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[Kryyptehk]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...
 it's not like he could force them to leave him.

He can punch them to get the point across.

Domestic Abuse = The best solution ever.

(I'm just kidding, don't gut me:P)

[Briiel]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Aeowyn wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sigh, why are people so literal minded? What happened to poetic metaphors?

They died out as soon as men stopped wooing women

Which is a shame, imo.

Yeah if a guy woo's me I would be a happy camper !! I am very romantic at heart so I get what your saying KoP.
In a relationship and the person your with is someone you truly want to be with . They are someone your attached to . yes you can live without them but living with them makes your soul soar .It's like finding something you've been missing.

But then I listen to music that has Lyrics like "When two become one" and "When you really love a woman,You tell her that she's the one":wub:

[Skyl4rk]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skyl4rk wrote...
And personally, the whole "I love you and I can't live without you" concept is not something I agree with. It just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. To me it's more like, "I love you, but I can live without you. I just don't want to."

If taken literally, of course.
But I don't know, being told "Meeh, I can live without you just fine, I don't need you for anything and I am just here with you to have some fun along the way, which I can just as easily find it somewhere else, I just don't want to be bothered looking" is not something that would make me feel warm inside.

Now if saying that someone is needed for a happy life, that is fine for me. Still depends on how it is said. If someone literally falls apart without you, well then that is unhealthy.  

Well, I just said that phrase to put things in a nutshell (and also I lack the eloquence).  But what I'm trying to get at was that having the kind of depency on a person is not the right way to carry a relationship.  Someone always end up being miserable.  It's more like what Lady J said - I can still carry on despite a loved one's absence.  albeit not ideally perfect, but still, it's a life I can still face.  Now, if I have a choice to be with him, I will definitely take it.

[Addai]

Sarah1281 wrote...

yukidama wrote...

Yeah, from the toolset-
"What about Leliana, then? I mean, sure... hot... but I don't like the idea of you leading her on."

If that's what it says, it sounds more like he finds two girls together hot which we know is true from when you proposition Isabela.

That's my interpretation, and you can't blame a guy for looking.

I also don't find the Isabela threesome OOC.  Not the way it's presented, i.e. that it doesn't occur to him until his lover suggests it and persuades him to do it.  There is a lot in Alistair's banters to show he's not Chantry on the inside.

[Sarah1281]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...
 it's not like he could force them to leave him.

He can punch them to get the point across.

While he didn't think he'd even be able to stand? He didn't seem to have the strength for that. Hell, he doesn't even sit up.

[inclemency]

Sarah1281 wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Then not as bad as in Saudi Arabia, where you get flogged for PDAs.

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

There were days in high school when I was late to class because people wouldn't stop making out in all the stairwells that I'd agree with you.

Lol, watching? or participating? 

[Skadi_the_Evil_Elf]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

[Zjarcal]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Zjarcal wrote...
Well, Bryce doesn't seem to make much of an effort to make her go.

And he should have!
For all he knows, Howe's men could subjugate her to the most horrific acts imaginable.

Eh. My thoughts on this scenario have already been expressed on the thread dedicated to this subject, so I guess it's no surprise that it doesn't bother me that he didn't.

[Kryyptehk]

Sarah1281 wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Then not as bad as in Saudi Arabia, where you get flogged for PDAs.

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

There were days in high school when I was late to class because people wouldn't stop making out in all the stairwells that I'd agree with you.

Hmm...sorry about that I'm a very...affectionate person. lol Just kidding (maybe)

[Sarah1281]

inclemency wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Then not as bad as in Saudi Arabia, where you get flogged for PDAs.

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

There were days in high school when I was late to class because people wouldn't stop making out in all the stairwells that I'd agree with you.

Lol, watching? or participating? 

Attempting to get them to notice the huge crowd of people forming that couldn't get to the stairs because they were blocking it, actually. And then there were the ones who blocked the lockers...

[inclemency]

Okay, posting today's fun screenshot. Random age must have blipped after adding the mobs, so had some fun with them...

[Skadi_the_Evil_Elf]

Aeowyn wrote...


You really crack me up sometimes Skadi.
Would've loved for a quick scene after a battle for Alistair to go "You. Me. Behind the bush. Now"

Now there's a PDA I'd totally make an exception for.:wub:

[Zjarcal]

inclemency wrote...

Okay, posting today's fun screenshot. Random age must have blipped after adding the mobs, so had some fun with them...

Is that an actual screenshot or did you manipulate it? Either way, I love it!

[Kryyptehk]

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

I don't particularly care about PDA either. I don't know, I guess I don't care about what other people do as long as it doesn't interrupt what I'm doing.

But the LIs in DA are totally up to doing it in public. Heck, they practically make out in front of their friends all the time! Not to mention airing all their relationship laundry in front of other people (declaration of love/ breaking up/ blah).

[inclemency]

Zjarcal wrote...

inclemency wrote...

Okay, posting today's fun screenshot. Random age must have blipped after adding the mobs, so had some fun with them...

Is that an actual screenshot or did you manipulate it? Either way, I love it!

It's a real screenshot.  Random age added the mobs in the Brecilian Forest, but a few of them weren't clickable as enemies, so took some screens...was pretty funny.  Wondered just what they all had been smoking in the forest.

[KnightofPhoenix]

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...
I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

Well it wouldn't ruin my day either. I just think when I am walking on the street, I don't really want to see others being too affectionate in my way. Or when I am at a restaurant trying to eat with my family. They can do that somewhere private and not bother the rest.

So it doesn't really matter to me whether it's banned or allowed. I slightly side with banning because of personal convinction, as long as it's reasonable and not excessive like consdering holding hands or hugging to be PDA. But I wouldn't make an agenda out of it. I prefer letting society and culture regulate itself on its own, without the government. I think it has done well so far back home, in this at least.

Modifié par KnightofPhoenix, 18 octobre 2010 - 02:19 .

[Lady Jess]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Then not as bad as in Saudi Arabia, where you get flogged for PDAs.

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think excessive PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

I know you've told us, but I completely forget where are you from KoP?

[Kryyptehk]

Sarah1281 wrote...

inclemency wrote...

Sarah1281 wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Then not as bad as in Saudi Arabia, where you get flogged for PDAs.

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

There were days in high school when I was late to class because people wouldn't stop making out in all the stairwells that I'd agree with you.

Lol, watching? or participating? 

Attempting to get them to notice the huge crowd of people forming that couldn't get to the stairs because they were blocking it, actually. And then there were the ones who blocked the lockers...

That is exhibitionism They knew, they just didn't care. In my school, people tended to be less open about their affection, probably because no one really liked each other.

(To keep this post on topic: Alistair could probably be convinced to exhibitionist. At least if K!Meme is anything to go on lol)

[Skadi_the_Evil_Elf]

Kryyptehk wrote...

I don't particularly care about PDA either. I don't know, I guess I don't care about what other people do as long as it doesn't interrupt what I'm doing.

But the LIs in DA are totally up to doing it in public. Heck, they practically make out in front of their friends all the time! Not to mention airing all their relationship laundry in front of other people (declaration of love/ breaking up/ blah).

And if you have the right mods, Morrigan will even get it on with you right in the middle of Denerim market. Or a Chantry!

[Aeowyn]

Kryyptehk wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Yea, not as bad as that. Though I don't really know the legal implciations, if there are any.
People just don't do that and that's that.

It's something I agree with, I think PDA is inappropriate (not the punishment, just that it's inappropriate). The distinction between public and private is a good thing imo.  

I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

I don't particularly care about PDA either. I don't know, I guess I don't care about what other people do as long as it doesn't interrupt what I'm doing.

But the LIs in DA are totally up to doing it in public. Heck, they practically make out in front of their friends all the time! Not to mention airing all their relationship laundry in front of other people (declaration of love/ breaking up/ blah).

I think Sten likes to watch....

[Lady Jess]

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...
I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

Well it wouldn't ruin my day either. I just think when I am walking on the street, I don't really want to see others being too affectionate in my way. OIr when I am at a resturant tryign to eat with my family. They can do that somewhere private and not bother the rest.

So it doesn't really matter to me whether it's banned or allowed. I slightly side with banning because of personal convinction, as long as it's reasonable and not excessive like holding hands or hugging is now a PDA. But I wouldn't make an agenda out of it. I prefer letting society and culture regulate itself on its own, without the government. I think it has done weel so far back home, in this at least.

Thats one thing nice about living on an army post. No PDA in uniform, so you don't see alot past hand holding. And when we have a formal even like a ball, noone is sucking each others faces off on the dance floor, because...guys are in uniform. Handholding and hugging, and a chaste kiss is the limit. It's a nice atmosphere.

[Kryyptehk]

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...

Kryyptehk wrote...

I don't particularly care about PDA either. I don't know, I guess I don't care about what other people do as long as it doesn't interrupt what I'm doing.

But the LIs in DA are totally up to doing it in public. Heck, they practically make out in front of their friends all the time! Not to mention airing all their relationship laundry in front of other people (declaration of love/ breaking up/ blah).

And if you have the right mods, Morrigan will even get it on with you right in the middle of Denerim market. Or a Chantry!

Okay, Morrigan doing it in a Chantry could practically be canon. Come on, you know she would/has before!

[KnightofPhoenix]

Lady Jess wrote...
I know you've told us, but I completely forget where are you from KoP?

Syria. Damascus specifically.

[Kryyptehk]

Lady Jess wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Skadi_the_Evil_Elf wrote...
I myself could care less about PDAs. I personally do like restricting romantically inclined interactions to areas without an audience, but if other people want to, I don't really care. So long as it does not involve opening trenchcoats and displaying their tawdry wares, or copulating on the hood of my car on a morning I'm late for work, I can pretty much phase it out.

Well it wouldn't ruin my day either. I just think when I am walking on the street, I don't really want to see others being too affectionate in my way. OIr when I am at a resturant tryign to eat with my family. They can do that somewhere private and not bother the rest.

So it doesn't really matter to me whether it's banned or allowed. I slightly side with banning because of personal convinction, as long as it's reasonable and not excessive like holding hands or hugging is now a PDA. But I wouldn't make an agenda out of it. I prefer letting society and culture regulate itself on its own, without the government. I think it has done weel so far back home, in this at least.

Thats one thing nice about living on an army post. No PDA in uniform, so you don't see alot past hand holding. And when we have a formal even like a ball, noone is sucking each others faces off on the dance floor, because...guys are in uniform. Handholding and hugging, and a chaste kiss is the limit. It's a nice atmosphere.

That's just because they don't want to get the uniforms wrinkled;)

[KnightofPhoenix]

Lady Jess wrote...
Thats one thing nice about living on an army post. No PDA in uniform, so you don't see alot past hand holding. And when we have a formal even like a ball, noone is sucking each others faces off on the dance floor, because...guys are in uniform. Handholding and hugging, and a chaste kiss is the limit. It's a nice atmosphere.

It sure is.
Too bad we can't run the world like the military huh.