Evelinessa wrote...
But for Garrus I hated some of the things Shep said to him. Well first she tried to be more subtle with "looks like you have some tension, maybe I could help you get rid of it" well since that didn't work and Garrus thought she meant sparring then Shep said "how about we skip right right to the tiebreaker, we could test your reach with my flexibility" then she has a little half smile. I hate how forward she is. Well I guess she kinda had to with Garrus since he didn't get it the first time but... it still annoys me. Then later on she says "when should I book the room?" which made me feel like my Shep just wanted sex which is part of the reason I thought it was more casual well until I read otherwise.
That bothered me a lot too until I looked at it from Shepard's perspective. Garrus makes it pretty obvious early on that he's mainly focusing on the sex aspect, which I like to think is because he's still trying to even grasp the concept of a true relationship. She has to pick up on that and not force an issue Garrus is clearly not ready to discuss. The first "looks like you're carrying some tension" joke I can forgive, since it seems to be mostly a transitional line.
Besides, think about the brief times when Garrus
does seriously test the waters of a relationship. Shepard responds very easily.
"I want a few moments just for us before the throw ourselves into Hell for the good of the galaxy."
"I want that too, Garrus."
"Look, Shepard. I know you can find something closer to home."
"I don't want something closer to home. I want you. I want someone I can trust."
That doesn't sound like sex-driven talk to me. Shepard speaks seriously only when Garrus invites her to; until then, she'll stay in his comfort zone.