[quote]elfadelbosco wrote...
Speaking about the love-story with Kaidan, there's something I don't get:
I don't know if you girls already talked about it, but... only one night?
I mean, Shep and Alenko made love that famous night before Ilos, ok, then they killed Saren, they got some broken limbs, sometime had to pass... but when they are back on the Normandy hunting Geths why didn't they do it again? O_O[/quote]
This can be taken in a few ways.
Some people imply that it's a one night stand, from Kaidan's "This can't change anything." Really, he means that if they live through tomorrow, it can't mess with their social standing within their jobs (ex: Shepard throwing away the fate of the galaxy for the sake of Kaidan's well being would be a bad thing and he wouldn't have forgiven her for it) because loyalty to the Alliance is still #1.
Which could be implication #2, they only got the night before Ilos before going back to the Alliance after the attack on the Citadel, not getting arrested for mutiny since they did in fact make it through, and going back to the flirtiness but in a constant state of, "No time for love, Dr. Jones!" and back to waiting for that shore leave. They might not have had the time for it on top of everything else.
Implication #3: Kaidan is a romantic, much as he tries to deny it. The night before Ilos, he admitted his feelings to Shepard - no turning back, no way out (and from the game's perspective, whether Shepard sleeps with him then or not, that night still meant everything to him; probably not intentional, but still). The night before Ilos was an emotional highlight of his life; anything after it was probably fun but less likely to mean "everything" to him more than Ilos already had.
*Shrug?* It's however you want to think of it, like everything else that's intentionally left vague. At least until ME3 when the writers say, "What, the fans think that meant something? Bah! Let's show them!" and set it in stone. (Or, you know, leave it alone completely, in which case it's vague again).
And although FemShep is the only one who can romance him without modding, you might have wanted to talk about this in the Kaidan thread.

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Sorry, I'm new and not so good with the use of internet forums, not to speak other things concerning technology

Someone somewhere told me to use the mass effect 2 faces database to change the name, the problem is that I had already seen that, and I tried, I really tried, but things like "Under the "Raw" tab, "[-] 2. Squad", and a expanded "[+] Player" located
the "First Name" field" means nothing to me (the only computers I'm able to hack into are those in ME bacause it's sooooooo easy)

About Kaidan, do I have to quit the discussion here and begin another one in the right topic?
Thank you!