yes, but perhaps if I don't ask, he becomes striaght? Huh?

Hell doesn't that happen in DA2 if you don't romance Isabella or Fenris? Both of them are potentially interested in you (and so a same sex relationship regardless of your choice of gender)  unless you fail to act on it, then they enter into an opposite gender relationship with each other, meaning both therefore are now straight.

By the way, THIS is why justification of sexual preference can matter (which is a counter argument I see thrown on this board a lot). Isabella's ability to enter into either a same-sex or opposite-sex relationship doesn't break logic, as she mentions bisexuality as part of her character. But Fenris is apparently Schrodinger aligned, and either is gay if you pursue him as a male Hawke, or is straight if you don't.

Guh?

Tangent: Another problem as I see it, is that  from a gameplay sense, you have to initiate the relationship every time. None of the LI's ever pursue you, the player, which again seems a statistical improbablity. At the very least it's a missed opportunity to mix up the system, and also easily implemented from a design sense (By creating a location where you know the player will go, their homebase/captain's quarters, you can have an LI confront you there).

- End of Tangent -

Still, how does the quantum sexuality condition above the tangent not hurt anyone else's brain? I know it hurts mine.

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I support this. My femshep wants to romance Ash (without mods) so badly...

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Even if for some reason, this logic break in time doesn't bother you, then what are the implications of not making a choice to pursue a romantic relationship with a partner?  If, as a male Avatar, I never make a pass at another male LI, is his orientation then straight, gay or bi? If I asked, he would be interested in me yes, but perhaps if I don't ask, he becomes striaght? Huh?

Hell doesn't that happen in DA2 if you don't romance Isabella or Fenris? Both of them are potentially interested in you (and so a same sex relationship regardless of your choice of gender)  unless you fail to act on it, then they enter into an opposite gender relationship with each other, meaning both therefore are now straight.

By the way, THIS is why justification of sexual preference can matter (which is a counter argument I see thrown on this board a lot). Isabella's ability to enter into either a same-sex or opposite-sex relationship doesn't break logic, as she mentions bisexuality as part of her character. But Fenris is apparently Schrodinger aligned, and either is gay if you pursue him as a male Hawke, or is straight if you don't.

Guh?

Tangent: Another problem as I see it, is that  from a gameplay sense, you have to initiate the relationship every time. None of the LI's ever pursue you, the player, which again seems a statistical improbablity. At the very least it's a missed opportunity to mix up the system, and also easily implemented from a design sense (By creating a location where you know the player will go, their homebase/captain's quarters, you can have an LI confront you there).

- End of Tangent -

Still, how does the quantum sexuality condition above the tangent not hurt anyone else's brain? I know it hurts mine.


Sorry I snipped the earlier stuff, I wanted to focus on the parts I left in in particular.

The main thing I want to say is why do you believe that if Isabela and Fenris enter into a relationship with each other that makes them straight? The very definition of bisexuality is that a person is attracted to both men and women. There is nothing about Isabela and Fenris' relationship that nullifies ther bisexuality. They merely find each other attractive. One doesn't have to be constantly engaged in a relationship with someone of the same sex in order to still be bisexual.

Taking that point futher, if mHawke didn't approach Anders or Fenris in a particular playthrough, and went for Merrill instead, yet again that does not nullify anyone's sexual orientation. Merrill doesn't magically become straight, she is a bisexual in a relationship with a man. Anders and Fenris don't become straight, they are bisexuals and Fenris ends up in a relationship with Isabela. You still have Anders' discussion about Karl. However, if playing as a female Hawke, the fact he doesn't tell her about Karl again does not nullify his orientation. He merely didn't tell her. I agree with Gaider when he said it is self-serving to say "X is gay in this instance, but straight in that" -- it has no basis in the actual reality of the game, because so much is left unsaid there are no declarations of specific orientation through which you can claim to set one character or another as of a particular orientation, other than bisexual (coming from the knowledge that either gendered Hawke can romance them).

Is it merely that you would feel happier about all of them being bisexual if there had been some sort of statement about their orientation, so you 'knew for sure'? If so, I can understand that argument, even though I don't agree with it myself. Since straight love interests in these sorts of games aren't generally required to make any statement about their orientation, my opinion is that it shouldn't be required of bisexual or gay characters either. Of course, society judges us straight until proven otherwise. Again, understandable, but wrong. The onus should not be on gay or bisexual characters to 'prove' their orientation lest they be considered straight, or otherwise 'lacking', but it should be on the player to take the situation on face value: that being that we know they are bisexual, and that is that.

And your later point (your tangent) about LIs initiating romance dialogue: this is exactly what Anders does in the game, and it has met with a great deal of criticism and unease from some quarters. I don't agree with that criticism, and I think it's a positive step forward to have LIs initiate encounters like that as an attempt at verisimilitude. It was present in the game though, so to say it wasn't isn't true. However, I don't see a link between a bisexual cast of LIs, as opposed to a line up of straight, gay and bisexual characters, and the initiation of romances. Since all characters are bisexual, any of them can be written to initiate an encounter with your PC -- the only limitation on this is whether it would be in character for them to do so. I can't see Merrill doing something like that, whereas it made perfect sense for Anders to. That is something that has nothing to do with their sexual orientation, and is just about whether they are confident in matters of the heart (and pants) or not. Those 'passes' would likely be the same regardless of whether they were gay, straight or bi.

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Blame it on me being from the south (Alabama) but i really don't want a gay romance. It's not that I'm a unconsiderate bigot, i just don't see the enjoyment of a man romancing another, or even two women even in a fictionlized setting. However, other people have thier beliefs and feelings, and that is entirely ok, if there is one i hope it is not "in your face" like Liara in ME1, I hope it is "hidden" as in you must actively press for it.

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Liara was in your face? I'm just not seeing it...

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AngelicMachinery wrote...

Liara was in your face? I'm just not seeing it...


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o Amadeus o wrote...

Blame it on me being from the south (Alabama) but i really don't want a gay romance. It's not that I'm a unconsiderate bigot, i just don't see the enjoyment of a man romancing another, or even two women even in a fictionlized setting. However, other people have thier beliefs and feelings, and that is entirely ok, if there is one i hope it is not "in your face" like Liara in ME1, I hope it is "hidden" as in you must actively press for it.


I feel the same way about straight romances actually :3

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graciegrace wrote...

I feel the same way about straight romances actually :3


Wow, that one is going into the psychology book.

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MrGone wrote...

*snip*

1) Statistically speaking, what are the odds that ALL of the available characters a protagonist encounters are bisexual? Especially since bisexuality is not a requisite to how they encounter them (they encounter them do to other unrelated reasons).

*snip*


True, it is doubtful that all characters are bisexual.  However, this shouldn't be a big deal if you don't pursue characters you don't want to pursue (and they, in turn, don't pursue you).  Why would a player need to know everyone's sexual orientation on your squad, especially the ones you aren't interested in?  Since you brought up DA2, I'll say this:  I still don't know the sexual orientation of Varris because I've never pursued him with either gender.  It doesn't bother me a bit if he is bisexual, asexual, homosexual, or heterosexual because I'm not interested in him.  Also, if you look up Kinsey's research, he theorizes that most humans have shades of grey in their sexualities (though most lean strongly enough to one direction or another that they consider themselves exclusively ****** or exclusively hetero). 

*snip*
2) The design argument from the players perspective.

As I understand it, many people argue for the bisexuality for all LI option because:

From the player's perspective, all available LI should be available, whether same sex or opposite gendered as it keeps every option open. This means that if the player runs a male avatar, all female LI's are straight, and all male LI's are now gay. If a female avatar, all females are now gay, and males now straight. *snip*


I'm going to have to disagree with you there.  If I'm a maleShep and date Jack, but my femShep can date her too, I assume she's bisexual--especially with her back story.  No matter their preference for Shepard, their backstory doesn't change.

*snip* A present choice BY THE PLAYER is informing a past state of an NPC. Not something minor either, but a core part of who they are. On anything other than a subatomic level, this breaks the logic of the chronology of time.

Even if for some reason, this logic break in time doesn't bother you, then what are the implications of not making a choice to pursue a romantic relationship with a partner?  If, as a male Avatar, I never make a pass at another male LI, is his orientation then straight, gay or bi? If I asked, he would be interested in me yes, but perhaps if I don't ask, he becomes striaght? Huh? *snip*


No.  The NPC's orientation doesn't change.  Your perception of his orientation is up to you; whether it be correct or not.  Most people assume that everyone around them are heterosexual; that doesn't mean they are.  People assume I'm heterosexual all the time; I'm not.  Just because they don't see me in a relationship with another woman doesn't mean I'm any less gay. 

Further, there are several characters who sexualities hadn't been defined in ME1: Joker, Chakwas, Hackett, Garrus, Tali, Emily Wong, Gianna Parasini, etc.   In ME2, Garrus and Tali were revealed as heterosexual and would 'make an exception' to date outside their species.  There are still characters that have no defined orientation:  everyone mentioned in the ME1 list (except Tali/Garrus), Zaeed, Kal'Reegar, Bailey (he said he had a son and screwed up a marraige, but doesn't mention a wife or husband, to my recollection), Gavorn, Mordin (although Salarians don't have sex drives, so sexual orientations are moot), etc.

You can assume they are all heterosexual, but you are not necessarily correct.  The characters haven't made their orientations known.

*snip* Hell doesn't that happen in DA2 if you don't romance Isabella or Fenris? Both of them are potentially interested in you (and so a same sex relationship regardless of your choice of gender)  unless you fail to act on it, then they enter into an opposite gender relationship with each other, meaning both therefore are now straight. *snip*


No!  Okay, this is WAY off.  Isabela is NEVER straight and neither is Fenris.  Pay close attention to their backstories and banter.  Isabela hits on Bianca in one conversation and Bethany (indirectly) in another.  She talks about the splendors of sex with women.  During Fenris's Act 3 mission, Danarius incinuates that he and Fenris had a sexual relationship.  Regardless of if Isabela and Fenris hook up or not, it doesn't mean they are straight.  Both are clearly bisexual no matter how the player interacts with them.

Tangent: Another problem as I see it, is that  from a gameplay sense, you have to initiate the relationship every time. None of the LI's ever pursue you, the player, which again seems a statistical improbablity. *snip*


Some players find LI's pursuing them annoying.  Anders and Jacob scenarios come to mind.  Don't forget about Ash or Kaidan; if you were even slightly nice to them as an opposite sex character they assumed you were interested in them.  Devs listened to this and made romances harder to stumble into.  NPCs, however, will hit on you regardless.  I guess that was the way of evening it out.

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AngelicMachinery wrote...

Liara was in your face? I'm just not seeing it...


It was brought up almost immediately after meeting her, however Ashley and Kaidan gave did the same thing with the facial expressions after the beacon on Eden Prime, it could just be my inability to tell her no I don't like her, but it scame across to me as she was.

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o Amadeus o wrote...

AngelicMachinery wrote...

Liara was in your face? I'm just not seeing it...


It was brought up almost immediately after meeting her, however Ashley and Kaidan gave did the same thing with the facial expressions after the beacon on Eden Prime, it could just be my inability to tell her no I don't like her, but it scame across to me as she was.


Liara seemed about as bold as Kaidan and Ash when initiating interest.  However, Liara ellaborated on her interest a bit less timidly than Kaidan and Ash did originally.  To me, this made sense because K/A were both military subordinates to Shepard and it would be inappropriate to blantantly and openly state attraction to Shepard.  Liara didn't have that restriction.  However, I wouldn't classify either approach as "in your face".  "Unwanted" could be accurate, but 'in your face' sounds a bit too offensive.  I admit that Kaidan hitting on my Shep with his tone and body language was 'unwanted' but I won't say he was 'in my face'.  Then again, I wanted Liara to hit on my Shepard, so I obviously wouldn't see it as offensive. 

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earthbornFemShep wrote...

o Amadeus o wrote...

AngelicMachinery wrote...

Liara was in your face? I'm just not seeing it...


It was brought up almost immediately after meeting her, however Ashley and Kaidan gave did the same thing with the facial expressions after the beacon on Eden Prime, it could just be my inability to tell her no I don't like her, but it scame across to me as she was.


Liara seemed about as bold as Kaidan and Ash when initiating interest.  However, Liara ellaborated on her interest a bit less timidly than Kaidan and Ash did originally.  To me, this made sense because K/A were both military subordinates to Shepard and it would be inappropriate to blantantly and openly state attraction to Shepard.  Liara didn't have that restriction.  However, I wouldn't classify either approach as "in your face".  "Unwanted" could be accurate, but 'in your face' sounds a bit too offensive.  I admit that Kaidan hitting on my Shep with his tone and body language was 'unwanted' but I won't say he was 'in my face'.  Then again, I wanted Liara to hit on my Shepard, so I obviously wouldn't see it as offensive. 


I'll admit when I'm wrong, and I am. That makes alot of since

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catabuca wrote...

Sorry I snipped the earlier stuff, I wanted to focus on the parts I left in in particular.

The main thing I want to say is why do you believe that if Isabela and Fenris enter into a relationship with each other that makes them straight? The very definition of bisexuality is that a person is attracted to both men and women. There is nothing about Isabela and Fenris' relationship that nullifies ther bisexuality. They merely find each other attractive. One doesn't have to be constantly engaged in a relationship with someone of the same sex in order to still be bisexual.


Except that was kind of my point with my first point. Having a single character discover that of the six or seven people he's able to convince to fight with him/her from time to time, ALL of the people who are single are ALL Bisexual is a statistical improbability.

And a Statistical improbability that breaks my suspension of disbelief a bit (though quantum sexuality hurts my brain worse to be fair).

And it's not like some stuff like this wasn't considered. I remember reading an interview for the game where someone at BioWare was talking about why many of the choices you made in DAO didn't carry over directly, and I'm paraphrasing here, because they felt the chances of Hawke running into a lot of those characters would feel a bit unnattural considering he/she didn't know any of those characters or was involved in their adventures. It's why more often than not these events are referred to vaguely or in passing.

Taking that point futher, if mHawke didn't approach Anders or Fenris in a particular playthrough, and went for Merrill instead, yet again that does not nullify anyone's sexual orientation. Merrill doesn't magically become straight, she is a bisexual in a relationship with a man. Anders and Fenris don't become straight, they are bisexuals and Fenris ends up in a relationship with Isabela. You still have Anders' discussion about Karl. However, if playing as a female Hawke, the fact he doesn't tell her about Karl again does not nullify his orientation. He merely didn't tell her. I agree with Gaider when he said it is self-serving to say "X is gay in this instance, but straight in that" -- it has no basis in the actual reality of the game, because so much is left unsaid there are no declarations of specific orientation through which you can claim to set one character or another as of a particular orientation, other than bisexual (coming from the knowledge that either gendered Hawke can romance them).


See that last line, the "knowledge that either gendered Hawke can romance them" is exactly the problem. It creates a state which unless all are explained as bisexual (again, a statistical improbability and not covered) then yes, it means that my player knowledge get's in the way. Because it means I know that without my interference all characters are in a strange "null state" romantically. They are an imaginary number to use a mathematical term. If I choose I can romance Fenris as a male, but if I don't he goes for a lady. If I know he's bi then there's no question. If I do not know that, then his orientation is unknown, except I do know that he's interested in me as a male, so then that means he's either gay or bi, but then he goes for a girl so maybe he's just bi, but then if I'm a girl, then that means Fenris is ALWAYS straight as he either ends up with me or Isabella.

Since I know he always goes for me, I know he has no control over his own preference in love. Since I know that, it pulls me from the game and reminds me that he is just a series of scripted flow charts on a designer's board, that he is not as an involved a character as he could be if only the developers has just said, "no Fenris is straight Anders is gay that's it". Then I don't have these questions and neither does anyone else who thinks about things too much and was ever in either a Philosophy class or ever discussed Quantum Physics with anyone.

Is it merely that you would feel happier about all of them being bisexual if there had been some sort of statement about their orientation, so you 'knew for sure'? If so, I can understand that argument, even though I don't agree with it myself. Since straight love interests in these sorts of games aren't generally required to make any statement about their orientation, my opinion is that it shouldn't be required of bisexual or gay characters either. Of course, society judges us straight until proven otherwise. Again, understandable, but wrong. The onus should not be on gay or bisexual characters to 'prove' their orientation lest they be considered straight, or otherwise 'lacking', but it should be on the player to take the situation on face value: that being that we know they are bisexual, and that is that.


By the way, you're correct in that it doesn't have to be brought up. Nothing has to be brought up, and BioWare doesn't have to bring in romance options at all. But as they make more games it does seem like they're learning to create romances and relationships with more complicated webs among them. They didn't have to allow Fenris and Isabella hook up if you go for neither of them, but it creates a new layer doesn't it?

But as they get more complex, people start asking more questions. This entire forum thread essentially hinges on one of these questions. Currently in canon (as in what's released) ME, the question of same sex relationships, or having characters be or become bisexual isn't a question: they aren't there except in the case of FemShep/Liara (and Chambers I guess) but because a certain segment of the audience would like to see it, the question of "why can't Ashley be bi/lesbian in ME3" IS being brought up. The question of having MaleShep pursue another man is being brought up. The question of how this would be best implemented is being brought up.

When you start bringing in a questions like these then you start begging more questions. If the designers want to limit the number of questions, they need to make definite answers. Making everyone bi, as far as I'm concerned, is a less than satisfactory answer for the reasons I've already brought up in the earlier post and above: statistics and quantum theory, both of which break suspension of disbelief (in me).

Also I do find this rather consistent claim that just because someone would like further characterization that justifies character actions, it means that they are immediately jumping onto some sort of Anti-gay bandwagon that demands that all homosexual characters be clarified very odd, and fairly unjustifiably angry. That argument makes no sense.  You are making a rather large assumption that just because someone would rather not have their head a'splode/have to deal with fridge logic, it means they want Scarlet letters on anyone who prefers to boink people with the same genitalia.

Can't a guy just want more lucidation? Can't I like having one line of dialogue to lampshade something so I don't have a question running around in my brain that breaks me out of the story? If I'm the guy who wonders how someone can smoke a cigarette in the oxygen-rich environment on a space ship, why can't I have the "something or other device" that makes me not question that?

And your later point (your tangent) about LIs initiating romance dialogue: this is exactly what Anders does in the game, and it has met with a great deal of criticism and unease from some quarters. I don't agree with that criticism, and I think it's a positive step forward to have LIs initiate encounters like that as an attempt at verisimilitude. It was present in the game though, so to say it wasn't isn't true. However, I don't see a link between a bisexual cast of LIs, as opposed to a line up of straight, gay and bisexual characters, and the initiation of romances. Since all characters are bisexual, any of them can be written to initiate an encounter with your PC -- the only limitation on this is whether it would be in character for them to do so. I can't see Merrill doing something like that, whereas it made perfect sense for Anders to. That is something that has nothing to do with their sexual orientation, and is just about whether they are confident in matters of the heart (and pants) or not. Those 'passes' would likely be the same regardless of whether they were gay, straight or bi.


I just felt that it wasn't as far as they could go with Anders' pass at Hawke personally. I think, like you, it's an excellent step in the right direction. Also there is no link to anything else I was saying, that's why I labeled it as a tangent. It had nothing to do with gay/straight/bi sexual politics, it's just something that came to mind while typing.