LadyDamodred wrote...
Uh...that's not what I said. You said my thoughts were counter-intuitive, and I was pointint out why they're not and why they would fit. Nor am I saying that's the only reason she leaves, but it is one. Does she not say she won't stay and watch you die?
I didnt' say it wasn't a reason. You said it's the main reason.
I am disputing this.
Then I truly fail to see why people love Morrigan. It's awfully hard to love someone who doesn't really love you back.
That depends entirely on how you define love.
The kind of love you are talking about, for me, is weakness.
That is what I find incredibly sad. *shrugs* I find very few things are worth doing when you don't have anyone you love or who loves you. I suspect that this is now getting into personal areas, and will let it drop.
Even when it's about change of the world on a massive scale and forces beyond the ordinary?
No thank you, I prefer Morrigan who has her priorities straight.
To me, that's simply lust, then. Not passion. Perhaps I see a difference where none exists. Again, probably wandering too close to personal areas.
Lust implies only sexuality involved, which was not the case. It was much more. But not enough to alter any of us dramatically.
And yes, it's getting personal and I don't mind (if it's about me, if you mind getting eprsonal about your life, I udnerstand).
I recently broke of with someone I genuinely thought I was starting to love and I have no doubt she did as well.
But we came to the conclusion that we had differences that will make us incompatible, and we both knew neither of us will change. And both of us did not expect the other to change, because we knew how stubborn we are.
Did I feel sad? Yes. Hurt? Possibly initially. But I strongly respected her for what she did and I respected even more when she said that she didn't expect me to change for her, that's not the Ayman she knew. The fact that she knew me and had no illusions to the contrary, was something I valued. Vice versa.
Because yes, some things are really more important than love. And I think it was more than lust, even though she was drool worthy.
And please don't take me using that personal example as a way to end the discussion, and certainly not to take pity at me (I will find that insulting).
Modifié par KnightofPhoenix, 21 janvier 2011 - 05:19 .