Saibh wrote...
Arlana Tabris wrote...
Wynne wrote...
*lol* Yeah, they're better in pairs! *grinning*

CalJones wrote...
Re: Cullen... he was pretty interesting, but face it, were he romanceable, he'd be another classic Bioware knightly type who needs you to play therapist. And I'm tired of those.
And no dead wife, girlfriend or sister please.
THIS. So much. God, I am sick of that one. Anomen, Carth, Thane, sort-of Kaidan, Zevran, Leliana goes on about Marjolaine, Sky...there are way too many. I could take another charming, good guy male lead, but I do not want another dead love (or sister) type thing going on.
Is it really that attractive to women to be number two, or does BioWare only think it does? Maybe they think that we're attracted to guys we know can love? Ugh, this one drives me nuts.
Took me a while to find… I’ll just leave it here (disregard, if someone else has already posted this):
http://forums.biowar...orum=135&sp=675
I’ll quote the relevant part (taken from the first Developer’s post on that page):
David Gaider wrote...
The kind of guy with that broken-nose ruggedness, the sort that would pick you up like you weighed a feather and throw you against the wall to kiss you. The sort that growls more than he talks, that sort of thing. I'll have to try writing someone like that sometime.
*hopes that time has come* 
Yeah, that kind of guy--but only if I'm more than a match for him. No being carried around like I'm a child all the time, please. (Thanks so much for the link, Arlana!)
Kaidan how? He liked a girl when he was a kid and killed a man because of her? I liked his explanation that it made him realize the others were just like us, some good, some bad.
I don't know if I want a romance where the LI has never been in a relationship before and if you've been in a relationship you probably have baggage, good memories or bad ones. Good ones, I don't mind hearing about them if they remind him of me and bad ones, he can tell me how much better I am with my bow. and all of them help round out the character.
Alistair romance was nice, my mage also had not been in a relationship before and my elf rogue was happy to teach him.
But there are only so many past a LI can have. Unknown past relationships (maybe Kaidan); Childhood sweethearts (Dawn Star); no previous relationships at all (Alistair and Liara maybe Silk Fox); a spouse or partner who died or left, with or without kids who died or left (Sky and maybe Leliana she did the leaving) or maybe the kids are gown<3 Carth my Carth and Thane; one who loves em and leaves em including me; or loves em and leaves em until me (Zev). Maybe a few more that I can't think of right now.
I'm number 2 in my husbands life.

Growing up I always said I'd rather be someones last love not his first.
and for me, I don't want to be more than a match for my guy at everything, that would be boring to me, but I do want some of my skills to top his. If he's stronger with a 2handed weapon, I'm faster with dual blades, I use magic, he welds a bow. Not sure I want to be thrown against the wall for a kiss, but tripped into a hay stack can be fun.