Tigress M wrote...
I just dug out what I think is an interesting nugget in a conversation with Loghain. Don't shoot me for bringing up the Fiona subject, but I'd like to hear if those who believe Fiona is Alistair's son can help me understand how Loghain's comments below fit into that theory.
PC: How well did you know King Maric?
Loghain: He was my friend. If he'd wanted to conquer the Fade, I would have led the charge.
PC: Why didn't he acknowledge Alistair?
Loghain: He nearly did. Maric was never one to avoid his duty, and given his preference he would have acknowledged his son no matter the circumstance. But he had more than his honor to think of. It would have ruined Rowan, after all. She'd be reduced to a concubine in the eyes of our neighbors, and put Cailan's status as heir in question. So Maric made the hard choice. Eamon offered to raise the boy, and that was that.
Why, on two counts? Why would it have ruined Rowan since she's dead. How could having a relationship after her death change her status as lawful wife? And, why would it put Cailan's status as heir in question?
Not to necro an already dead discussion and regurgitate what others have already responded...but I just wanted to express my opinion as well. So please, bear with me...or just ignore
From that line, I’ve always thought that it was only playing to Loghain’s emotional attachment to Rowan. Maybe he only meant that her memory deserved much better than being labeled as just one of the lovers that Maric had taken. Even though he was not the promiscuous type, we all know how gossip tend to get embellished and completely branch out from the truth, and I think that was how Loghain saw it and feared.
As for the “ruin” of Rowan, I didn’t think he was speaking of Rowan herself. It was more like (once again) her image/memory. Consider how Fiona had 3 strikes against her: Orlesian, Elf, and Mage. If Maric had acknowledged Alistair as his own, what kind of message would that give to the people of Ferelden? This is of course looking through Loghain’s logic (and most likely the majority of the Orlesian-hating, Elven-prejudice, Mage-fearing populace’s as well).
For Cailan’s status as heir, if the people knew about Alistair as an acknowledged son of Maric, it’s only natural to follow the stronger leader. And we all know what kind of king Cailan was.

Anyway, just my own interpretation on it.