[quote]jwalker wrote...The clique argument has been addressed many times here. I won't add to it.
All I can say is if there's one problem with an active thread like this the amount of people posting. Having two different groups sharing the same space will only make things worst. More chances of getting ignored in the shuffle.[/quote]
[quote]Ottemis wrote...I'm getting a bit unamused by this clique argument tbh right about now.[/quote]
[quote]Interactive Civilian wrote...
You aren't suggesting that only female gamers play femShep and that only females post in this thread, are you? Because that's kind of what it sounds like.[/quote]
[quote]meonlyred wrote...I dunno what you guys are talking about this thread being clique-ish? I'm probably one of the newest people here and I stepped in and felt at home right away. I could tell from the beginning that this community was tight but I found you guys very welcoming.[/quote]
1) Obviously not everyone feels that there is a "cliquish" aura here. It was explained (wonderfully) why there is a very tight knit community here: because some of you guys/girls often communicate together outside of this forum. Perfectly understandable. But what you have to understand is that not everyone on this forum does that -- is aware of that -- or wants to join that.
It's great that you have femshep.com for femsheps only. But when you bring that close community here to a place where there are hundreds of people who are sharing this space with you, it can come off as a little cold
at first. I, and several other people from the sound of it, felt that at first. Oh -- its 100% natural for this to occur -- but that doesn't make it any easier for new forum members who aren't aware.
2) When I said "sisterhood", I also followed it with the world "clique".
Lets take a look at it's definition...
A clique *...* also
/ˈklɪk/ (U.S.)) is an inclusive group of people who share common
interests, views, purposes, patterns of behavior, or
ethnicity...[/quote]
I never said that it was only women. The majority of regular posters in this thread are women from what I understand (and I could be completely wrong, so forgive me if I am), but it certainly isn't set in stone.
Modifié par 100k, 23 août 2011 - 06:05 .