My faq is a good place to start. Honestly, i'd suggest romancing both Alistair and Zevran, though... approval is a serious issue with Zevran if he's romanced -- you have to keep him below the jealousy thresh hold, which means not too much tent time.
Zevran has to be at 26+ to not side with Taliesen. Just giving him his plot gifts will do this. HOWEVER, be very careful in the conversation at 26+ not to shut off the romance permanently. It is really easy to do this, actually.
Zevran's romance is far better if done slowly instead of all of it post-landsmeet. I mean, it can be done, but it is not nearly the same, plus the tent time before/after talk, without dialog tweaks, is inappropriate. Consider rushing Alistair's romance all in post landsmeet (to avoid the dumping). same thing. It just loses a lot of its meaning.
Another alternative is to have the jealousy threshhold be hit and choose Zevran, or dump Alistair after you learn he is going to be king as you realize you don't have a future with him (this can gain you approval with Alistair).
The nice thing about a slow romance with Zevran is you learn more about him, sooner, so you're not suddenly getting hit with a lot of information all at once. Plus, well, his romance-related discussions are really kind of weird if you're getting the early ones after he falls in love. Plus, he sounds so much happier and warmer throughout the romance as his approval raises.
Zevran's romance, I think, has him falling in love the entire time and fighting it until he just can't fight it any more. he certainly trusts a lover far sooner than a friend.
Another interesting dynamic, though, with Taliesen is if you have Zevran romanced and between 26 interested and 70 care as he may leave the fight and you can ask him about it, and about his relationship with taliesen. This actually works quite well, because you can ask him about his sexual history before he hits love. You do get the talk about his last mission later as he needs to be at adore or friendly (you'll hit adore first, but still -- it's after Taliesen which in many ways makes more sense).
Modifié par ejoslin, 03 décembre 2010 - 08:52 .