Gilsa wrote...
@SkaldFish -- Loved reading about your experiences with both male and female Shepard. (Awesome screenshots, too!) I am curious if the romances feel different to you on a femShep. Do you miss the LIs for John Shepard? Or is it all the same?
Thanks, Gilsa. The romance question is an interesting one, because you asked me if the romances
feel different. Yes, they do, and the whole issue kinda gives me pause, to be honest. Playing ManShep, it all felt kind of fun, like double icing on the game's cake. Shep (especially in ME2) had female teammates pretty much falling all over him, even to the point of Kelly Chambers giving him relationship tips like some kind of bizarre matchmaker. It all felt very cartoonish and stereotypical (some scenes in the Shadow Broker DLC being exceptions).
I know we're talking about a game here, but, unless you play a femShep to romance, for example, Miranda, in which case you're following the same script as you'd follow with manShep,the romance aspect is quite different -- almost as if somebody at BioWare was thinking that "good girl commanders don't act that way." Which, as it turns out, may not be such a bad thing. It actually adds some depth to the character by increasing a feeling of isolation. "I'm Shepard, and life is not always that good." Even the Kaiden/femShep romance in ME1 felt somewhat more realistic than the "I'm Shepard, and you are my favorite babe on the Normandy" stuff in ME2.
Nothing wrong with the game providing that; but it definitely feels different. (For some of my friends, it's the best part.) I've found that I play a more serious game with Rhea -- often just plain avoiding the romance stuff altogether. BUT -- and I can't be objective about this -- it could just be that I avoid them because I realize that I'm playing the character who's about to lay a big sloppy one on Thane, and suddenly entertainment has left the building.