I find it problematic that some people seem to be disliking some of these designs because of preconceptions of how smart and capable they think pretty women are (or are not). I also find it problematic that the designers chose to exclude a design that looked anything like original Jane, as better rendered hair and possibly a face model to ratchet up her detail to Sheploo's level would have sufficed.
Instead, we seem to be getting a lot of hoopla due to putting these appearance options to a public vote in a less than stellar forum. I'm loathe to start actually counting the sexist comments under those images in Facebook; I can barely go five comments down without skimming through 'I pick this one because she looks like X celebrity who I want to have sex with' or 'this one has short hair and therefore looks like a lesbian, therefore I hate it'. Weird at best, creepy at worst.
I mean, I get that we'd like more people to play with FemShep. I'm totally down with that. I'm just not down with the kind of people who are going, "Well, we'll only deem her worthy to play as if she's a total hottie." Yikes! That kind of requirement isn't placed on Sheploo, regardless of how hot one thinks he is. Why should it be placed on Jane? And setting her looks to a vote does have that kind of effect, especially when 1) one of those looks stands out as hitting most of NA's stereotypical beauty standards, and 2) the votes are being cast on a forum whose lowest common denominator vastly approves of NA's stereotypical beauty standards. It just feels a little off to me, personally.
Not to say I don't like the designs. I like them all and actually voted for them all. And I'm sure their intent was simply to make the players feel like we're involved. It just... doesn't come off that way sometimes.
But maybe it's a contextual thing: I don't trust Facebook, I don't agree with stereotypical beauty standards, I thought making Jane a redhead in the past was a bold move, I wish she'd have had as much facial detail as Sheploo, and I usually don't trust a marketing ploy as far as I can throw it. No offense to Silverman, mind you. Dude's a sweet adorkable guy, and I don't think he's got a bad bone in his body.
It's a little late and I'm losing my ability to string words together into coherent sentences, so I'll stop before I start babbling. Er... or KEEP babbling, anyway. Uh. Here, have a Jei to distract you all! *runs*

Jei: "This isn't going to end well, is it."
Zaeed: "Well hell, Shepard, I coulda told you that right at the start."
Jei: "Then why didn't you?!"
Zaeed: "Oh fer chrissakes -- you wanted me to shut up and follow orders, yeah? So I shut up and followed yer guddamn orders!"
Jei: "I hate you SO much right now."
Zaeed: "Feelin's mutual, Commander, believe me."
Aww, Jei loves her crotchety uncle Zaeed! <3