tuppence95 wrote...
Yes, I completely agree with this bolded statement. I think, if Duncan had lived, Alistair might have been dismayed by some of his decisions. I think Gaider said Duncan might have just decided to completely abandon Ferelden.
To join the Wardens at the borders, yes. Not completely abandon the fight against the blight like Alistair did.
Just saying, because I know someone will say "Aha!" on the Landsmeet issue.
tuppence95 wrote...
But I don't think Alistair is self-centered in a selfish, "I'm more important than you are" way. Often extremely insecure people come across as being selfish. But their insecurities and fears do hold such a strong place in their minds that they become self-centered ... if that makes any sense.
Yes, and I've always stressed that by self-centered, I do not mean selfish. Just that he thinks that things revolve around him, when they don't and even if they do, more important things are at stake.
tuppence95 wrote...
*edited to add - also the only knowing them 6 months issue never was important in my mind. It didn't matter if he only knew them for one week. They were the first glimmer of hope that he had in his life, and when that was suddenly taken away from him, I think it crushed his spirit.
I think it was rather the image he gave them that was shattered and not the reality of it.
See, I personally do not think that 6 months is enough to develop a real bond with complete strangers as to consider them family and grieve for them this much unless they were fighting side by side in battles, which I don't think happened yet.
I think, again, that he didn't love the Wardens for who they are, but for the image he projected on them. An understandable image, for the reasons you've posted, but it's somewhat naive.
In fact, I think he was so in love with this image that he completely ignored the ruthlessness expected from Wardens. He says it himself, Wardens do whatever is necessary. He saw Duncan kill Jory without hesitation. He presumabely knows what Wardens did in the past. And he wasn't bothered, because he belived they were his family. That also contributed to my interpretation that Alistair is not really concerned about morality as much as people would think.
EDIT: actually, Alistair might have fought in the 3 battles before Ostagar.
I guess a better way to explain this is that Alistair saw the Wardens as family, which could be true, but they were a military order first and foremost, potential family second.
Modifié par KnightofPhoenix, 06 novembre 2010 - 04:21 .