It makes sense to me, Yankee. Though in Marlana's case, she wants nothing to do with the chalice, since while she didn't throw the fuss others have, the Joining marked when life became hell. Except for Alistair and her other companions.
Kaylith, my CEF, would've appreciated it as a gift, because other than the whole thing with Vaughn, she was happy to get out of the Alienage. And has been happy to have the chance to kick human ass from time to time.
Vanessa, my mage, would just be confused, since she didn't really want to help Jowan, but felt forced into it with Irving's insistance. And she most certainly didn't want to leave the tower since she remembers what life in the Denerim slums was like, and the tower was a huge improvement. (That's character's PoV, player PoV is pretty dim on how the circle is run.)