Okay, the vast majority of us are aware of the fact that both Ashley and Kaidan have been neglected and overlooked for an extended period of time, and this is understandably upsetting the respective fanbase of each character. Considering the fact that this is the FemShep thread, many of our participants are Kaidan fans. I sympathise with your plight, and the struggles that you are enduring.
I've met some wonderful friends in this thread, amongst them a passionate Kaidan fan who adores his character, and has also lent her support to FemShep and her fans. Over the past few weeks, poor Chignon has felt increasingly desperate, saddened, irritated, dismayed, upset and hopeless regarding the situation with Ashley and, in particular, Kaidan. She's a wonderfully nice person and a great friend, and it saddens me to see her feeling so depressed.
As a result, I've taken it upon myself to create a small gift for her. It's not much, and my image editing abilities are rudimentary at best, but I wanted to do something to make her feel better.
This is for you, Chignon, and to all Kaidan fans by extension:

Don't ever lose hope. I remain confident that your FemSheps will be reunited with Kaidan, and that everything will work out.