Siduri wrote...
gamestress wrote...
Heyas new to the forums and of course I have to pop into the thread dedicated to Alistair. I've played through all the endings and I'm pretty sure I'll never let him leave me again! I remember the first time a mage of mine made him king and when afterward he said, "Look, we need to talk".. argh!
This entire dialog in my head went NOTHING like the numerical options they placed before me:
1. What?? After all we've been through?? After all I've done for you? *I* put your ass on the throne and now YOU want to leave ME??
2. Have your damn rose back. *Cutscene. GW throws rose. Thorns scratch Alistair. Alistair winces and gives an Alistairesque. "hayeee!" GW then continues in a mocking voice, "Oh here's pretty rose, see the pretty rose, I picked it and it was pretty and you're pretty..blah blah blah!!"
3. Fine! Have fun killing the bloody Archdemon on your own!! I'm going HOME!
4. You bahstaahd!!!
What can I say? I was hurt.. :-D
I did that on my second playthrough, knowing full well what was coming, and I was STILL hurt! I told him he was an ass and got -5 approval or something like that, and I was like "OH YEAH??? WELL -20 APPROVAL TO YOU BUDDY."
It's not that he's wrong in what he's saying--it's that he gives up so easily. There's magic in this world, there's the Urn, etc: there's got to be ways around the fertility thing. I understand where the character is coming from--feeling that he has to give up the thing that means the most to him because Duty and Sacrifice yadda yadda--but he lays it down as an ultimatum, which is frustrating. I guess the real frustration is that it's, you know, a video game, which means you can't have an actual conversation with him!
I got this on my first female PC playthrough. I was astonished by how much I felt like I'd really been dumped. It was extremely effective. And at first my Cousland PC was very unaccepting, angry, and really bad at her job. Then she decided he was right, much as she didn't want to admit it, and grudgingly accepted it, even respected him for it. It
would be a crappy thing to do to his wife when he married, and breaking up
would only get more difficult. She wouldn't like being his mistress when he was married elsewhere, and she knew that by any natural means, an heir
would be impossible. Blood magic was apparently a possibility, given the DR, but while she found that acceptable to ensure Alistair's survival, both because he was king and selfishly, she didn't think blood magic should be the go-to solution for every problem--or any that didn't involve the end of the world, really. Rock--hard place. She stayed on as chancellor because while it hurt to be near him, it would have been worse to leave.
My characters since then have been more selfish, making Wynne's prediction about love being selfish all too true.