Suspire wrote...
Sinapus wrote...
...at risk of being called a dirty old man, I do have to ask if one cannot appreciate a strong female character and also appreciate how she looks? One can multitask, after all... *evil grin*
(Though I would guess posting that Chuck Avery clip probably gave me away on that part....) 
Uh, I do, and I'm a woman?
I mean... I have to admit I feel scared of pissing off my fellow feminists sometimes, they would probably have my head. I love strong females, Ripley is one of my favorite characters ever and I'm always saying we need more Ripleys
But I also love superficial things like sex appeal. I feel divided. Maybe it's cause I'm not straight. But I have no problems with Lara Croft (er actually I drool over Lara Croft), and while I think there should be limits to bouncing boobs, I'm a bit of a perv. I've been working on a pinup-type picture of my Shepard for months, but sometimes I'm REALLY scared of ever posting it anywhere, cause it's basically "glorified sexuality" and I don't wanna seem like a hypocrite.
Hmmm... Well, I guess my take is on if the female owns her sexuality or it's something that's pasted onto her - like, is it that it's part of who she is and she's still her own subject with likes, dislikes, etc. or has she completely become an object and we don't even bother thinking about her as a person?
For example, most of the ME women are really cool characters whose sexuality is a part of who they are. i mean, possibly the horniest woman in the game is Tali, and I don't find her overly sexualized at all. That annoying butt shot of Miri (with the "Investigate" option right over her crack) annoys me because it's just so blatant. It's like, let's ignore that this woman is possibly the most useful squaddie you've got. She's got a BUTT! take sometime like Liara's little wiggle when she's talking about her research in the debriefing room after rescuing her on therum. it calls attention to her figure, but it's not like it's weirdly out of place. it's sort of this unconcious moment of her being adorable. and tali managed to be super attractive to people and she shows the least skin out of everyone.
anyhow, my take. that's part of why i think femshep is a character who can romance anyone she wants and yet she doesn't seem like a mere piece of meat. you know her motivations for who she cares about and what she wants and she owns it. so, yeah, my take, anyhow.