Gambient wrote...
I don't think its a big deal, really--the guys who demo these games play as males because they are males and are more comfortable. And as stated many times already, the only reason why BioWare's pushing a male protagonist forward is because the demographic, which is mostly male players. It would be unwise to appeal to the majority. I get what you're saying though about females being generally hyper sexualized--BioWare doesn't seem to do this often though.
Okay, look at it this way:
Imagine that there is this really awesome game coming out. It's promoted with a female character. She's not very sexy at all. In fact she is kind of ugly. Apart from that, though, this game is totally awesome. It's got great graphics, innovative and exciting gameplay, a totally epic storyline--it's everything you could want in a game. But there's no advertisement at all of a male character option--even though the devs tell you on their forum that you can be a guy. You can't see what the guy is going to look like, and even though you know you can customize your character--for instance, make the girl prettier or make your own default badass male--you don't get any acknowledgment that there will be a male in the game, nor do you get to see any screenshots of the male. If there are romances, you don't even get to know much about the girls that your guy can romance. I'm sure you can say that you wouldn't feel left out, but I'm reasonably sure that you'd be lying if you did say so. In fact, because, as many people point out, guys are so very visually-oriented, you probably wouldn't buy the game. In the event that you aren't shallow like most people (myself included in some cases) and you did buy the game, you'd find that the male character was just as good as the female, and he might even have a better voice actor and more interesting romance options. But you never knew that until you actually bought the game, because he wasn't advertised at all.
I don't care if the iconic character is male, although yes, I would like to see a female iconic character for Bioware one of these days (I don't think it'll happen, but I'd really, really like it). I just want some acknowledgment that you can make a LadyHawke if you want. If there isn't, I can deal with it and I'll probably still buy the game; I just won't be as happy as I would be if I could see/hear a little of the character I will be playing (the female version) beforehand (as much as I'm able without spoiling it for myself anyway).
I'm assuming (possibly wrongly?) that you're in the main targeted demographic--a male in the 18-35 age range. It's easier for you to be cool with the disinclusion of the female protagonist in the promotion of the game because you are not disincluded yourself and therefore have nothing to be upset about. The upset women of the fanbase probably look like a bunch of whiners to you because you can't really identify. I'm not exactly outraged, but I'm hoping that maybe if enough of us ask nicely that we will not be entirely excluded from the marketing. I know the women on the Bioware community forums aren't the only women who'd be interested in buying these games, and there's a lot to these games (storywise and dialoguewise and even romancewise) that new female players would eat up like chocolate candy--if they knew that the game included more than butt-kicking, blood, and gore, and especially if they knew they could have a female avatar!