Sialater wrote...
Well, just to drag it back in... Would Alistair make overtures to Orlais?
I think it first depends on what you mean by "overtures". Politically, maybe. Romantically, I highly doubt it given Ferelden's recent bad relations with Orlais. Even if Alistair were wililng to consider it, I don't think the Ferelden nobility would even begin to accept it until at least the current older generation - the ones who fought against the Orlesian occupancy - were dead.
As far as politically, I think he would still have trouble with the Bannorn, even if Alistair himself doesn't seem to have difficult with Orlais. You don't really get any undercurrent of resent, for instance, when he talks about the Orlesian Wardens, though that could be in part because they are primarily Wardens and secondarily Orlesian in his mind.
Still, in many ways the king rules at the sufferance of the nobles, and I think they would be perfectly willing to rebel against him should enough of them resist an attempt on Alistair's behalf to treat with Orlais. Anything that he did would probably have to be done very slowly, and later in his rule when he has hopefully convinced the Bannorn that he is competent and trustworthy.