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#8151
Ghost Warrior

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KawaiiKatie wrote...

Ghost Warrior wrote...

Olwydd wrote...

And sexuality does not determine personality or level of badassery.


It determines the way you see someone.


If you can't see my gay Shepard as a hero, even if he's doing the exact same heroic things your straight Shepard is doing, based solely on the fact that he is gay, then it's your failure, and it's a bigoted one at that.

My Shepard is gay. And until the game forces him to sleep with a woman, he will always be gay. I, like most people on this forum, merely wish that the Mass Effect series would allow him to express it, the same way lesbian Shepards can express their homosexuality with Kelly and Liara. For you to look at my Shepard, or any of the lesbian Shepards, and say "No, all the heroic things you've done negates your homosexuality because I just don't believe that such a heroic person could be gay" is just outright offensive.

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.
If it was my game,I would never have put same-sex relationships since I wouldn't be able to see Shepard as a gay person. Limits of his customatization would be there. You don't have to like it,but that's how I feel.

Since it's not my game,I have no right to demand that there is no such option,nor did I ever do that.
Look at my first post - "I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character" - and I wouldn't,not for me and my Shepards.

What you do in your game is your business,as far as I'm concerned,your Shepard can do whatever he/she wants,of course,it's not like I won't play the game if the option was there.

But I still don't have to like it,and I don't.

With this post I've finished with my activity on this topic.

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Kind of sad 99% of my Shepards are single. :/

...That or widowers.

...ah well. There's always room in the refrigerator. And incurable coughs of death. And Lost Lenores... 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 12 mai 2011 - 06:02 .


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Ghost Warrior wrote...
Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.
If it was my game,I would never have put same-sex relationships since I wouldn't be able to see Shepard as a gay person. Limits of his customatization would be there. You don't have to like it,but that's how I feel.

Since it's not my game,I have no right to demand that there is no such option,nor did I ever do that.
Look at my first post - "I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character" - and I wouldn't,not for me and my Shepards.

What you do in your game is your business,as far as I'm concerned,your Shepard can do whatever he/she wants,of course,it's not like I won't play the game if the option was there.

But I still don't have to like it,and I don't.

With this post I've finished with my activity on this topic.


The only response for that logical narrative is...

Your Shepard isn't straight, you only imagine him that way.

That is all.

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Ghost Warrior wrote...

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.
If it was my game,I would never have put same-sex relationships since I wouldn't be able to see Shepard as a gay person. Limits of his customatization would be there. You don't have to like it,but that's how I feel.

Since it's not my game,I have no right to demand that there is no such option,nor did I ever do that.
Look at my first post - "I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character" - and I wouldn't,not for me and my Shepards.

What you do in your game is your business,as far as I'm concerned,your Shepard can do whatever he/she wants,of course,it's not like I won't play the game if the option was there.

But I still don't have to like it,and I don't.

With this post I've finished with my activity on this topic.

See, as much as this guy is squick about man on man, he understands that it's just an option, that it's his opinion, and that he'd probably buy the game with gay, anyway.

So what's the problem, BW?

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Ghost Warrior wrote...
Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.

Well then your Shepard isn't straight.

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Ghost Warrior wrote...

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.


No, he really, really is. Again, I must post my Shepard, because I love his expression; he's just so unamused by your insistence that he isn't gay. :lol:

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Anyway, what evidence can you point to in the game that forces my Shepard to be straight? Is it the option to sleep with women? Sorry, no, but my Shepard never did any of that, because it was optional and, hey... no, come closer.... closer... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH MEN.

There's no part in the game that outright states that Shepard is straight. It gives you the option to pursue heterosexual relationships, but never forces it on you. And until that happens, my Shepard is gay, and if you tell him otherwise, well... There's a Renegade Interupt in your future, hon.

Modifié par KawaiiKatie, 12 mai 2011 - 06:10 .


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Ghost Warrior wrote...

Since it's not my game,I have no right to demand that there is no such option,nor did I ever do that.
Look at my first post - "I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character" - and I wouldn't,not for me and my Shepards.


I guess you forget saying "No Shepards are gay" (not just yours) and then people showed you examples of their gay Shepards (including mine)....I'm still waiting for you to tell me the sexual orientation of my Shepard.

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@KawaiiKatie: That handsome hunk is gay?

Figures. >:|

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Ghost Warrior wrote...

KawaiiKatie wrote...

Ghost Warrior wrote...

Olwydd wrote...

And sexuality does not determine personality or level of badassery.


It determines the way you see someone.


If you can't see my gay Shepard as a hero, even if he's doing the exact same heroic things your straight Shepard is doing, based solely on the fact that he is gay, then it's your failure, and it's a bigoted one at that.

My Shepard is gay. And until the game forces him to sleep with a woman, he will always be gay. I, like most people on this forum, merely wish that the Mass Effect series would allow him to express it, the same way lesbian Shepards can express their homosexuality with Kelly and Liara. For you to look at my Shepard, or any of the lesbian Shepards, and say "No, all the heroic things you've done negates your homosexuality because I just don't believe that such a heroic person could be gay" is just outright offensive.

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.
If it was my game,I would never have put same-sex relationships since I wouldn't be able to see Shepard as a gay person. Limits of his customatization would be there. You don't have to like it,but that's how I feel.

Since it's not my game,I have no right to demand that there is no such option,nor did I ever do that.
Look at my first post - "I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character" - and I wouldn't,not for me and my Shepards.

What you do in your game is your business,as far as I'm concerned,your Shepard can do whatever he/she wants,of course,it's not like I won't play the game if the option was there.

But I still don't have to like it,and I don't.

With this post I've finished with my activity on this topic.


This may be the most ridiculous thing I've heard all day. We imagine everything about our Shepards that doesn't explicitly play out in our games. That's part of that whole 'role-playing' thing. I imagine my Vanguard as a do-gooder Boy Scout who can't resist meddling in the business of every random person he meets. Are you an asari trying to unload a quarian slave? Devon Shepard to the rescue! Lost your charm necklace? Devon Shepard happened to find it for you! Why else would ANYONE do all those pointless non-essential "assignments". Fleshing out your character's story is KIND OF THE POINT. But hey, if you just want to play a space marine shooter, that's okay too.

Not to mention, Genius, that if Liara ISN'T female, then Male Shepard is therefore NOT in a heterosexual relationship with 'her'. 

Don't come into the Fight For The Love thread and expect a cake party while you spout anti-gay views. Ain't gonna happen. We don't go into your Gay People Are Bad Mmmkay threads and start talking sense, now do we?

Modifié par Siansonea II, 12 mai 2011 - 06:13 .


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KawaiiKatie wrote...

Ghost Warrior wrote...

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.


No, he really, really is. Again, I must post my Shepard, because I love his expression; he's just so unamused by your insistence that he isn't gay. :lol:

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Anyway, what evidence can you point to in the game that forces my Shepard to be straight? Is it the option to sleep with women? Sorry, no, but my Shepard never did any of that, because it was optional and, hey... no, come closer.... closer... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH MEN.

There's no part in the game that outright states that Shepard is straight. It gives you the option to pursue heterosexual relationships, but never forces it on you. And until that happens, my Shepard is gay, and if you tell him otherwise, well... There's a Renegade Interupt in your future, hon.


My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3

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AdmiralCheez wrote...

@KawaiiKatie: That handsome hunk is gay?

Figures. >:|


This. :crying:

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Ghost Warrior wrote...

jlb524 wrote...

Ghost Warrior wrote...

I definitely wouldn't want same-sex romances because I really think it's simply not in Shepard's character.


Which Shepard?

Every. I am aware that there are million Shepards and millon personalities but some things just don't fit any of those,this one being one of them. Just like no Shepard is a wuss,when you see an enemy,there is no "run away screaming" option. See what I mean?

Well, thanks for sharing your view, on how things should work, but sadly that doesn't apply to everyone because there is no canon and Shepard is not a pre-determined character. Gender, personality and "sexuality" is determined by the player. End of story.

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Siansonea II wrote...
My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3


Johnathan gets free drinks at Afterlife if Devon ever wants to come by~ <3

(This is the best reason for multiplayer I've heard yet!)

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KawaiiKatie wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3


Johnathan gets free drinks at Afterlife if Devon ever wants to come by~ <3

(This is the best reason for multiplayer I've heard yet!)


Shepard dating himself though..? :P

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KawaiiKatie wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3


Johnathan gets free drinks at Afterlife if Devon ever wants to come by~ <3

(This is the best reason for multiplayer I've heard yet!)


Well, it would be Martín Shepard, a hot half-Mexican dude who has always been rather fond of teh boyz (and teh girlz, to a lesser degree). :D Devon Shepard is a Liara man, I'm afraid. ;) Johnathan Shepard doesn't have a problem dating a bi guy, does he? Martín Shepard saved the Citadel from a huge geth attack, he's a standup guy. And he's got his own ship and everything. :kissing:

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ME3 DLC with characters open to same-sex relationships would also be a good idea. But that DLC should be released right after ME3 is released.


I could agree with you, but only if you're suggesting this DLC be free with game purchase like Shale in DA:O.  Otherwise producing the male oriented relationship for further money is just exclusionary in a different way.  A specific orientation should not have to pay extra just to be included.

I respectfully disagree with the interpretation of the sentiment that is trying to be expressed as entitlement.  There are four possible single partner pairing combinations involving the human concept of sex (which is the attitude and understanding of both players and their avatar Shepard so Asari concepts of a single sex [despite their blatant embrace of female pronouns] are not really a concern).  Obviously, male Shepard has female partners available to him.  Female Shepard also has a variety of male partners.  Additionally, female Shepard has two options for female partners.  Only male Shepard may not explore that avenue, and intentional or not, it sends a message that male orientation toward other males does not exist, should not exist or has in some way been eliminated. 

The emotional response from players, as I am experiencing it, is an acute awareness of being excluded.  Providing female Shepard female partners and omitting male partners for male Shepard is hypocritical at best, and insulting at the worst.  I cannot comprehend how anyone can pick and choose the attractive aspects of a culture, in this case girl on girl action, toss out the rest and consider it acceptable to not even acknowledge the inequality.

I can see how this could be construed as entitlement; however I think it is a completely justified expectation for anyone to feel represented and included in a situation that highlights such a wide variety of human traits including sexuality.  It is all the more confusing then that a game company that has consistently included this group has repeatedly excluded them in this series.  Contrary to the assertion that we should give them a break, I consider that less appropriate here.  They should be held to their own high standard, not allowed to simply get by, or worse, move in the opposite direction (as in the case of claiming Kelly isn't really a relationship and Liara isn't really a woman). 

I highly doubt a boycott would be a particularly effective demonstration at this point.  Personally, I am inclined to retain my $60 which I would not expect to be anything even resembling a drop in the bucket.  I would pass on ME3 knowing full well that this is only a symbolic gesture about the omission of a single aspect of a game.  In turn that omission of a single aspect is in itself a symbolic gesture so I think we'd be even from cosmic accounting standpoint.  This aspect could be just as easily included as the three existing pairing variations.  A single line with the same sex VS asking Shepard why they were chosen could offer A) a romantic option, B) a friendship option, or C) an "I flipped a Krogan, you were tails, Wrex faceplanted, so you won" option.  Options b and c in that example return things to business as usual, option A opens up a chance at romance. Option A could only appear if the VS is the same sex as Shepard and Shepard has not engaged in another romance during either prior game.  That approach seems the most consistent with the design philosophy of the game hinging on decisions made from the previous two.  It's a bit like returning to the Jade Empire approach, but a slight backslide is preferable to an all out tumble down the slippery slope.


I like this post, articulate and well thought out. I don't see what you are talking about as entitlement, and there are plenty like you on this thread, but there are plenty on here who are expressing entitlement. I can see how some people are offended, which again I think is down to assumptions about Bioware's agenda which frankly I can't see as supportable on account of the fact they have been inclusive in the past.

Another avenue I would like to correct you on is on Bioware's consistancy, in Baldur's Gate there were no romance options, Baldur's Gate II only includes hetero romance options, Neverwinter Nights included none, Jade Empire is their first game that includes same sex romances (and it takes a fair bit to unlock the m/m option), Knights of the Old Republic includes only hetero and f/f (so in that respect the ME franchise follows in KotOR's footsteps, but I don't recall such opposition to that game), and now we have the Dragon Age franchise which is thier first franchise to openly and equally include options for all.

The situation as I see it in giving them slack is that we are all on a collective journey, towards greater more acceptance of all races, colours, creeds and orientations. Bioware have in games like JE and KotOR opened up the door to that acceptance,  and hopefully wth Dragon Age and franchises beyond that will continue to open it more. Mass Effect as a franchise if guilty of anything has simply continued what was established in KotOR. At the time ME1 was released JE was the only game they featured a m/m romance option, so ME wasn't odd in not featuring it at all.

I can understand people's sense of feeling excluded, but I think in a lot of ways a lot of people have lost perspective, looked back on past games and seen things that weren't there. I remember when in Baldur's Gate II female gamers were hacked off that Anomen was thier sole romance option when males got Aeris, Jaheira and Viconia. What we have seen is inclusion of more choice so now female hetero gamers have choices in line with what guys get, and ME has been a step along the way, but not unfortunately the end to that journey when we will see well written and varied romance options for all.

Peace

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centauri2002 wrote...

KawaiiKatie wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3


Johnathan gets free drinks at Afterlife if Devon ever wants to come by~ <3

(This is the best reason for multiplayer I've heard yet!)


Shepard dating himself though..? :P

Psh you know Teagan Shepard in the femshep thread? Kallne wants a piece (or all) of her.Posted Image

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Siansonea II wrote...

KawaiiKatie wrote...

Ghost Warrior wrote...

Your Shepard isn't gay,you just imagine him that way.


No, he really, really is. Again, I must post my Shepard, because I love his expression; he's just so unamused by your insistence that he isn't gay. :lol:

Posted Image


Anyway, what evidence can you point to in the game that forces my Shepard to be straight? Is it the option to sleep with women? Sorry, no, but my Shepard never did any of that, because it was optional and, hey... no, come closer.... closer... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH MEN.

There's no part in the game that outright states that Shepard is straight. It gives you the option to pursue heterosexual relationships, but never forces it on you. And until that happens, my Shepard is gay, and if you tell him otherwise, well... There's a Renegade Interupt in your future, hon.


My Shepard would SO date your Shepard. <3


My only gay FemShep might go bisexual just for that guy.

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Heh I remember the nerd rage in JE about the guys getting two chicks and a threesome option and girls only got sky (and some girls whined about having to share sky with the m/m players which was dumb).

I have to admit I was annoyed myself. WTF did I get one option while hetero guys got 3? That was bull.

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ADLegend21 wrote...
Psh you know Teagan Shepard in the femshep thread? Kallne wants a piece (or all) of her.Posted Image


What about Miranda? :P

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centauri2002 wrote...

ADLegend21 wrote...
Psh you know Teagan Shepard in the femshep thread? Kallne wants a piece (or all) of her.Posted Image


What about Miranda? :P

Miranda's no Shepard.Posted Image

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Ryzaki wrote...

Heh I remember the nerd rage in JE about the guys getting two chicks and a threesome option and girls only got sky (and some girls whined about having to share sky with the m/m players which was dumb).

I have to admit I was annoyed myself. WTF did I get one option while hetero guys got 3? That was bull.


Yes, it was quite tipped in the hetero dude favor. 

I'm sure the "more hetero dudes play this game so STFU" argument was used then as well. 

It seems BW's gotten better at providing equal options for both gender character and then, in DA2, options for all orientations (though some heterosexuals feel 'excluded' I suppose).

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jlb524 wrote...

Yes, it was quite tipped in the hetero dude favor. 

I'm sure the "more hetero dudes play this game so STFU" argument was used then as well. 

It seems BW's gotten better at providing equal options for both gender character and then, in DA2, options for all orientations (though some heterosexuals feel 'excluded' I suppose).


Even though they're not. D:

I suppose it's easy to get used to having everything to yourself and then throw a tantrum when you have to share your toys with others.

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Even though they're not. D:

I suppose it's easy to get used to having everything to yourself and then throw a tantrum when you have to share your toys with others.


I never understood that. Who cares if someone has the same toy. Hell we'renot even really sharing because I still have my toy while you're playing with it. :unsure: 

I can ignore how you're playing the toy if I don't like the way you're playing with it. 

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Ryzaki wrote...

I never understood that. Who cares if someone has the same toy. Hell we'renot even really sharing because I still have my toy while you're playing with it. :unsure: 

I can ignore how you're playing the toy if I don't like the way you're playing with it. 


Indeed, it's not something I can understand either. 

For example, I don't like seeing Liara with MaleSheps so I don't go around looking for pictures of them together. It's easy to ignore the fact that she's romanceable by them because it doesn't effect me. If players are actively seeking out content they don't like, they're either masochists or they're complaining just a tad too much.