Valentyna wrote...
The thing is, though, that you spend an AWFUL lto of time dealing with eveyrone ELSE's personal issues. You helpp people find their fathers, and save their sisters, and reunite with their sons. You travel the galaxy so your teamates can seek petty vengeance and personal redemption. You help Tali clear her father's name (despite his actual guilt), and Samarra kill her dauighter (or at least thats what you TELL everyone), and Jack get some catharsis for her tortured-child-crazy-person issues. You even take time off from preventing the extinction of all sentient life to deal with Krogan puberty. Its not as though ive used a stop watch, but I suspect that you spend more time doing team-mate loyalty missions, than on all the major plot-points of the game combined, including the finale. ANd before, and after, and during each one you TALK to them about it constantly.
Hell, yoyu even take pit stops along the way to settle bets bout presidium fish, and dispense relationship advice to Asari, and get boozy with Dr. chakwas about her co-dependency issues.
With al that it seems a little rediculous to claim that there isn't time for Shepard to take an hour one evening to cry on a friend's shoulder so to speak. Something to let us know she's at least a little bit human.
I agree. I dont want her to be all weepy, and useless. Thats not the tough-as-nails woman we've come to know and love playing. But thats not the same thing as never talking to anyone about any part of your life at all ever. I dont really see it as a gender-issue, now I think about it - tereotypes aside, its not as if men are born without feelings, either.
I'd like to see, as someone else suggested, the OPTION to do that. Just like you CAN be the mission-centric hardass, and tell your people you dont ahv etime for their personal problems, so you should be able to be the inhumanly stoic action heroine, and shrug it off your own setbacks with a casual "we have work to do". But you should be able to choose to go the other route as well. At least, I, for one, would enjoy it.
This. After all that Shepard has done for her squadmates and crewmembers, I was hoping that some of them would be like, "Hey Shepard, thanks for doing this for me. If you need anything, just ask." Or, "Shepard, anytime you need to vent, come look for me."